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So Problematic

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So Problematic is a podcast devoted to the woman that knows what she wants but is misunderstood when she speaks. Join us on the adventure of learning adulthood black women, lessons in self care, health and wellness. The topics of motherhood, relationships and lots more. We just want to know whats th… read more

55 Episodes | 2020 - 2021

It's More Of An Orange Flag Right? But It's Still A Flag! Part 1

September 15th, 2021

53:05

On this episode, It's More Of An Orange Flag Right? But It's Still A Flag! Part 1 -This episode we talked about a few red flags in dating. Financial flags, family flags, sex flags I mean we taking it there. Are broken …

Its Levels To This, Know Ya Place Respect My Space Get Out My Face or You Will Be Replaced!

August 25th, 2021

1:10:25

On this episode, Its Levels To This, Know Ya Place Respect My Space Get Out My Face or You Will Be Replaced! This episode we have the pleasure of spending some QT with our friend Desiree new last name! Sharing different …

Ain’t No Apology In The First 5 Years Of F**king Up I’m Set In My Ways…But I Know My Position In This Marriage

August 18th, 2021

51:36

🚨Today is So Problematic Wednesday- NEW EPISODE!!!

On this episode, AINT NO APOLOGY IN THE FIRST 5 YEARS OF F**KING UP I’M SET IN MY WAYS…BT I KNOW MY POSITION IN THIS MARRIAGE! This episode we have the pleasure of …

Couldn’t Lay in the Bed They Preached F**kery in…But Wish You the Best… Grow the F**k Up!

August 11th, 2021

45:58

On this episode, Couldn’t Lay in the Bed They Preached F**kery in…But Wish You the Best… Grow the F**k Up! This episode we discuss accountability. …

My Mommy Was Mad At Me So She Put Me In The Corner… But I Saw Grandma Go Get Her Switch Fa Dat Azz!

August 5th, 2021

46:03

🚨Today is So Problematic Wednesday- NEW EPISODE!!!

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On this episode, My Mommy Was Mad At Me So She Put Me In The Corner… But I Saw Grandma Go Get Her Switch Fa Dat Azz! This episode we discuss when is crossing the …

Stop Lyin To That Man You Faked It And His Deep Stroke Ain't Hitting Right!!!

July 28th, 2021

26:58

On this episode, Stop Lyin To That Man You Faked It And His Deep Stroke Ain't Hitting Right!!! This episode we discuss the weak deep stroke that does …

Kicked Out After The Wedding Honeymoon Phase Is Over Pack Ya Bags

July 21st, 2021

29:06

🚨Today is So Problematic Wednesday- NEW EPISODE!!!

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On this episode, Kicked Out After The Wedding Oh Sh*T Honeymoon Phase Is Over Pack Ya Bags This episode we discuss a little bit about getting kicked out the house …

KEEP YA HAIRBALLS…SINGLE PARENTS HAVE IT TOUGH!

July 14th, 2021

52:33

On this episode, KEEP YA HAIRBALLS…SINGLE PARENTS HAVE IT TOUGH! This episode we discuss a little bit about new intro music for our podcast shoutout to Erica from @Ericawithacpodcast for an awesome suggestion. We get …

Black-ish or Black AF!!!

July 7th, 2021

18:42

This episode we rant really quick about how our own people can be very judgmental about not being woke enough… There are those who are just too woke and tear down others for not being on the same level as them about our …

Happy Podiversary To Us!

June 28th, 2021

26:53

We want to take the opportunity to say thank you to everyone who has supported us on this podcast journey! We can't wait to see what the future holds …

Order of Business with Dejuan

June 9th, 2021

1:12:36

On this episode, ORDER OF BUSINESS  We had the pleasure of having DEJUAN from THE GROWN MAN LOGIC PODCAST join us on this episode. Should we treat a …

Gettin Flew Out, To Eat Crawfish in A Motel!

June 2nd, 2021

1:12:42

On this episode, GETTIN FLEW OUT TO EAT CRAWFISH IN A MOTEL We had the pleasure of having BIG L AND PORK from THE COOL OUT CORNER PODCAST join us on this episode. All we have to say is- please use headphones and …

What's Anxiety & Setting Boundaries w/ TheBarbieWay

May 26th, 2021

1:03:35

On this episode, WHATS ANXIETY & SETTING BOUNDARIES We had the pleasure of having Cortney from Thee Barbie Way Podcast join us on this episode. …

Surviving Alcoholism Abuse

May 19th, 2021

38:58

On this episode, SURVIVING ALCOHOLISM ABUSE We had to get deep with dealing with a spouse who was in a relationship with other things and not his wife. Jay shares a little about her struggles of being a wife to a …

Lupus Did Not Win...!

