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She Cums First

94 EpisodesProduced by Dr. Nick Myers - Sexual Health blogger and podcasterWebsite

She Cums First:Promoting Females Sexual Pleasure and Male (re)Education.Good day, Dr. Nick here. This is a podcast focused on sexual health and all of the pleasures that comes with it. In the learning section of this group, there is a series called Selfless Sex where the focus is learning how to pl… read more

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#7 - Just talking about sex with...

May 16th, 2021


Kesha and Jackson, #4.  We continue our conversation talking about S&M and sexual positions.  Enjoy.

#6 - Just talking about sex with...

May 2nd, 2021


Kesha and Jackson, Part 3.  In this podcast, we discuss squirting and the meaning of "satisfaction."  Its different for everyone.  Enjoy.

#5 - Just talking about sex with...

April 18th, 2021


Kesha and Jackson, Part 2. Here is another piece of my interview with the couple.  They did not hold back and I hope you enjoy the passion they share …

SS - Masturbation and Premature Ejaculation

April 18th, 2021


Gentlemen, I believe over the years, we taught ourselves to ejaculate quickly.  While cumming quickly is good in certain situations, it may not work …

#4 - Just talking about sex with...

April 11th, 2021


Kesha and Jackson, #1.  Here is another "Just Talking..." podcast series, where I interviewed my first couple.  It was a very lively interview with more to come.  Thanks for listening.

SS - Prostate Play....Is it for you?

March 7th, 2021


Maybe.  This podcast topic was requested by 2 women who want to explore prostate play with their men.  Some men enjoy having their prostate "tickled."  At the same time, other men wrongly connect pleasure with …

#3 - Just talking About Sex with...

February 28th, 2021


Tori and Keri.  In the final 3rd of my interview with Tori and Keri, the question was what makes sex amazing for you?  Take a listen to what they have to say as we discussed several topics related to sexual health.  …

#2 - Just talking about sex with....

February 14th, 2021


Tori and Keri.  Happy Valentine's Day everyone. Here is the second part of my interview with Tori and Keri. Topic: If you had one message to give to …

#1 - Just Talkin' About Sex with...

February 1st, 2021


Tori and Keri. Here's something new for you.  The three of us had a rather nice conversation on the importance of kissing.  I hope you like this.  Thank you Tori and Keri for sitting down with me. 

SS - Should sex work be decriminalized?

January 25th, 2021


Supporters feel decriminalizing sex work could empower sex workers and aid public health.  Others feel it would increase the exploitation of …

SS - Cannabis and Sexual Health

January 18th, 2021


Products with CBD are appearing everywhere.  Can cannabis products improve your sex life? Are there any downsides to using these products?  Research is playing catch-up but at least it finally started.  Enjoy.

SS - UTI's in men

January 10th, 2021


Men can get a UTI (Urinary Tract Infection).  The symptoms can mimic STDs so a doctor has to run tests on you to see what you actually have.  Unfortunately, I have a story to tell.  Ugh!! 

SS - Covid-19 and Erectile Dysfunction.

January 4th, 2021


Happy New Year!  Here is a new podcast to get the year started right.  Yes, there is research which says Covid-19 can cause ED.  Please protect yourself.  We're in this fight together.

SS - Its been a year already.

July 5th, 2020


Well... truth be told, I forgot I started this podcast in May of 2019.  What a year its been.  I really cannot advertise on social media but the …

Sex in the time of Covid-19. #3: Thank you NYC Health Department

June 21st, 2020


The NYC Health Department put out guidelines on how to have safer sex during the current Covid-19 emergency.  It touches on various sexual behaviors with a positive light.  Be sure to read it when you get the chance.  …

SS - How to play with the balls.

June 7th, 2020


A requested topic. A young lady wanted to know how to pleasure her partners testicles.  For starters, be gentile with them and talk to your partner about what he likes.  At the end of this podcast, I discuss how some …

SS - Spice up your sex life

May 24th, 2020


Has your sex life started to slow down because you've been stuck in the house together? In this podcast, here are a few suggestions to reignite your …

PSA: Covid 19 found in semen.

May 14th, 2020


News broke earlier this week about Covid 19 found in the semen of recovered men.  Here is a bit of information on what the study said and what it did not say.  Bottom line...more research is needed. 

