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Who Invited Her?

148 EpisodesProduced by Tony B, Bash, and Mariam T. An LGBTQ / gay, pop-culture talk show from San Diego, California!Website

An LGBTQ, gay, pop-culture talk show podcast from Hillcrest in San Diego! We are just a few locals drinking, laughing and talking about whatever we want. Why? Because we're nobody of importance. Listen for laughs, mindless banter, or just white noise to get you through your day. (www.whoinvitedher.… read more

148 Episodes | 2017 - 2020

148 Superstitionsss

October 21st, 2020


This week it is about superstitions!  Where do they come from and do they really work? The gang is joined by Brynne, host of the podcast "Filmspringa."  We get to know a bit about Brynne and her podcasting background. …

147 Ice Scream

October 14th, 2020


If you're lactose intolerant, then take a pill for this episode!  The gang talks about their favorite Halloween horror films and what ice cream …

146 Tarot with Luis

October 7th, 2020


The Gang gets a bit mystical this week with their guest, Luis from the Tarot Project Community. Luis is tarot expert and dives deep into what tarot is, how it influences his life, and how he uses it to help others.  He …

145 Stoner TV

September 30th, 2020


it's a whole episode of Stoner TV! We chat about some unknown facts about cannabis, the gang partakes in their favorite cannabis, and throughout this …

144 Get Game

September 23rd, 2020


This week it's a whole episode about games!  We play a round of Guess the Game Show Theme Song, we talk about our favorite games, we play a trivia …

143 Obsession

September 16th, 2020


It's like a full episode of The Click this week.  This the gang talks about all the things they are obsessed with right now: music, TV, fast food, …

142 Dungeons & Drag Queens

September 9th, 2020


This week our friends, Lex and Sadie, call in from Toronto!  They have been together for nearly two years, have recently married, and they are both transgender women. Lex (they/them) is a part of the Sisters of …

141 It's a Lotta Michelada

September 2nd, 2020


She's Back!!! Michele Ada is back to co-host this episode with the gang. It's Hispanic Heritage Month! We talk about some of the most influetional LATINAS in American history. Do you think there is enough latino …

140 Sun's Out, Buns Out

August 26th, 2020


It's hot as a jockstrap this week, and the gang is staying cool while talking about everything HOT!  What's your favorite summertime food, movies, …

139 It's Iconic

August 19th, 2020


This week, it's all about icons. Who is your favorite icon, and why?  We talk about a new musical based off an icon that started here in San Diego.  We give a little history on icons within the LGBTQ community that are …

138 You Need to Calm Down

August 13th, 2020


It's all about relaxation this week. Well, at least we try to relax. We talk about what we all are doing in our downtime now that we have more of it, tips on how to relax, and how to stay calm in this crazy world. …

137 Catchin' Up with Mr. Malone!

August 4th, 2020


Mr. Malone (aka Fagsy) is back!  And we have some catching up to do. Mr. Malone is a podcaster who can be heard on "Straight Talk with Ross Mathews" and his own podcast "It's a Gay, Gay, Gay, Gay Podcast with Mr. …

136 Secrets, Stories & Confessions

July 29th, 2020


This week we have to start by chatting about the RPDR All Stars 5 finale. Then we get into some old stories including our thoughts on religion and …

135 Disney ExtravaGAYnza

July 22nd, 2020


It's all things DISNEY today! Plus some things not so Disney, and a whole lotta gay.  The gang gets into some Disney lore, Disney news, favorite …

134 No-Carb Cookie

July 15th, 2020


Food Glorious Food!  The gang talks about food this week! What is your favorite snack?  If you had a cooking show, what would it be?  We get into a …

133 Show your PRIDE!

July 8th, 2020


HAPPY PRIDE! This week the gang is ready to celebrate pride even if we are doing it from our own living room! We talk to each other about our first pride experiences, we let everyone know how we have been celebrating …

132 Show & Tell with Eddie Danger!

July 1st, 2020


Our buddy Eddie Danger calls in and joins us for a live recording on YouTube.  This time he brought some "toys" to show us that is best appreciated …

131 Vivvi the Force

June 24th, 2020


This week local San Diego drag queen, Vivvi the Force, joins us for a live recording on YouTube! Vivvi tells us all about the new store she is opening up in North Park, Whips N Furs, a resource for theatrical quality …

129 Slightly Soiled With Nicky Paris!

June 21st, 2020


Since we love you all so much, here is another episode this week that was recorded a few weeks ago.

