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Stillness in the Storms

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Stillness in the Storms brings a fresh voice to mindfulness - one that truly understands transformation comes not from escaping hardship, but finding peace within it.Join Steven Webb, a man who turned personal tragedy into an uplifting journey, as he reveals how to uncover inner calm and meaning in … read more


It’s Not About Them, It’s About You: Embracing Inner Peace in Challenging Situations


In this episode, we explore the importance of maintaining inner peace when faced with difficult people or situations. We share stories of Nelson Mandela's ultimate act of forgiveness, the power of meditation and mindfulness, and the impact our words have on our overall well-being. We also delve into our own struggles with anger and seeking revenge and offer tips on how to reframe situations and respond with compassion.

1. Dealing with difficult people and situations

- Advising the speaker's daughter on how to reply to friends

- The Dalai Lama's daily meditation practice to maintain calm and compassionate nature

- Importance of finding ways to cope and maintain inner peace

- Nelson Mandela's understanding of the danger of holding onto anger and bitterness

- Overall message of moving past bitterness and hatred to achieve unity and progress

2. Importance of mindful words and being true to oneself

- Suggesting compassionate words are cheaper than angry/revengeful ones

- Martin Luther King Jr.'s quote on not allowing others to bring you down

- Importance of recognizing our actions and avoiding actions we dislike in others

- Striving to show up as compassionate, caring, and wise

3. Self-reflection and choosing a different response

- Acknowledging the potential escalation of situations and the temptation to seek validation from others on social media

- Swearing and using anger towards people is expensive to inner peace

- Nelson Mandela's power of forgiveness and moving forward without seeking revenge

- Recognizing the trigger of anger may lead to a desire for vengeance

- Importance of being mindful of reactions when triggered by challenging people or situations

4. Experiences and mistakes

- Incident of someone intentionally trying to make the speaker late while driving

- Speaker's mistakes while driving a wheelchair, including almost running over someone's toes and reversing into people.

Timestamped overview

[00:02:59] Be yourself and don't let others bring you down; avoid retaliating and mimicking negative behavior and instead embrace your true self.

[00:04:10] Father advises daughter on how to handle heated discussion with friends.

[00:06:00] Choose compassion over revenge when triggered by difficult people.

[00:07:01] Taking responsibility for anger choices.

[00:11:47] Striving to show up as compassionate, caring and wise, although triggers can still arise in the heat of the moment.

[00:12:40] Narrator tells a story about a person who deliberately made them late while driving, but the narrator sometimes makes mistakes while driving without realizing it.

[00:14:19] Words have a currency and some are more expensive to our inner peace than others.

[00:15:13] Choose kindness and compassion over anger; Nelson Mandela exemplifies forgiveness after imprisonment and the power of non-revenge.

[00:16:07] Letting go of bitterness leads to freedom, as demonstrated by Nelson Mandela inviting his former prison guard to his presidential inauguration.

[00:18:38] Dalai Lama meditates for 4 hours and believes everyone should have their downtime to deal with everyday problems.

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