The ReWire Podcast w/ Ryan Stewman

Let's talk about becoming attractive and elite. 

It's not about sex. 

It's about becoming the best version of yourself so you can attract other elite people in your life. 

This doesn't happen easily.  

You have to be …

You've gotta be future-focused. 

So many people can't even think about what tomorrow will bring.  

I recently made a post inviting people to have dinner with me in a city I was visiting. 

No one responded until the week …

Do you know what your default mindset is? 

It's the operating system of our brain. 

Everything we do comes out of a thought. 

It controls how we …

Don't get in your feelings if you don't have to. 

Feelings are fake. 

They're peptides that come from hormones that become feelings. 

I'm not telling you that you can't have feelings. 

But you can't be a feelings first …

Quit hating on people you don't know. 

What makes you think you need to hate on people you don't know? 

Online, we see people everyday talk shit. 

They talk shit on people they don't know. 

When I shared a post online …

No one is coming to save you! 

I'm not trying to be doom and gloom over here. 

Your parents, your teachers, and the government sure as hell is not coming to help you. 

You've got to save yourself. 

Make plans. 

No one …

You don't need to show anyone shit.

Your counselor. 

Your clients. 

No one needs to see how much money you make. 

I had a guy call me out for not …

Just because you get blocked doesn't mean you won the argument. 

It doesn't mean they couldn't take your insults. 

Many of my influencer friends and …

You know the word crook comes from the word "crooked." 

When I made the decision to stop being a crook and being a straight shooter, my life got better. 

I don't have to remember all the lies and stories I tell people …

Stay away from bouncing ball syndrome. 

People live a life of ups and downs. 

At one moment, they're on top of the world, and the next, they're at the rock bottom. 

If you don't put energy into that bouncing ball, it …

Are you willing to win? 

So many people on this planet are not willing to win. 

Most people do not want to put in the work. 

They like the idea of being a millionaire. 

A Superbowl champ with a big ring. 

They want to …

There are 2 types of people when the Doctor diagnoses them with Cancer. 

The first person who hears they have 6 months to live, says, "Watch me. I'm going to live 6 years!" 

This happened to my Great Uncle. 

He got …

It's not an honor to be followed online. 

Guys like Dan Bilzerian have some huge problems because of his 30 million followers who don't pay him.

Same …

This show is dedicated to men. 

P#$$y is costing you more money than you know. 

It's one of the most powerful natural resources and there's an …

Right now our world is in a crisis........

An identity crisis......

Be who you want to be. 

First, you have to ask yourself who you want to be.

Do you want to be a good husband, wife, parent, employer, friend or …

Don't let people shame you for being you. 

We live in a society that wants to shame you for being an individual thinker. 

You shouldn't be told by …

No matter how hard, or how shitty your workday may have been, every day is a good day. 

Everything is about energy, and how it flows.

You control …

Real talk. 

I look and see angry people in Facebook and Instagram. 

When you have a great day and things go well, you don't need anyone to talk to. B

The King eats first. 

Many people in business will tell you that you need to eat first. 

When I was starting out as a commissioned salesperson, I …

A hunter has to stay hungry or he won't eat. 

We're the ruling class. 

The people wanting more. 

We have to go out and get it. 

We're constantly …

In life, you're going to take losses. 

There are people who are living on this planet afraid of trying to pick up on the hot chick they meet because they're afraid of being shot down. 

They're afraid to apply for the …

Don't be content with contentment. 

When we hit a high, we get complacent. 

We get lazy. 

We get "good" with fine. 

When you are in this place, you're fighting growth and settling for contentment.

We have to always be …

Don't let anyone tell you what you can't do.

Don't let people put limitations on you. 

I'm the same way. 

If someone tries to tell me I can't do something, guess what I do?

I don't let anyone tell me what I can and …

You gotta find the bar and raise it. 

Everyone is always looking to "set the standard, raise the bar, and change the game." 

First, you have to know …

You gotta learn how to work the system instead of being a part of the system.

I'm a member of the Cowboy Club, owned by Jerry Jones owner of the Dallas Cowboys.  

It's great.  

It's an exclusive club where you can't …

Stop finding excuses to procrastinate. 

I was in the gym the other day, but I was not looking forward to the workout. 