Stand-up comedian and fellow podcaster, Nicky Paris, calls in to chat with the gang! Nicky has been seen on MTV, Wendy …

130 Put a Mask On It

June 17th, 2020


This week the gang is together again. Mariam is back in drag after taking a month off. We chat about the current events of the week and how we are all doing. We wonder if Gen X is best suited for handling a pandemic. …

128 Black Drag Magic

June 9th, 2020


Local San Diego drag queen, Strawberry Corncakes, calls in to chat about her upcoming digital drag show, "Black Drag Magic" on June 26 @ 7PM PT on Facebook Live. Get ready for an amazing digital drag experience! …

127 Mother's Little Helpers

May 27th, 2020


Tony chats with director Kestrin Pantera, SNL alum Melanie Hutsell, and actor Cool Benson all from the movie "Mother's Little Helper" which premiered …

126 On the Rocks with Alexander Rodriguez!

May 20th, 2020


Alexander Rodriguez from the "On the Rocks Radio Show" joins us live on YouTube! Never caught without his signature matching tie, pocket square, and a cocktail or two in hand, Alexander interviews Academy Award …

125 Is It Dangerous?

May 13th, 2020


This week we chat about one of Mariam T's favorite restaurants that is closing. We get into our thoughts on Ryan Murphy's new show "Hollywood." Was …

124 Hercules Hercules

May 6th, 2020


This week, it's about gay Disney! What Disney films would we want to see get LGBTQ treatment? Hercules gets the live action treatment, but who would …

123 Coke Nail

April 29th, 2020


The gang is live on YouTube this week, bumpy start but we got through it.  We chat about all the virtual shows happening in San Diego with our friends. We chat about how drag is changing during the quarantine.  Are we …

122 Cheers to the Left, Cheers to the Right

April 15th, 2020


San Diego drag queen and friend of the show, Kickxy Vixen Styles, co-hosts the show this week! We chat about life stuck at home and some of our favorite gay movies. Who has the worst hygiene moment of the week?  Kickxy …

121 Not Rona

April 8th, 2020


The gang tries very hard to talk about anything other than the Coronavius this week! What happened to Lady Gaga's new album? Who is the new Gaga? When did everyone turn into marathan runner? We go through our workout …

120 Quarantina

April 1st, 2020


The gang is all apart, but yet together. This we all Skype in from our separate homes. We chat about what we have been doing while stuck at home. What shows have we been watching? What's moral fatigue, and do we have …

119 Dying for Sex with Nikki Boyer!

March 25th, 2020


Tony and Robbie are quarantined at home without the gang, so we got on the phone and chatted with Nikki Boyer!

Nikki is co-host with Ross Mathews on the “Straight Talk with Ross” podcast.  She is also a 3-time Emmy …

118 Pissi Myles!

March 18th, 2020


Drag performer, podcaster, comedian, and singer, aka "The Impeachment Queen", Pissi Myles calls in to the show! Always one to make a scene, in 2019 Pissi partnered with the streaming news app "Happs" to cover Donald …

117 Pussy Whiskers

March 12th, 2020

This week gal pal of the podcast Jennie Connard co-host the show and the gang talks all about RuPauls Drag Race season 12!! We get into all the Tea …

116 Spencer Day!

March 4th, 2020


Singer-Songwriter Spencer day drops in to chat with the gang! We learn about his start as a singer, hear about his experiences growing up gay in a …

115 Owin Pierson

February 26th, 2020


Content creator, LGBTQ influencer, mental health advocate and all around nice guy, Owin Pierson hangs out with the gang this week. We talk all about what makes an influencer, Owin gives some pointers on how to kick up …

114 Mrs. Kasha Davis!

February 19th, 2020


This week Mrs. Kasha Davis (RuPaul's Drag Race Season 7) calls in to chat with the gang! MKD tells us about her time on Drag Race, her experiences …

113 Prison Bitch

February 12th, 2020


The gang's all together this week, and one of them is running from the law! Who may be a Prison Bitch soon? We teach Megan a little bit about the male anatomy and Geography. All gay heads explode over the Super Bowl! …

112 Sheik in the Sheets

February 5th, 2020


The gang is joined by Ami Smash who co-hosts the show this week. They chat about worst break ups. What you all think of "AJ and Queen"? What pop diva …