SS - Favorite Sex Position (Podcast)

May 4th, 2020


We all have our favorite sexual positions.  In this podcast, I discuss the top 9 positions plus the 3 best sexual positions for her pleasure.  If you're feeling brave, try a few from the Kama Sutra.  What's your …

Sex in the time of Covid-19, #3: Stuck inside together (Podcast)

April 26th, 2020


While this podcast is not directly about sex, I wanted to discuss ways you can have a healthier relationship when things return to "normal." For starters, please remember to be kind to each other. Be safe out there. …

SS - Sexual Fantasies...time to explore them? (Podcast)

April 19th, 2020


Good day. Quick question...what are your sexual fantasies?  Have you ever talked to your partner about them? I suggest you may want to have that conversation because you may share the same fantasies.  Thanks for …

SS - Sex after divorce (Podcast)

April 13th, 2020


Good day everyone. In this podcast, I discuss becoming sexual again after getting a divorce.  If you were married for 20 years, the dating scene has changed... a lot.  I suggest you take your time, ask yourself if …

SS - Sex in the time of Covid-19, #2: Can technology help? (Podcast)

April 5th, 2020


Since many of us are practicing 'social distancing,' having sex can be a bit difficult.  In this podcast, I discuss using various forms of technology …

SS - Lets talk about lube. (Podcast)

March 29th, 2020


Using the right lube can make sex much more pleasurable.  The truth is not all lubes are created equal.  In this podcast, I discuss the different types of lubes, with their costs and benefits.  What about "all-natural" …

SS - Too busy for sex?

March 22nd, 2020

9:05 is 2020 and we're all over-scheduled.  We're on the move as soon as our feet hit the floor then we pass out at night.  Are we too busy for …

SS - Sex in the time of Covid-19

March 15th, 2020


In this podcast, I discuss some of the challenges sexually active people may face while we deal with Covid-19.  I focus on dating, people who are HIV positive and the upcoming fleet of "Corona-Babies." #Kissing? …

SS - Have Good Sex.

March 8th, 2020


You should be having good sex.  If not, why not? In this podcast, I do not tell you how to have good sex but I offer suggestions on why you should …

SS - Can you change your "taste?"

March 1st, 2020


Can you change the taste of your semen or your vaginal secretions?  For the majority of people, the answer is yes.  There are certain food you can …

SS - Eating to be Sexually Healthy

February 23rd, 2020


Your overall diet can have a major impact on your sex life.  Eating the healthier foods and avoiding the wrong foods is key.  The tough part is that some foods are both good and bad for you, depending on the amount you …

SS - Sexual Health and Aging (Podcast)

February 16th, 2020


What will your sex life look like as you age?  While there plenty of myths out there, are you putting yourself in a position to be sexually active at a later stage in life? Eating healthy and exercise goes a long way in …

SS - ...On dating an "older" woman (Podcast)

February 9th, 2020


Following the age & sexual health theme for February, it was only fair to discuss dating an "older" woman.  I discuss a few things you should …

SS - Why dating an older gentleman may be good for you. (Podcast)

February 3rd, 2020


Since it is my birthday month, I'm going to talk about getting older.  So yes, I believe dating an older gentleman may be beneficial for you. Here …

SS - How to have mind-blowing intimate sex everytime (Podcast)

January 27th, 2020


In this podcast, I discuss an article that was sent my way called 'How I learned to have mind-blowing, intimate sex every time.' The author discusses …

SS - Thoughts about Period Sex. (Podcast)

January 20th, 2020


A colleague asked me to do a podcast on period sex.  Specifically, she wanted to know how to discuss this with her partner and what do other guys …

Quickie - Anal Play: Should you use numbing lube? (Podcast)

January 20th, 2020


I think you should avoid any type of numbing cream/ lubes for anal play.  The whole idea is to experience the sensations, right?  If you use a …

SS - Anal Play: Is it for you? (Podcast)

January 13th, 2020


In this society, due to several reasons, anal play/ anal eroticism is taboo. Have you ever thought about anal play being an pleasurable experience?  I believe it can be a great experience, if done correctly and safely.  …

Quickie - Phone etiquette on a date (Podcast)

January 6th, 2020


After watching a rather worrisome and lonely date the other night, here are 3 tips for phone etiquette on a romantic date. Hint: Use technology to …

SS - Makeup Sex vs. Revenge Sex...which is better? (Podcast)

January 5th, 2020


Which is the better, more satisfying type of sex? Both are emotionally charged with a number of pros and cons.  Of course, I mention my preference so, what do you feel about this? Do you have a preference?

