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The Godly Dating 101 Podcast

75 EpisodesProduced by Tovares and Safa GreyWebsite

A podcast designed to encourage believers to live and date in a way that honors Christ. Tovares and Safa’s passion is to see couples maintain godly relationships and honor Christ in all of their actions. There are some topics that seem “taboo”, but that’s why believers stay bound in sin. On this pod… read more

75 Episodes | 2019 - 2021

73. Purity Isn’t About Virginity

April 15th, 2021

36:46

A great emphasis is being placed on virginity when it comes to our youth, or celibacy to the Christians that may have been following Jesus for …

72. Dating for Fun

April 8th, 2021

31:50

Society tells us that this hook-up culture isn’t that bad. Let’s discuss some thoughts about how recreational dating may be helpful or harmful.


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71. Self-Control

April 1st, 2021

42:15

Today we are going to discuss why self control is so needed in our lives. Instead of blaming anyone else, today let’s take a look within.   

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70. No Strings Attached With Jonathan Pokluda

March 25th, 2021

35:56

No strings attached. Something culture tells us when engaging in unfruitful relationships and sexual encounters. But is that biblical? 


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69. Reasons Why Christian Women Are Entertaining Men in the World

March 18th, 2021

42:39

Why are our godly ladies dating men in the world? Is the problem the men in the church? Let’s discuss some common reasons we’ve noticed. 

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68. Reasons why Christian Men aren’t Pursuing Women in Church

March 11th, 2021

34:25

Have you noticed that more Christian men have been pursuing women outside of the Church? Here are my thoughts on why some of them do it.... and why I have done it in the past also. 

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67. Soul-Ties

March 4th, 2021

39:17

Are soul-ties real? Here’s some of our thoughts on where they come from and how to get rid of them.

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66. Confirmation or Your Feelings?

February 25th, 2021

38:53

Is God leading you to make that decision or your emotions? Let’s discuss it.

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65. Abuse, Betrayal and Finding Healing with Kait Warman

February 18th, 2021

54:36

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64. The Importance of Finances When Dating Feat. Anthony ONeal

February 11th, 2021

32:10

We were blessed to have a special guest on the show today! Anthony O'Neal has a wealth of knowledge and shared so much truth with us today! Follow …

63. Misconceptions Some Christians Have About Sex

February 4th, 2021

42:12

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62. The Difference Between Lust and Love

January 28th, 2021

32:24

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61. The Importance of Allowing Him to Pursue

January 21st, 2021

28:19

Many women question why does it even matter who pursues. That as long as they are okay with it, then it shouldn't matter. Here are a couple reasons …

60. Red Flags To Watch For

January 14th, 2021

39:43

Many of us ask God for signs when we should avoid certain relationships. Here are a few that you all should definitely pay attention to.

59. What God Has for Me is for Me?

January 7th, 2021

29:38

We often say something wasn’t God’s will when it doesn’t work out. However, I think there are reasons why we may be the reason something isn’t …

58. Four Things to Leave in 2020

December 31st, 2020

27:28

There are some things you need to leave behind in 2020 if you want to live a more blessed life in 2021. Enjoy your new year!


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57. What To Do in Moments of Weakness

December 24th, 2020

30:13

Ever wonder what to do when you’ve found yourself in a very compromising position? Try these practical tips!

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56. The Media’s Influence on Your Walk with God

December 17th, 2020

30:28

The media has a greater influence on you than you may think. Are they helping or hurting your walk with God?

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55. Singleness Is A Blessing

December 10th, 2020

32:25

Tired of the single season? Listen here for why we think the single season can actually be a blessing!

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54. A Big Problem With Modern Christianity

December 3rd, 2020

36:19

Let’s talk about “living our truth” and more common sayings that’s circulating in various Christian groups today.

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Happy Thanksgiving

November 26th, 2020

8:00

Here are a few things to keep in mind during this Thanksgiving season.

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53. The Four Types of Men that Christian Women Should Avoid

November 19th, 2020

27:45

What are the types of people you should avoid getting into a relationship with? Listen to find out.

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52. Hillsong Pastor Fired - Lessons On Lust

November 12th, 2020

35:14

This isn't something I wanted to discuss at all, but I believe there are some lessons we believers can learn from this.

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51. The Four Types of Women that Christian Men Should Avoid

November 5th, 2020

30:41

These are the women that the men should avoid and that our ladies should avoid becoming.

What are the types of people you should avoid getting into a …

Restoration (Patreon Devotion)

November 2nd, 2020

7:44

Here’s something new we’ve started for our patreon subscribers. I’ll let you all get a sneak peek of an episode.

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50. Temptation by Proximity

October 29th, 2020

33:52

Is your environment or your friends causing you to struggle spiritually?