111 Dark Corners

January 30th, 2020


This week, the gang chats with author of the book "Dark Corners," Reuben Tihi Hayslett. We chat about his collection of short stories. Hayslett’s …

110 Hogmanay

January 22nd, 2020


With Megan back with the group, the gang discusses the rest of the trip to Scotland and London.  We chat about the Hogmanay Festival in Edinburgh, Scotland, and our adventures in the Scottish highlands. We rave about …

109 Shake It Out

January 15th, 2020


The gang is back from their trip to the UK! We talk about our favorite parts of the trip, drag in the UK, British food and we find out what Robbie did in Parliament. Which cast members have magic blood? We chat about …

108 Sexy Fox

January 8th, 2020


Jennie Connard co-hosts the show this week. Tony says goodbye to his twin, Manny. We change it up and turn the show over to Rob and Eric, who give us random, surprise topics to discuss! We chat about firemen, leather, …

107 Goodbye 2019

January 1st, 2020


The gang says goodbye to 2019 with some of our favorite memories from the year. We talk about the top pop-culture moments of 2019, who remembers the …

106 Happy Holigays!

December 24th, 2019


It's the holiday season and the gang is getting into the spirit this week. We talk about our favorite Christmas songs, Christmas movies and we even …

105 Arting Around with Erik Benson

December 18th, 2019


This week local San Diego artist, Erik Benson, hangs out with the gang.  We talk about his art which is seen all over the Hillcrest neighborhood. What inspires him, and what kind of art do we like? Why 700 pages of …

104 High & ...Bi with Jason Ellis!

December 11th, 2019


Pro skateboarder, MMA fighter, and Sirius XM radio host, Jason Ellis, calls in to talk with the gang. We have an in-depth conversation about Jason's coming out story late in his career and what it is like to be bisexual …

103 All the Glitter

December 4th, 2019


This week Tony and Mariam sit down with two San Diego legends, Disco Dollie and Glitz Glam! We talk about how they both got started in drag and what …

102 Keep Your Eyes on the Lord with Naomi Daniels

November 27th, 2019


The gang is joined by San Diego drag performer Naomi Daniels! We get to know Naomi and learn about her career as a performer at Lips and around San Diego. We also have a more personal discussion about her life as a …

101 Lazy Susan

November 20th, 2019


All the way from across the border, Michele Ada fills in this week for Mariam T. We get into Disney+ and all these new streaming apps Ugh. We get an …

100 Who Ordered The Wrap?

November 13th, 2019


Who Invited Her? celebrates our 100th episode live at Urban Mo's! Who would've thought we would get to 100?! We are joined by family, friends, past …

099 Top Shelf Tease with Nina Bel Vande

November 6th, 2019


This week San Diego's #1burlesque entertainer, Nina Bel Vande, joins the gang once again! Yes, she's back, and we chat about her upcoming show, "Top Shelf Tease" at Martinis Above 4th.  Also, who's getting married? …

096 Spooky Kooky Halloween

October 31st, 2019


Happy Halloween!  Jennie from OB Playhouse co-hosts our Halloween show this week. We get into all things spooky.  What's going on with Disney's deserted island? We get an update on Tony's haunted house. We find out when …

095 It's Called Seroquel

October 30th, 2019


They're back!! Yes, it's the kick off to Season 3! It's a family affair this episode, and the gang chats about what happened on break. Why is everyone so mean?!  We attempt to play our version on The Newlywed Game. It's …

097 BONUS: HEATHERS The Musical

October 10th, 2019


It's a bonus episode while the gang is on break, all about the cult show "HEATHERS The Musical." Tony drops in at OB Playhouse in Ocean Beach San …

098 BONUS: Who Wanna Ayahuasca - part 2

September 26th, 2019


Our friend, Ros Galati, is back from her trip to Costa Rica! She dropped by to tell us all about her trip and her Ayahuasca experience. What is it …

094 Knock Knock

September 18th, 2019


The gang is all together for our season finale episode. We chat about The Red Dress Party Project 2019, The Kelly Clarkson Show, and we play a very …

093 Ghosted by Roz Drezfalez

September 4th, 2019


This week, the gang is joined by genderfluid personality, comedian, actor, and hostess of the "Ghosted!" podcast, Roz Drezfalez! Known as “The Bargain Bin Beauty,” Roz can be seen on stage literally any place in LA fine …