May 12th, 2021

56:13

On this episode, LUPUS DID NOT WIN…! We had the pleasure of speaking with Jay’s Mother Mrs Esther who is a phenomenal nurse, Newlywed, amazing mother and is still surviving Lupus-her way! She shares her story and …

Becoming A Mother-Our Stories

May 5th, 2021

1:05:57

On this episode, BECOMING A MOTHER-Sharing Our Stories Every mother has a story…How we delivered our babies into this world or how we felt the first time we made eye contact with those little faces. Jay and CiCi share …

Never Loose Yourself In A Relationship

April 28th, 2021

1:05:37

Have your relationship taken over so much that you don't know who YOU are anymore? Some relationships have understanding from the jump but others can be very draining. You find yourself justifying someones behavior …

Family + Toxic Traits

April 21st, 2021

1:06:36

You don't know how toxic certain family traits are until you get old enough to understand them, recognize them and learn from them. You felt …

Cici's Meditation Affirmations

April 18th, 2021

4:55

*BONUS EPISODE* Here is a little self care mantra from ya girl CiCi. we wanted to provide something a little different so we decided to give a little bonus episode of meditation. hope you enjoy and feel free to share, …

Women Are A Reflection of How You Treat Her

April 14th, 2021

40:40

On this episode, WOMEN ARE A REFLECTION OF HOW YOU TREAT HER - Fellas do you think your woman is just over reacting for no reason? Sis, Did he stop dating you after the first 6 months and now you feel like he is getting …

My Body Vs Birth Control...

April 7th, 2021

41:24

Have you ever struggled with finding out what works for your body? Women struggle with trying to figure out which birth control to use all the the …

Women's History Month (Part 2)

March 31st, 2021

55:13

March is Woman's History Month. Although we deserve a year or even a decade. A month is a good start for the world to see how essential women are in this world. In this episode we discuss all the obstacles that women …

Women's History Month (Part 1)

March 17th, 2021

51:15

March is Woman's History Month. Although we deserve a year or even a decade. A month is a good start for the world to see how essential women are in this world. In this episode we discuss all the obstacles that women …

Cockblocked By Ya Period!

March 10th, 2021

28:37

Your period is your worst best friend you just can’t get rid of… you could have it all planned out the day it goes off or rather the days before it …

Nutrition=More Than Just Food

March 3rd, 2021

31:18

How are you treating your body lately? During this pandemic most of pick up the first thing that is available to us because we are busy trying to stay save and working at the same time. Your PH balance been kinda off, …

Dating A Gamer

February 24th, 2021

36:52

Do you agree that gaming is overrated? What if the person you are dating is into gaming? Do you support him in gaming? Well Cici and Jay had a few drinks and we are sharing some advice/experience of dating (CiCi …

Genre: Toxic Music

February 17th, 2021

43:49

Some songs uplift and some songs trigger. In this episode we talk about toxic songs and how we do not realize what they are saying and how they subconsciously affect our thinking or behaviors. 

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What Is Your Love Language?

February 10th, 2021

44:38

This episode is all about love... What is your love language? We discuss the different ways to show your love to your significant other and also share our love language. Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, Quality …

Double Standards (light convo w/hubby & friend)

February 3rd, 2021

56:43

We had the opportunity to sit and talk with CiCi husband oh and friend about double standards. The different points of views from a male perspective on relationship and how men few relationships & love. Tell us what …

This Generation Is Ghetto!!!

January 27th, 2021

1:02:51

This episode is dedicated to the young ones of this generation... What happen to four square and cheerleading in the front yard? What about the basketball court on the side streets or playing tag in the neighborhood? …

Pandemic of Motherhood

January 20th, 2021

2:06:13

This Episode we have our guest podcasters DopeMomsUnfiltered and we discuss the struggles of parenting during the pandemic. How some things have changed and we had to adapt to the changes in our children as well. Who …

Dont Talk About It Be About It

January 13th, 2021

32:25

Welcome to 2021! Everyone creates New Year Resolutions and for us we wanted to do. things differently... Why set our selves up with so much …

Last Lesson of the Year-Tappin Out Bih!

December 22nd, 2020

32:04

On this episode, we discuss the things women have a hard time discussing openly with significant other!!! Periods, uncomfortable sex positions, being in the mood, child labor and more!!! You definitely don't want to …

Santa Baby...All I Want For Christmas Is...

December 16th, 2020

38:15

This episode we discuss our favorite holiday movies, songs and how Walmart has stepped their clothing game up a bit. Target will always be a favorite …

Best Gift Is Yo Damn Kids!