But I know the workout was …

Life will require you to pay a maintenance fee. 

Your bank charges you a maintenance fee to manage the digital software, the withdraws, transferring funds and everything under the sun. 

Life works a lot like this. 

The …

You gotta hit it like it owes you money. 

When you hit the gym, you gotta hit those weights like they owe you money. 

When you slide in behind the desk, you've got to hit it like it owes you money. 

This is not a game …

Living a good life takes faith and focus. 

When you combine these two, you can have anything. 

I was riding in my car the other day listening to …

Respect truly is a long-forgotten art. 

When I was raised, I said, "Yes sir, No, Ma'am," I held the door and say, "Please." 

I still do this today. 

…

Free thinking is no longer free. 

There are consequences and repercussions for free thinking these days. 

Look at Nike. 

They used Colin Capernick as …

If people don't align, put them out of your mind. 

When I started hanging out with drug addicts, I did drugs. 

When I started hanging out with drug dealers, I became a drug dealer. 

When I started going to jail, I spoke …

There's a famous saying from the TSA: 

"If you see something, say something." 

I say, "If you feel something, say something." 

Ice T talked about growing up in Crenshaw and being surrounded by gang life. He didn't want …

You gotta be your best and fuck the rest. 

If you're doing everything in your power to be the best version of yourself who cares what people say to you. 

Ignore them.

If they're not coming to you with something …

Stop doing shit that only pleases other people. 

There's a movement out there that preaches being selfless, but if you're not filling your own cup, you'll be empty before you even start. 

Stop living your life for …

No one likes to do the hard stuff. 

If you want to develop your personal character, you have to do what you hate. 

I hate working out. 

But if I want a great physique and big muscles, I have to work out. 

I do what I …

Stop being a taker. 

No one likes a taker. 

A taker always has their hand out. 

They want something for free. 

They want you to help them out.

Always want to borrow money or want a free hook-up! 

No one likes that …

In the last episode, I talked about being able to get a second chance, but when it comes to 3rd and 4th chances.....those usually never come. 

Fact is, you don't get a do-over. 

In September 2019, I broke my neck in 2 …

In life, everyone gets a do-over. 

There's really no such thing as a last chance. 

67% of people who are married eventually get divorced and they end up moving on and getting married again. 

The truth is, no one is …

We all know people who are unreliable. 

It's the people who we have to tell the meeting is at 9:30 for a 10:00 am meeting.  

Seriously, who can't show up on time for a meeting on time? 

They're the people who miss their …

You gotta rip the bandaid off! 

When I was 5 years old, I had a bandaid and tried to take a bandaid off. 

My mother told me, you've got to rip it off …

What does it take to be successful? 

It takes time. 

We see people drafted into the NFL and think he got famous overnight. 

No. 

It took days, …

I'm already me. 

You just be you. 

People hit me at least 3 times every single day wanting to be just like me. 

I tell them to be themselves. 

My life is turmoil. 

I'm human just like you. 

I run businesses. 

I have to …

Shortcuts are for suckers. 

If everyone was supposed to be a millionaire, there'd be a shortcut. 

Same for having abs and being in great shape. 

You can't just take juice, eat KitKats and not have to work out. 

There's …

If you want to crush it, you have to crush it with consistency. 

If you go into the gym 30 days in a row and fall you'll lose all your muscle mass and get fat. 

Let's talk about sales.....

If you make a ton of sales one …

Downtime will knock you down and keep you down. 

We always look for downtime. 

We work hard to get the job done and find some downtime. 

We'll work a week to take a vacation for a year. 

But downtime will suffocate your …

Let's talk about the magic mindset. 

People think I started thinking this way overnight. 

20 years was spent fucking up and getting experience. 

The other 20 years was personal development. 

I've been in some dark …

The reason people fear starting over from scratch is they don't like where they're at. 

Sure, starting over is taking a step back. 

It's humiliating sometimes. 

But being afraid of starting over is not going to help you …

I'm going to tell you a very powerful Bible story in this episode. 

It's from Matthew Chapter 13. 

This story is going to show you the parable for …

My pastor Keith Craft told me, "If you'll do more than you're paid for, you'll be paid for more than you do."

I've never had an hourly job as an …

I've won big and lost big. 

I know you have, too. 