092 Who Wanna Ayahuasca

August 28th, 2019


Michele Ada is back to cohost this week. The gang is also joined by our friend, Ros Galati, who chats about her world travels and what she can expect on her upcoming trip to Costa Rica to take part in the Ayahuasca …

091 Designer to the Stars - Bernardo Puccio

August 21st, 2019


Our pal Miss Michele Ada fills in for Bash and Mariam T this week. We have a very special guest on the show, Interior Designer and Event Planner, Bernardo Puccio! We chat with Bernardo about his up coming memoir, "13 …

090 CJay - Can We Kick It?

August 14th, 2019


This week the gang is joined by CJay from the "Can We Kick It?" podcast and a co-host on "Straight Talk with Ross Mathews" podcast.  CJay is in town to kick off the first "Ross Mathews' Dragtastic Bubbly Brunch San …

089 Fruitfly?

August 8th, 2019


We are a day late and about 30 mins short this week! We cover the terms "fag hag" and "fruit fly," Sonic Burger, reminisce over high school fashion, …

088 Cut Me A Slice

July 31st, 2019


Miss Megs is back this week. We catch up with all her shenanigans, and we play a very revealing round of "Getting to Know You." We talk about our new post-pride diet and how awesome Stacy's mom was at Pride. Tony and …

087 Mayolllnnaise

July 24th, 2019


This week the gang is joined by artist, Franco (aka Wolftummy). We talk with Franco about what inspires his art and his love for horror. it's also …

086 Til the Water Runs Clear

July 17th, 2019


The gang is joined by our friend all the way from Savanna, Georgia, Miss Ami Champagne!  We talk about SD Pride, drag and the military, and we even have a serious moment with Ami. We talk new AHS. What do you think of …

085 Boy Butter

July 10th, 2019


This week the Gang gets down and dirty with Eyal Feldman, the owner of "Boy Butter"! We chat about how he got into the lube business and how Boy …

084 Out in Little Italy

July 3rd, 2019


This week the gang is live on Pride 48!  We invite our friend Chris to hang out with us and we talk all about the "Out in Little Italy Pride Brunch" …

083 Nina Bel Vande

June 26th, 2019


The gang is joined this week by San Diego burlesque performer, Nina Bel Vande! We talk all things burlesque, like how Nina got started in the dance. Nina and Miss Mariam T talk about the worst audience experience they …

082 Brian Justin Crum

June 19th, 2019


Bash, Megan, and Mariam T are out this week, so Tony calls in reinforcement. Jesse from Finest City Improv joins as cohost. Tony and Jesse get to chat with singer, Brian Justin Crum! We talk to Brian about how he …

081 Camp

June 12th, 2019


The gang's all back together this week! It's PRIDE season, we talk about our highs and lows of pride.  If you get married, whose name do you use? Or …

080 DragCon Spectacular!

June 5th, 2019


It's DragCon, everyone! In this episode, the gang takes on RuPaul's DragCon LA 2019, and we chat all things drag! It was an amazing weekend of love, …

079 Glen Alen

May 29th, 2019


This week the gang is joined by legendary drag queen and Emmy-winning makeup artist, Glen Alen! We talk about how Glen got started in the biz, how he started impersonating "The Divine Miss M," Bette Midler, and all …

078 Christina Bianco

May 22nd, 2019


The gang is joined this week by ‘the girl of a thousand voices,’ a two-time Drama Desk Award nominee who you have probably seen on "Ellen" and "The Today Show," Christina Bianco! She is a talented actress, singer, and …

077 Out at the Fair

May 15th, 2019


The gang is joined by Charlie and Will, the creators on the #NowTrending app and the Out at the Fair app. We talk about all things county fair, favorite fair food, and what super exciting LGBTQ events "Out at the Fair" …

076 Back To Basics

May 8th, 2019


The gang is back together this week! We try to cover a few segments we haven’t done in awhile.  We play a round of “Get the F*** Out,”  …

075 Justin Cox

May 1st, 2019


This week the gang is joined by San Diego’s very own "Fitness Guru," trainer, model and owner of American Training Performance, Justin Cox! Justin gives us tips on how to get the body ready for pride and summer. We chat …

074 March and Ash

April 24th, 2019


It's 420! This week we had Terry and Saxon drop in from the San Diego marijuana dispensary, March and Ash. We talk all things cannabis.  Saxon gets …

