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The Prime Man by Unshakable Habits

52 EpisodesProduced by Stephen BoxWebsite

Are you a middle-aged man looking to redefine your prime years with purpose and vitality? "The Prime Man by Unshakable Habits," hosted weekly by Stephen Box, is the podcast that transforms your midlife experience through the power of habit. Focused on key areas like health, relationships, work, and … read more


How To Bring Passion & Intimacy Back To Your Marriage (Advice for Men) with Matthew Hoffman

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Episode Summary

Isn't it fascinating how seemingly minor misunderstandings can rapidly snowball into major relationship problems?

Today's discussion brings you on an enlightening journey with Matthew Hoffman from KickAss Couples Nation, revealing the importance of effective communication, understanding and nurturing your partner's needs, and the power of persistence in fostering meaningful transformations.

We’ve all had those moments in our relationships where we felt we were drifting apart, and he shares his discovery that the solution to relationship issues lay not in grand gestures but in small, consistent actions that demonstrate the commitment to each other.

This episode promises to arm you with valuable strategies to breathe fresh air into your relationship. So buckle up, and let us embark on this journey of relationship transformation together.

Key Topics

[0:00] Intro

[4:14] Generic expectations from men

[11:35] Committed relationship

[19:18] Work to meet the needs with authenticity

[24:46] How to find understanding for perpetual relationship issues

[30:39] Emotional availability

[37:30] Children are not the center of the home

[45:05] Overflow thinking

[51:47] Commitment, communication, and conflict resolution

[57:27] Outro

Quotes We Loved
  • “... that's kind of why I got into kick-ass couples nation. I wanted a place where couples and individuals could come get their needs met to get their relationship back to that hot, rapid boil. You know where their love and life are. It feels good, it's strong, and they're content …” - Matthew Hoffman
  • “It's not about who's got more, who's got less, or fault, but any change in life is not about. You know, you can point your finger at somebody, but there's always three pointing right back at you. “ - Matthew Hoffman
  • "Consistently, you're making deposits in that emotional bank account, and when a woman feels that account is full,  she feels great about giving. But when that account is low or even overdrawn, it's like, man, I don't have anything to give. I don't feel good about giving because it's going to deplete me more, and I'm already depleted.” - Matthew Hoffman

Guest Bio

Matthew P. Hoffman is a relationship coach and speaker on a mission to help couples achieve rock-star status in their relationships. He has a diverse background in business, people, and systems and is the co-founder of Character GPS.

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Twitter: @KickassCouples - 

IG: @kickasscouplesnation - 

FB: @Kickasscouplesnation

Tik Tok: @kickasscouplesnation -

YouTube Channel: @kickasscouples -

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Episode: 45

Season: 2

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