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49. See Their Potential

October 22nd, 2020

37:11

Are you limiting God because you can't see someone's potential?

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48. How To Handle Rejection

October 15th, 2020

29:15

Struggling with rejection? Listen here on how to deal with it.

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47. Dating When There are Differences in Spiritual Maturity

October 8th, 2020

34:31

Have you ever wondered if it’s okay to date someone who just isn’t at the same mindset and dedication as you spiritually? I think this episode will …

46. Defining The Relationship

October 1st, 2020

35:22

Not sure where you stand? It’s time to define that relationship!

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45. How to Overcome Impure Thoughts

September 24th, 2020

34:28

We’ve all struggled with our thoughts. Trying to battle the anxiety, fear and the lust. Today we talk about how to overcome that biblically.

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44. You Were Bought With A Price

September 17th, 2020

37:03

1 Corinthians 6 says that God bought us with a price. What does that mean for our bodies? Let's discuss that today. 


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43. How To Navigate a Breakup

September 10th, 2020

40:36

Breakups can be messy. Today we talk about a few ways to deal with them. 


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42. Questions to Ask Someone You’re Getting to Know

September 3rd, 2020

36:00

What are some questions you should ask someone you’re getting to know? Listen for a few.

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41. Answering Your Questions

August 27th, 2020

48:32

Answering some of your questions on finances, sex, how to break up and friendships.

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40. The Need For A Godly Woman

August 20th, 2020

43:27

Godly women are absolutely needed! Today Tovares and I will be discussing why. Stay tuned to the end for a surprise!

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39. Is There A "The One" For Us?

August 13th, 2020

28:27

Is there one specific person created for us to marry? Is the idea of a soul-mate biblical? Let's talk about it.


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38. The Need for a Godly Man

August 6th, 2020

43:45

There seems to be a shortage of godly men in many churches today. Let’s discuss this and figure out ways for men to grow and areas we have to address …

37. Should Christians Masturbate?

July 30th, 2020

31:42

We have a bit of a “touchy” subject today...

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36. Lessons on Lust: Samson's Slippery Slope

July 23rd, 2020

38:05

Lust is not a popular topic you'll hear from the pulpit in most church's today. So let's talk about it here! Samson made some careless decisions in …

35. Why Hasn’t God Given Me the Desires of my Heart Yet?

July 16th, 2020

33:18

Does God seem to be moving a little slow on your prayer requests? Single and wondering if Mr./Mrs. Right got lost? Listen to today’s episode as we discuss why God may not have answered the way you expected Him to yet.

34. Practical Ways to Build Your Walk With God

July 9th, 2020

23:06

Trying to get or maintain a godly relationship? The first thing we must do is build our own walk with God FIRST! Let’s discuss some simple, yet foundational ways for doing that now. Oh yeah and a health update!

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33. Christians Living Together Before Marriage

July 2nd, 2020

48:26

Should Christians be living together before marriage? Touchy subject, but let’s discuss it. Is this helping or hindering your growth?

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32. Reasons God will Remove you From a Relationship

June 25th, 2020

34:52

Why does God allow some relationships to end? On today’s episode I’ll be discussing why God may have removed someone from your life.

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31. The Church and Pornography (pt. 2)

June 18th, 2020

47:54

Despite being seen as a man’s battle, pornography is an issue for women within the church as well. Listen to today’s episode with some testimonies from our listeners and some advice for those who may still be …

30. The Church and Pornography

June 11th, 2020

51:30

Pornography is a MAJOR issue in the Church. Not because Jesus hasn’t given us the victory, but because people are silent with their struggles. That …

29. How The Church Can Grow In The Midst of Racism

June 4th, 2020

34:55

This is not a topic we can ignore. Let’s talk about it and see how the Church can help restore peace in our community.

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28. God Said You’re My Spouse?

May 28th, 2020

30:05

Has someone ever told you, “God said you’re my spouse”?... or maybe you’ve said it? Is that biblical or all emotions?

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27. Discerning the Voices Speaking in Your Life

May 21st, 2020

38:35

Who do you have speaking into your life? Let’s talk briefly about how the people in our life can negatively or positively impact our lives.

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26. Dating When You’re not Ready

May 14th, 2020

40:16

There are many people who date because someone is available, but on today’s episode I’d like to discuss why you shouldn’t rush that process.

25. Godly Woman Vs. Church Girl

May 7th, 2020

32:09

Welcome back to the Godly Dating 101 podcast! Today we’ll be discussing the differences between a Godly woman and a church girl! 


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24. Lessons on Lust: Solomon’s Downfall

April 30th, 2020

36:48

On today’s episode we want to talk about lust and being unequally yoked.