073 Delana Bennett

April 17th, 2019


This week the gang is joined by San Diego’s very own, Delana Bennett!  You can wake up with her and Jesse Lozano every morning on Star 94.1 FM  and listen to her on iHeart Radio and Pride Radio. We learn how Delana …

072 Ami Champagne

April 10th, 2019


The Gang is all back together this week, and they are joined by Savanah, GA drag queen, Ami Champagne! We talk about how Ami started in drag and how Ami balances drag and the military. We get into the dos and don’ts of …

071 The Center

April 3rd, 2019


Mariam T is back from Down Under and we hear all about her trip. We also chat with Benny Cartwright from The San Diego LGBT Community Center. The Center is one of the largest and most vibrant LGBT community centers in …

070 Oppalannnnnce

March 28th, 2019


San Diego drag queen, Michele Ada, fills in for Mariam T this week.  We talk about Str8 Girls and gay porn, our first memory of porn and what kind of …

069 It's Just The 90's

March 20th, 2019


This week, we have Kickxy Vixen Styles co-hosting the show with Tony and Bash! We talk about TV shows we want to see come back. Tony makes Bash and Kickxy guess 90’s cartoon theme songs. We learn about Bash’s alternate …

068 Aussietime

March 13th, 2019


Megan is back this week!  We talk all about her trip down under and quiz her on some New Zealand/Australian slang and food.  Bash gives us the do’s and don’ts of CRSD festival. We cover RPDR; what do you think if the …

067 Into the Wild

March 6th, 2019


This week Tony is all alone… well kind of. Tony calls in two past co-hosts to help him with the show today, Jennie from OB Playhouse and Jesse from Finest City Improv. We chat with our dear friend Lisa and her …

066 Hello you little Who'ers!

February 27th, 2019


This week we say Bon Voyage to Miss Mariam T! She is going down under for a few weeks.  We get in to a heavy topic which we have not talked about on the show before, and that is mental health, our personal struggles …

065 Puppy Love

February 21st, 2019


This week, it’s just the boys! Tony and Bash are joined by Ryder from RyderGear, a San Diego motorcycle leather gear company that… wait for it… also specializes in pup gear and BDSM leather gear. We talk all about the …

064 Spreading the VD love

February 13th, 2019


It’s V-Day! haha. The Gang talks Valentine's Day, Bash's worst nightmare of a holiday.   What's your favorite romantic comedy?  What are the worst …

063 Xtina Xperience

February 6th, 2019


She’s back! Kickxy Vixen Styles hangs out with the gang this week. We catch up with her and talk all about her appearance on “Watch What Happens …

062 Brown Delicious

January 30th, 2019


Bash’s BFF, “Mr. Brown,” hangs out with the gang this week. We talk about stalkers, RPDR Allstars 4, and we get the straight “Mr. Brown” on Grindr for the very first time.  What happens and what does the straight guy …

061 To Queef or Not to Queef

January 24th, 2019


This week is not for kids!  Eddie Danger calls the gang to say hi and chat about his appearance on The Howard Stern Show. The gang talks about the most trending porn themes of 2018, queefing for men and women (nothing …

060 Hangin' with Matty D

January 16th, 2019


This week the gang is joined by Matty D from the “Hangin’ with Matty D” podcast! We talk all about Matty D’s show and one of his favorite guests.  We play a basic version of “Gayducation of Megan.” Will Matty or Megan …

059 Perverted Dolphins

January 10th, 2019


In this episode, the gang talks about the Birdbox Challenge that everyone is doing. Is Ellen the gay Jesus? What do you think of Kevin Hart on …

058 New Year, Same Trash Bags

January 2nd, 2019


Happy New Year!! The gang starts the new year right with poop, farts, and celebrities. We talk all about Rupaul’s Drag Race All Stars… well the first …

057 HO HO HO Holidays

December 25th, 2018


Merry Christmas! The gang is all together for the holidays.  Tony and Robbie attended the 4th annual League at AT&T Holiday Meet & Greet at …

056 Baby it's... Shhh You Can't Say That

December 19th, 2018


This week, the gang chats about songs that have been banned or censored from the radio, the oh-sooo-gay Grammy and Golden Globe nominees. Carol, …