SS - Sexual Resolutions for 2020 (Podcast)

December 29th, 2019


Are you going make any resolutions for 2020?  What about sexual resolutions?  We are quick to think about our financial and physical health but what …

SS - Interracial Relationships (Podcast)

December 22nd, 2019


It is no surprise people in interracial relationships or marriages have to deal with many challenges, both internal and external. Question...can you be Pro- and have an interracial relationship/ marriage?  Some say no.  …

SS - Dr. Nick's Stocking Stuffers 2019

December 15th, 2019


Why not buy some sexy stocking stuffers for your partner?  I have just a few suggestions plus some DIY tips. Please be sure, during this busy holiday …

SS - Side Dick...the greener grass?

December 9th, 2019


Having a guy on the side.  For many women, there are various reasons why they start down this road.  My it worth it?  Maybe your …

SS - Single During the Holidays (Podcast)

December 2nd, 2019


While being single during the holidays can be rough.  In the eyes of your family, even if you've been dating someone for awhile, its like it doesn't …

Quickie - "Peter Meter Challenge" - Final Update (Podcast)

December 1st, 2019


Well, I made it one month.  I ate a limited amount of chicken here and there but I like the results so far.  I'd like to see other men other there …

Quickie - Should you have sex at the in-laws home? (Podcast)

November 28th, 2019


Happy Thanksgiving everyone. While you visit your in-laws, a few of you will get horny.  Should you have sex?  I say maybe, but here are a few tips …

SS - Threesomes (Podcast)

November 25th, 2019


Should you have a threesome?  Well, there are a few things you need to discuss before it happens.  Are they any rules?  How do you find someone?  …

SS Quickie - "Peter Meter" Challenge, 2 Week Update (Podcast)

November 19th, 2019


I'm 2 weeks into my plant-based diet.  Things have changed for the better, seriously!  I even asked my lady to give her thoughts about the diet.  I …

SS - The Importance of Quickies (Podcast)

November 18th, 2019


Quickies are fun.  Sometimes, it's just what the doctor ordered.  In this episode, I discuss fun sexual positions for quickies (i.e. bent over the desk at work). Don't forget, an oral sex quickie also count …

SS - Watching Porn Together (Podcast)

November 11th, 2019


Should you watch porn together?  I think so.  Its a good way to spend time together and hopefully, have a bit of fun.  Also, you can learn a few …

SS - The "Peter Meter" challenge...

November 3rd, 2019


Gentlemen, can a plant-based diet help your sex life? Maybe. After watching The Game Changers on Netflix, I think it is possible but the science is still missing.  But still, I'm going to start the Peter Meter …

SS - Having a Fetish. (Podcast)

October 27th, 2019


What's a fetish?  While they are found more in men, women have them as well.  Are they good for you?  Do you have an actual fetish or a sexual preference?  Have a listen...

Quickie: Female Athletes and Sexual Desire (Podcast)

October 27th, 2019


From a conversation with my lady and her friends who are athletes, the question was posed, "Why am I horny all the time?" Could their level of …

SS - The Importance of Touch (Podcast)

October 20th, 2019


We need touch in our life, including non-sexual touch.  For some, non-sexual touch is more important than sex. Do you agree? Furthermore, I want to say its time for us to take a more active look at our sexual health and …

SS - (Lauren #1) - The rapid increase of STDs (Podcast)

October 20th, 2019


With a very special guest, we discuss the new report from the CDC on the increase of syphilis, gonorrhea and chlamydia over the past 5 years.  What …

SS - Blow Jobs! (Podcast)

October 13th, 2019


Now that I have your attention, I'm talking about fellatio today.  Why do guys like them so much?  Are their techniques to make them better? …

SS - Are you in an "Emotionally Safe" relationship? (Podcast)

October 6th, 2019


While many of us are in relationships or married, do you feel safe to express yourself on an emotional level?  While articles say empathy plays a …

SS - How do you show your lady she is loved and appreciated? (Podcast)

September 29th, 2019


Following last weeks podcast about showing love for men, how do you show the lady in your life she is loved and appreciated?  This should be fun.  I …

SS - How do you show your man he is loved and appreciated? (Podcast)

September 22nd, 2019


While #SCF promotes female pleasure, we cannot forget about men.  So, how do you let your man know he is loved and appreciated for everything he does to make your life better?  How does he know you want him sexually?