Lust is a bit of a touchy subject, no pun intended... maybe a little. Check …

23. No More Good Men? Feat. Ezekiel Azonwu

April 23rd, 2020

45:19

Many of our godly ladies are thinking there aren’t any good men left. Is that true? My brother Ezekiel Azonwu is here to dive into this topic with …

22. How Is The Church Pressuring Singles Into Marriage?

April 16th, 2020

48:45

Singles are under a lot of pressure. Unfortunately, a lot of that comes from other believers in the body of Christ! Let’s discuss areas the Church may need to adjust their approach to those who aren’t married yet.

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21. Dating Based off Status feat. Aaron Cole

April 9th, 2020

31:55

Welcome back to the Godly Dating 101 Podcast! Today we have a special guest and we will be talking about dating someone simply based off of their status.

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20. COVID-19 and its Impact on our lives

April 2nd, 2020

33:57

COVID-19 has really affected almost every area of our lives. Whether directly or indirectly, we all had to make adjustments because of it. Let’s discuss some things that have changed for us and how this crisis can …

19. How Do You Know if You Should Go Back to your Ex?

March 26th, 2020

38:21

Welcome back to the Godly Dating 101 Podcast! Today we’re discussing how to know when to return to an ex and when to stay away.

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18. My Experiences Dating Non-Believers

March 19th, 2020

32:27

Welcome back to the Godly Dating 101 Podcast! Today I’ll be discussing my experiences dating non-believers and the lessons they taught me.

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17. Bible Study Tips For Couples

March 12th, 2020

30:45

Looking to strengthen your relationship spiritually? This episode will help a couple who wants to seek God together to have a firm foundation.

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16. Emotional Manipulation

March 5th, 2020

42:37

Welcome back to The Godly Dating 101 Podcast! Today we’ll be discussing the signs of an emotionally manipulative relationship.

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15. Does It Matter Who I Follow On Social Media?

February 27th, 2020

33:51

Welcome back to The Godly Dating 101 Podcast! Today I’ll be discussing the importance of filtering who you follow.

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14. Wedding Planning, and the Road to I Do

February 20th, 2020

30:01

Welcome back to The Godly Dating 101 Podcast! Today I’m sitting down with my best friend Tia to talk about her journey to marriage.

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13. Habits to Break Before Starting a Relationship

February 13th, 2020

25:30

Welcome back to The Godly Dating 101 Podcast! Today we’ll be discussing a few habits to break before starting a relationship.

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12. We Fell Into Sin. What Now?

February 6th, 2020

42:37

Welcome back to The Godly Dating 101 Podcast! Today we’ll be discussing what to do when your relationship has fallen into sexual sin. Should we break …

11. Why Are Men Afraid to Commit?

January 30th, 2020

44:42

Welcome back to The Godly Dating 101 Podcast! Today we’ll be discussing why men are afraid to commit?

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10. Long Distance Relationships

January 23rd, 2020

32:48

Welcome back to The Godly Dating 101 Podcast! Today we’ll be talking a little about long distance relationships and our experience when we went …

9. Things We Wish We Knew Before Getting Married!

January 17th, 2020

34:21

Welcome back to The Godly Dating 101 Podcast! Today we’ll be talking about a few things we wish we knew before getting married.

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8. How can you tell when a man is serious in his pursuit of a woman?

January 9th, 2020

26:41

Welcome back to The Godly Dating 101 Podcast! Today we’ll be discussing signs to look for when a man is serious in his pursuit of a woman.

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7. How do I get over an ex?

January 2nd, 2020

37:47

Welcome back to the Godly Dating 101 podcast! Today we’ll be discussing what you should do if you’re trying to get over an ex!

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6. Godly Man vs. Church Boy

December 17th, 2019

27:27

Welcome back to the Godly Dating 101 podcast! Today we’ll be discussing the differences between a Godly man and a church boy!

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5. Is it wrong to have a type/preference?

December 7th, 2019

23:22

Welcome back to the Godly Dating 101 podcast! Today we’ll be discussing if it’s right or wrong to have a certain “type”, and how to know if there’s a problem with your specific “type”. 

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4. What are some healthy/practical boundaries to set during a relationship?

November 16th, 2019

45:10

Welcome back to the Godly Dating 101 podcast! Today we’ll be discussing some practical boundaries to implement to have a more God honoring relationship.
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3. Why does God allow me to have these urges before marriage?

October 31st, 2019

32:14

Welcome back to the Godly Dating 101 podcast! Today we’ll be discussing why God allowed us to have desires that we can’t act on until marriage?

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2. What to do when the person you’re dating doesn’t support your chastity?

October 17th, 2019

25:09

Here’s a question we received via Instagram recently and were asked to talk about... so here it is! 
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1. Welcome to the Godly Dating 101 podcast!!!

October 4th, 2019

3:42

We are years overdue! Sorry that it took us so long to finally create a podcast, but we are here now and ready to be a light on this platform as well! Love you all!

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