055 Swim, Bike, Run, Strip!

December 12th, 2018


This week the gang chats with Elite Amateur Triathlete, David Martin.  David is an athlete and coach, and he has recently won a spot on Team USA in the ITU World Championships next year in Switzerland! We chat about …

054 Sex, Danger, and Punctuation

December 5th, 2018


This episode in NSFW and not for the prudish peeps.  Eddie Danger joins the gang this week with lots of sex talk.  We play a throw-back addition of “The Gayducation of Megan.” Someone in the gang took Eddie for a test …

053 Dragnut

November 28th, 2018


It’s Dragtastic episode! This week the gang is joined by two of San Diego’s favorite queens, BeBe Gunn and Michele Ada. We get in to RPDR All Stars 4, our favorite porn stars, Drag misconceptions, sex in drag, and dirty …

052 The Secret Society of Adultologists

November 21st, 2018


Happy Thanksgiving! This week the gang visits the San Diego Natural History Museum, aka “The Nat,” for an event that’s all shiny and pretty.   We find out why Bash was in the hospital, hate on the Bette Midler hater, …

051 Cosplay star Jimmy Sherfy

November 14th, 2018


Instagram cosplay star, Jimmy Sherfy, joins the gang this week! Jimmy chats with us about all things cosplay and Disney. We also play a round of Disney trivia and surprise Jimmy with a surprise return guest. The Band …

050 Lady Red Couture

November 8th, 2018


Tony and Mariam T sit down with Lady Red Couture, the "largest live-singing drag queen in captivity" and the co-host of "Hey Qween TV" on YouTube as well as the Hot T podcast with Jonny McGovern.  Lady Red reveals all …

049 Halloween Extravaganza!

October 31st, 2018


It's our Halloween Extravaganza!  It's a jam-packed episode with 3 very special Halloween guests. San Diego pagan, Danielle Purdy, drops in for a …

048 West 40s

October 24th, 2018


The guys from the hit YouTube web series, "West 40s," call in! "West 40s" is a new comedy series from Mark Sam Rosenthal & Brian Sloan focusing on a group of five gay 40-something friends living in New York City's …

047 Fifty Shades of Danger

October 17th, 2018


Podcast favorite Eddie Danger is back to catch us all up on his latest X-rated porn stories!  We get to hear all about Eddie's New York Drag Con …

046 Miss Coco Peru

October 10th, 2018


This week, the gang welcomes a very special guest on the show, Miss Coco Peru!

Miss Coco Peru (aka Clinton Leupp) has been a household name in the …

045 It's Prison Hot!

October 3rd, 2018


We’re back! The gang is back for season two. We welcome new cast member Mariam T to the show. We find out what we all have been up to on our break. We talk all about San Diego’s InsideOUT restaurant, gender-neutral …

044 Games and Fetishes

September 5th, 2018


The Gang’s all here this week.  We talk about Megan’s birthday shenanigans, Bash’s big wedding event, and what’s to come on the podcast.  Would we …

043 Once Upon a Scream

August 29th, 2018


Horror and Disney?? The perfect combo! Mikey and Ben from the “Once Upon A Scream” podcast call in from across the pond to talk all things horror and all things Disney! We play a round of Disney Villian vs. Classic …

042 Kickxy Vixen-Styles

August 22nd, 2018


We geek out this week with San Diego’s very own cosplay nerd by day, drag queen by night, Kickxy Vixen-Styles! She drops in to hang out with the gang to talk all about her cosplaying drag looks, comic books, action …

041 London Calling

August 15th, 2018


Bash calls in from London to tell us about his trip to the UK and Italy, what he thought of the food, and what should or shouldn't be on a pizza! We …

040 Hyper Queening with Arielle Conversi

August 8th, 2018


Comedian and Hyper Queen, Arielle Conversi, joins the gang this week. We chat about her comedy and living in Australia. We get into a discussion with Arielle and Mariam T about the different types of drag, what is a bio …

039 We're Nobody of Importance

August 1st, 2018


Tony's gay(er) twin brother Manny joins us. We talk sex with an intense quiz game in "It's science with Rob." We also learn what you should be eating …

038 Jaymes Mansfield!

July 25th, 2018


Jaymes Mansfield (Rupaul’s Drag Race, Season 9) calls in to dish about RPDR and how she got started in drag in Milwaukee, WI! The gang is also joined …