When we get to the top, we get scared of possibly having to start over from scratch. 

When we get scared, we fall into a scarcity mindset. 

What do you think is …

Here's a dirty secret about people.......

The excuse people give you is never the real excuse. 

The real excuse may be: 

• They don't have money
• …

Some people will go out and work 2-3 hours of their 8-hour work day and think they deserve a raise. 

When you receive something you haven't earned, you tend to give it away. 

People who make a ton of money, tend to earn …

If you're scared to spend money, then you're scared to make money. 

It's a straight scarcity mindset. 

If you're scared to make money, more money will only magnify your fears. 

I've heard experts say that asking a …

Thieves, con artists.........they're always going to make an appearance in your life. 

The more successful you become, you'll start to attract all …

Puff Daddy used to say, "Mo Money, Mo Problems."  

The more money you make the bigger risks you take. 

No money equals no problems. 

People pay us to get rid of their problems.  

If you have massive problems in your …

Life is filled with vampires.  

People walking around drunken and disorderly. 

Doing drugs. 

People simply going nowhere in their lives. 

In the early part of my career, I wanted to help people like this.....Church the …

HOW TO GET INVOLVED: 

This planet is based on an algorithm and with every positive action, there is an adverse reaction. 

Ryan Stewman rose and overcame a life of addiction, imprisonment, divorce, and circumstances …

As I put in the work over the years, people have seen me climb up the ladder of success. 

With it, comes people who want some of your sunshine, the benefits of your hard work. 

They've wanted to partner in business, …

There's always that one guy.  

He's the one that seems like he's friendly. 

He may comment on your posts, and show support, but then in a sudden turn, he makes it weird. 

You can say the most motivational, inspirational …

In life, there are people who are going to take advantage of you. They're going to pull you close and watch you. 

They'll show up as friends so they …

This one is for the ladies......

There are a few things you should know about men, especially the bad boys. 

I was one of those. 

You think they're …

About 150 episodes back, I did the Elite Version Exercise. 

It's an exercise that allows you to visualize the most elite version of yourself. 

I have people hit me up all the time about why they're not succeeding in …

HOW TO GET INVOLVED: 

This planet is based on an algorithm and with every positive action, there is an adverse reaction. 

Ryan Stewman rose and overcame a life of addiction, imprisonment, divorce, and circumstances that …

HOW TO GET INVOLVED: 

This planet is based on an algorithm and with every positive action, there is an adverse reaction. 

Ryan Stewman rose and overcame a life of addiction, imprisonment, divorce, and circumstances that …

HOW TO GET INVOLVED: 

This planet is based on an algorithm and with every positive action, there is an adverse reaction. 

Ryan Stewman rose and overcame a life of addiction, imprisonment, divorce, and circumstances that …

This is gonna hit home for you. 

It doesn't pay to be nice. 

Being too nice often leads to betrayal. 

I've been too nice to employees who have run all over me. 

They've tried to take clients from me. 

I've had clients …

HOW TO GET INVOLVED: 

This planet is based on an algorithm and with every positive action, there is an adverse reaction. 

Ryan Stewman rose and overcame a life of addiction, imprisonment, divorce, and circumstances that …

HOW TO GET INVOLVED: 

This planet is based on an algorithm and with every positive action, there is an adverse reaction. 

Ryan Stewman rose and overcame a life of addiction, imprisonment, divorce, and circumstances …

HOW TO GET INVOLVED: 

This planet is based on an algorithm and with every positive action, there is an adverse reaction. 

Ryan Stewman rose and overcame a life of addiction, imprisonment, divorce, and circumstances that …

HOW TO GET INVOLVED: 

This planet is based on an algorithm and with every positive action, there is an adverse reaction. 

Ryan Stewman rose and overcame a life of addiction, imprisonment, divorce, and circumstances …

HOW TO GET INVOLVED: 

This planet is based on an algorithm and with every positive action, there is an adverse reaction. 

Ryan Stewman rose and overcame a life of addiction, imprisonment, divorce, and circumstances that …

I'm going to say some shit that might piss you off. 

You don't have to hate on anyone who is winning in life. 

Making more money than you. 

Are in …

If you want to make more sales, you need to watch my CATCH training.  Do a simple search on HardcoreCloser.com and you'll find it. Implement it immediately. 