December 9th, 2020

1:09:36

This episode we discuss the best and worst Christmas gifts in our opinion and that includes wine fridge and yo damn kids lol. We also share how other …

Thanksgiving Kids Edition

November 25th, 2020

42:53

This video is about So Problematic-Kids Thanksgiving Edition 
 Call us crazy but we decided to let our little ones take over this week and wow it was funny and entertaining... the kids have everything to say and as we …

Chit Chat with Us

November 23rd, 2020

1:04:19

We just share a few random thoughts while sippin on a nice sangria and discussing the change happening in our lives while we head into a new week and …

Boundaries Wit Errybody!!!

November 19th, 2020

1:00:00

Let's talk about it though... Do you really have boundaries set with your family or friends? Have anyone ever crossed the line and did nothing about it? What about when your friend is telling your business to other …

What Do We Expect from Our Next President!

November 12th, 2020

40:12

this episode was literally right on time! As we were setting up to discuss the election and how it was taking a long time to pick a president, thats when it was announced that Biden and Harris was elected as the next …

Exit Stage 4 w/ Benita Butler

October 29th, 2020

42:11

Ending the Breast Cancer month we had another guest Ms. Benita Butler and she introduced to us more information about how to identify a lump in your breast and how she went from stage unsure to stage 4 in a matter of …

They Tried It But I Survived It

October 26th, 2020

1:13:04

This podcast we interviewed my friend and breast cancer survivor Brittania Bryant also known as Tyga. Her story has helped a lot of other women and we wanted to share our platform with her to tell it once more! You can …

Disappointed or Nah? (Part 2)

October 22nd, 2020

42:48

You are allowed to feel like your life is not where it's supposed to be but we say do something about it instead of constantly complaining. Why are there so many expectations on where we are supposed to be in life at a …

Disappointed or Nah (Part 1)

October 15th, 2020

40:20

You are allowed to feel like your life is not where it's supposed to be but we say do something about it instead of constantly complaining. Why are there so many expectations on where we are supposed to be in life at a …

Married People Acting Single AF!

October 1st, 2020

38:58

This episode we touch on the topic of married people doing single things. It’s not fair to the single people they need to be out there finding each other right? So if you are married stay out of people DMs....

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It’s Not COVID.... It’s what???

September 24th, 2020

50:25

We are back and in full effect! Let’s catch up and find out what happen to Jay the past few weeks. Let’s find out how elearning is going! Oh and lets …

Married Life: I do, I did, I don’t!

August 27th, 2020

9:57:19

This episode we are discussing Married Life, the lessons we have learned, and how to move on in a positive aspect.

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Chillin’ with Jay & Cici

August 20th, 2020

1:07:28

We wanted to relax this episode with come hang and get to know us a little more! Introvert, Extrovert or Ambivert!

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Black Businesses & A Overnight Bag

August 11th, 2020

55:07

I support black businesses do you? It has its Pros and Cons but we are all in this together and sis we need to discuss the good and the bad! Oh and J …

Warning Sis... Addiction is Real!!!

August 6th, 2020

1:10:17

Not all can understand the struggles of dealing with a person with addiction. Hear us share a little about our experiences with abuse, being married to someone with addiction and a few numbers to help if you know …

Reflections of Parenthood (part 2)

July 30th, 2020

44:37

Part 2 is more in-depth of how some of us grew up and how we choose to raise our own children. Listen to the heartfelt conversation in this episode and get to know us a litter deeper! Get your tissue sis!

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Reflections of Parenthood (Part 1)

July 23rd, 2020

46:30

I smoke, I drank, I’m not a weed head thou... anyways we all grew up differently but has it affected your adulthood? What about the way you raise you …

Wet Floors & Only 1 Dick!!!

July 16th, 2020

2:52:27

So we wanted to find out if its okay to enjoy toys while also in a relationship. We don’t see a problem with it right? What about the pet peeves that bother us the most? What’s up with having wet floors??? Listen and …

It’s A Mood: Confident AF!

July 8th, 2020

1:19:08

Sis! Confidence has always been an issue for women but we are here to give advice and tips on how to build that confidence up. Don’t worry we mention that weight management issue too trust we eat it! Join us as we talk …

Black Lives Matter!

June 28th, 2020

45:08

George Floyd matters, Breonna Taylor matters! We just want justice for our black community so join us as we just discuss these topics!

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Introduction to So Problematic

June 15th, 2020

0:44

SP is a show devoted to that woman that knows what she wants but misunderstood when she speaks!

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