037 Girl Gotta Eat!

July 19th, 2018


Mariam T is co-hosting with the gang. We catch you up on The Finest City Improv’s “Lip Sync Battle” contest hosted by Mariam herself with Tony B as one of the judges! Then we dive right into a discussion on food …

036 Dr. Bo Knows!

July 11th, 2018


Hillcrest’s own chiropractor, health and wellness expert, and thirst trap, Dr. Boris Cicak D.C. (“Dr. Bo”), hangs out with the gang! We learn all about what to look for and expect from a chiropractor, how to shed those …

035 Pandas & Porn: Eddie Danger Returns!

July 4th, 2018


The very sexy Eddie Danger is back with us, and this time he is in San Diego and co-hosting for the week!  We go deep into the porn industry (NSFW). …

034 Pride48 LIVE

June 27th, 2018


It’s a live streaming Pride48 event. The gang records the episode live on while the listeners respond by the chatroom. Bash is in San Francisco Pride, so Jesse from Finest City Improve joins us again. We …

033 How's the tea?

June 20th, 2018


The family is all back together! Bash and Tony talk about Weho pride. We find out where Megan has been. The gang vists their TV addiction by playing a game of guessing the retro TV show by its theme song!  We also play …

032 Gossip Grill

June 13th, 2018


The gang is joined by two of Hillcrest's favorite bartenders, Darcy and Justin from Gossip Grill, Southern California’s only 7-days-a-week, Nicky …

031 They’re Baaack!

June 5th, 2018


She’s back! Mariam T guest hosts again this week. We chat about drag queens, drag kings, and all other types of drag.  Will there be a Drag Legends …

030 Donald Trump is a Tinkerbelle

May 30th, 2018


It’s a game-filled episode!   We continue the “Gay-ducation of Megan” by introducing her to gay slang. We also try a new segment called “It’s Science with Rob.” Well not really science; just some fetishes.  The gang …

029 Eddie Danger!

May 23rd, 2018


Hey Qween model, dancer, musician, and poet Eddie Danger calls in to chat.  We talk about life as a gogo-boy, Hey Qween, life in DC and more! The gang also gets into the royal wedding, anal drinking, and vajazzling. The …

028 Being gay, gay, gay, gay with Fagsy Malone!

May 16th, 2018


Fagsy Malone from "Straight Talk with Ross Mathews" and "It's a Gay, Gay, Gay, Gay Podcast" calls in to chat about his podcasts, celebrity stories, …

027 Xylophone Porn and ImPRIDE

May 9th, 2018


This week we have the Theater Director of San Diego’s Finest City Improv, Jesse Suphan, hanging out with us! Jesse tells the gang all about Impride, the first ever Improv Festival focused on celebrating the …

026 Funny Lady Sarah Burford!

May 1st, 2018


San Diego’s funniest lesbian comedian, Sarah Burford, joins the gang this week! Sarah discusses how she got started in comedy, her inspirations, what it’s like to grow up with a gay dad and a Christian mother, and a lot …

025 Hey, Qween! It's Jonny McGovern

April 24th, 2018


The Gay Pimp himself, Jonny McGovern (YouTube's "Hey Qween" and "Hot T," Logo TV's "The Big Gay Sketch Show"), calls in to spill some T with the …

024 Father Ducker

April 19th, 2018


This week the gang chats about the approaching PRIDE season, MySpace, AOL screen names and “RuPaul’s Drag Race.” We play a revival of Never Have I …

023 Geekfest!

April 11th, 2018


Mariam T is back to fill our cups this week! We chat about The “#1 Comedy Queens” at San Diego’s #1 on Fifth Avenue. We get all kinds of geeky nostalgic over TV shows and movies we love and grew up on. We recap …

022 O.B. fabulous!

April 4th, 2018


OB Playhouse co-owner and Artistic Director, Jennie Gray Connard, hangs out with the gang this week. We learn how she and her husband started their own theater company, get the lowdown on their exciting upcoming season, …

021 Mariam Thistletwat

March 28th, 2018


Stand up comic and drag queen Mariam T joins the gang this week! We chat about how she got started in drag and stand-up comedy. We get into all …

020 Boylesque

March 14th, 2018


San Diego's Boylesque group, “The Diamond Dogs,” dancer Richard McCool (aka McCoolCat) hangs out with the gang this week. Richard gives us all the …

