Unitarian Christian Alliance

Recognizing and dealing with a subtle form of abuse vs. the sincere desire to honor marriage.

RESOURCES

• Scriptural Study Groups of Central Ohio
• Nouthetic counseling
• BibleProject Podcast
• Restitutio
• One God Report
• 2022 UCA Conference Registration

LINKS FOR ADDITIONAL READING

• 5 Myths the Church Often Believes About Domestic Violence
• Message to a Baptist Church: You Preached Death to the Hearts of One Hundred Women Today
• 1-in-4 Highly Religious U.S. Marriages Have Abuse
• Four Things the Church Doesn’t know About Abusive Marriages
• NCADV National Abuse Statistics
• Confronting Domestic Violence with Love and Authority

EPISODE INDEX

• (05:44) The interview, introductions
• (09:08) The problem
• (12:31) Religions amplification
• (13:39) A Part-time job
• (16:01) Isolating
• (17:08) Men abused, too
• (17:44) Counseling
• (19:51) Who am I trying to please?
• (20:50) The move out
• (21:34) Unitarian beliefs
• (22:07) Theology text landmines
• (22:52) Fired before starting
• (23:48) Understanding emotional abuse
• (25:34) Gaslighting
• (26:46) Projection
• (28:53) Word salad
• (30:14) Hoovering
• (31:16) One in three
• (32:25) Blame shifting
• (32:50) Playing the victim
• (33:27) Control + isolation
• (35:00) What do we do?
• (36:09) Gray and yellow rock
• (39:22) Convincing them?
• (41:00) Staying married
• (41:53) Counseling
• (43:12) God's heart
• (45:51) Teaching caveat
• (47:27) Current helping efforts
• (49:47) Cara and the next UCA conference
• (51:27) UCA announcement
• (52:22) New event in Indiana
• (53:10) Tim from Virginia
• (55:05) Boat and crew example

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