The next thing you can do is start posting on social media. 

…

It's time for an education in financing your first exotic car, or your next depending on if you have one or not. 

This is not financial advice, but me sharing a story of what I did to help make the most of one of the …

One of the worst things you can do is lie to your children. 

My children have always known everything I do. 

They've seen me yell. 

They know what drugs are and they know what they do. 

They've seen me drink. 

And my …

This week, Jax Stewman starts 6th grade. 

It's amazing to reflect and see a younger version of you, but better, more improved and someone who will never have to know some of the things I encountered or experienced as a …

The richest man to ever live on this planet is still the most read person in human history. 

Who do you think the richest person to have ever lived? 

Is it Jeff Bezos? 

Bill Gates? 

Elon Musk? 

In this episode, I'll …

I've been divorced 3 times in my life and I'm qualified to give you the advice I'm about to drop on you. 

In all of those relationships, it was my responsibility as to why those marriages ended. 

After the devastating …

If you're in your 20s, and have a job, you can go to the bank, get a loan and buy real estate. 

Every dollar you spend right now in your 20s is worth …

If you're tired of the struggle. 

Doing without. 

Putting things on the credit card. 

Having to borrow money from people, I have one solution to help …

The quickest way to collapse time as an entrepreneur is to read these top 5 books if you want to get rich: 

"Buy Back Your Time" by Dan Martell; he's …

I've got everything I want.  

The cars, houses, ranch, business, and my family.

But if you don't have everything you want, you are a thief. 

If you don't have everything you want because you're not money-motivated, you …

I'm a big believer in diversity. 

Those of us who have planted seeds, are focused on abundance. 

Some people get things cracking and then they think it's okay to take a break. 

They get complacent. 

Comfortable. 

One of …

Right now, the Force of Average is throwing distractions at us all over the place.

We're overstimulated by Instagram, the news, Facebook and …

In this episode, we have some business to get to immediately. 

We're talking about Recession. 

In order to avoid a recession or become recession-proof, we have to look at everything in our lives. 

Our relationships. 

…

Only a sociopathic, self-centered, narcissistic bastard would expect you to give them a referral and not refer you back. 

In this episode, I'm giving …

There are 3 important things every single person can do. 

The first is to keep your word.

Keeping your word is powerful. 

If you struggle with this, …

We're a little over a year from the 2024 election. 

I'm sure you've asked yourself the same question everyone else has.........

Who's gonna be the next President of the United States? 

This has been one of the longest …

Of all the success I've had in my life, I'm still working for more. 

It's not because I'm greedy. 

It's because I want to help other people to become better versions of themselves in their lives. 

I've got the cars, …

We all got stuff. 

Bad memories, pain, abuse, or something in our lives that has caused us trauma. 

It's a tough proposition sometimes when you're trying to be normal. 

When I was a kid, my father left me. 

My …

There are two sides to negotiation.  

Most people only think it's price, but there's more to it. 

If everyone is focused on price, I'm going to show you what most other people miss. 

Price is obviously the first one. 

…

There are billions of dollars floating around for everyone at any given point in time. 

We live in an abundant world. 

The key is to find the …

The number one mistake networkers make when they go to dinner with a prospect or a client. 

A lot of people go out and set appointments in the evening with prospects to have dinner and drinks. 

They meet at bars. 

…

There is one question you can ask in Sales of any prospect and you'll get an answer 99% of the time to start the conversation. 

Most times in Sales, the salesperson loses because they don't ask the right questions. 

In …

One of the biggest thing you can do for yourself today is to be a deviant. 

It should be an honor for you to do so. 

Back in the 60s, the Hippies …

Whether you believe in God or not, this is for you.  I'm going to break down the concept of Faith in layman's terms. 

In order to have more than you …

Ten years ago, when AirBnB got their start, they were supposed to be a better alternative to hotels.  They expanded to cities around the globe.  Each one a unique opportunity for a different experience for their guests. 

HOW TO GET INVOLVED: 

This planet is based on an algorithm and with every positive action, there is an adverse reaction. 

Ryan Stewman rose and overcame a life of addiction, imprisonment, divorce, and circumstances that …

One of the things you need to understand is there are two types of people. 

The Fool and the Wiseman. 

A fool will receive and reject correction. 

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