019 Sister, Sister

March 7th, 2018


It’s a family affair this week. Tony’s brother Manny and his sister Vanessa hang out. They talk about the book/movie “Ready Player One,” the …

018 A Bit of This, A Bit of That

February 28th, 2018


Tony’s twin brother, Manny, fills in for Bash this week while he is out of town. Our friend Daniel (A.K.A "Str8 Daniel") hangs out with the gang and drops in his straight-guy point of view.  We chat about theater, gay …

017 Touch My Quokka

February 21st, 2018


Our friend Leah is back to hang out with the gang this week. We talk about furries and Gianni Versace, Tony reviews the 2 shows he saw at Martinis Above 4th, and we ask the questions: Can you have a platonic …

016 Here Bidet Gone Tomorrow

February 14th, 2018


Back for another week of drunken mayhem! Bash is obsessed with a clean ass. We talk about the new Queer Eye. We take a trip back to the 90’s with a little trivia. Where to get pot in SD? Bash shares his dispensary trip.

015 The SEX of it all

February 7th, 2018


The Gang's back together! Megan's back from her trips. We chat about Drag Race A3, Justin Timberlake's ball, play a round of "F***, Marry, or Kill" and we get personal with some gay sex questions. Listen for laughs, …

014 Donuts and Drag

January 30th, 2018


Megan is out of town this week on business, so our friend Kay McNellen is filling in for her.   We review donuts from the new Copper Top Coffee & …

013 Sexy or Sad

January 25th, 2018


Our friend Lucy hangs out with us this week.  We play a round of “Getting to Know You,” learn our love-making songs, and reveal what we wanted to be when we grew up. We chat about good words and bad words.

012 A very Potter episode

January 18th, 2018


San Diego actress and singer Kay McNellen joins the gang this week. We talk about Megan's London adventures, YouTube's "Drunk Potterheads," Harry …

011 Sausage Fest

January 4th, 2018


This episode is not for kids and NSFW. You have been warned. Megan is in jolly old London this week. Danny is filling in for her; it's an  all boys …

010 A Mary Christmas

December 25th, 2017


Happy Holidays! Robbie hangs out with us for our Xmas show. We chat about favorite holiday memories, celebrity run in’s, play a new game called "The …

009 GURLS Night!

December 20th, 2017


Bash is in the Bay Area this week, so Leah hangs out with Tony and Megan for Girls Night!  We talk high school movies we were obsessed with, the …

008 Bearded Ladies and Stuff!

December 15th, 2017


We talk AIDS/LifeCycle, chat with our friend Chris about "The Bearded Ladies." Our friend Danny stops by and hangs out. We chat about sexcapades, "The Traveling Butts," Bash goes to a WWE match, Tony’s Palm Spring …

007 Mellow Yellow Mall Ratzz

December 1st, 2017


This week we talk Black Friday, rate San Diego shopping, horoscopes, pick the "Carol" of the week, and other nonsense, because it was a Monday ugh …

006 Double Trouble Thanksgiving

November 23rd, 2017


Happy Thanksgiving! Tony's twin brother, Manny, hangs out with the gang this week, and yes, they sound exactly alike lol. We talk Thanksgiving …

005 Fly by...the Seat of Our Pants!

November 14th, 2017


The cast from “Fly By Night” the musical, which is playing at Coronado Playhouse, join us for a bit. We also talk $100,000.00 toilet, retirement, space, Palm Springs, freezing our bodies, musicals and much more in this …

004 Damn Carol!

November 7th, 2017


Our friend Leah joins us this week to talk her obsession with pimple popping, Selena, Mariah Carey, our ”friend” Carol, and our San Diego hidden …

003 Hocus Pocus Halloween

October 30th, 2017


Happy Halloween! We talk scary movies and stories, slutty costumes, rejection, rude people on trains, worst and best halloween experiences, regrets, and other nonsense. Intro song is “I Put A Spell On you” and the …

002 Poppers and Pegging

October 24th, 2017


We talk "RuPaul's Drag Race Allstars 3" cast. Megan learns about poppers and pegging.  Drunk stories and other nonsense. Theme music: “Around the …

001 Getting to Know You

October 19th, 2017


In this episode, you find out the who and the why of the podcast. We talk “Will & Grace,” dating apps, our go-to places in SD, our not-so-go-to places in SD, and other nonsense. Theme music: “Around the Bend” by …

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