SS - The Importance of Kissing (Podcast)

September 16th, 2019


Kissing provides many benefits to your relationship.  It helps with stress and intimacy.  So, how many of you have been kissed passionately lately?  Plus, there's a homework assignment at the end of the podcast too.  I …

SS Quickie - Suggestions on Cunnilingus #2, Humming? (Podcast)

September 15th, 2019


Have you ever tried humming on your lady's clit?  It may give her an extra level of pleasure.  Be sure to ask her first.  So, how do you do it?

SS - Can your sexless relationship survive? (Podcast)

September 8th, 2019


How did you end up in a sexless relationship?  There are various reasons why this happened but, can your relationship last?  If you both match on certain criteria sure, it can work.  But, what if you no longer match …

SS - Suggestions on Cunniligus...eating Pu$$y (Podcast)

September 1st, 2019


Hey. Here is a quick podcast that's full of suggestions on how to perform cunnilingus.  A friend offered her tips as well.  Also, if you have …

SS - When she has a higher sex drive? (Podcast)

August 26th, 2019


What happens when she has a higher sex drive than he does?  At the same time, I'm hearing from women they are not getting any sexual attention from their husbands/ boyfriends.  This is like a perfect storm for concern.  …

SS - Do you have any insecurities when it comes to sex? (Podcast)

August 18th, 2019


In the podcast, I discuss a study that looked at some of the more common sexual insecurities, for both men and women.  The impact of these insecurities can be devastating.  I ask, if you've ever had a sexual insecurity, …

SS - Putting effort into your relationship (Podcast)

August 11th, 2019


Are you putting a good faith effort into your relationship?  While men typically get the bad rap for this, women have to put in work too.  Also, are you putting any effort into your sexual relationship?

About Dr. Nick...(Podcast)

July 25th, 2019


About me. I spent a lot of time in schools, getting educated on sexuality. I'm a former rock drummer (dive bar, rock star), a pretty good gamer and a …

Five Love Languages (Podcast)

July 21st, 2019


What's your love language?  I suggest taking the test as a couple to see if you're on the same page or are you "missing" each other. 

Food and Testosterone (Podcast)

July 21st, 2019


While guys are making better food choices, some food can lower your levels of testosterone.  This can impact your sexual health.  Also, cut your …

016 - African American men & Prostate Cancer

August 12th, 2018


Why is there a disparity between African-American men and men from other ethnic groups when it comes to prostate cancer?  Is it the environment?  …

014 - The Husband Stitch

July 22nd, 2018


My better half told me about a procedure that happens to women typically right after birth to make their vagina's "tight" for their husband.  Most …

012 - Barriers to Sexual Health after Radical Prostatectomy

June 1st, 2018


In this podcast, I discuss a research article that looked at the potential sexual barriers couples have prior to surgery or other treatment and their response to the diagnosis of prostate cancer.

011 - Ask Dr. Nick...How to ask for spontaneous sex?

May 31st, 2018


The question..."Women like spontaneous sex. How can a female request this to their spouse without making them feel some type of way?"

010 - Ask Dr. Nick...Why are men intimidated by sex toys?

May 31st, 2018

12:20's the question. "Why do some men feel intimidated when a woman requests sex toys to be used in bed?" There are many reasons. I think it has more to do with ego versus "feeling replaced," which is the easy …

009 - Ask Dr. Nick...Why don't men like to perform oral sex? (Part 1)

May 31st, 2018


Different versions of this question appeared in my inbox. This is a serious question for many women who are dealing with this problem.  I came up with a couple of reasons.  Why do you think men are not doing this? 

008 - The Role of the Partner in Sexual Health

May 31st, 2018


In many cases, the partner is there going through various stages with his or her partner's new diagnosis, pre-treatment, surgery and post-treatment life.  What can the partner do to help?  What emotions are the partners …

007 - Ask Dr. Nick...Why do some guys like their semen swallowed?

May 31st, 2018


A new question arrived from a young lady asking why do guys like to have their semen swallowed? Listen to my podcast to hear my response.  Feel free to add your own answer in the comment section below.

006 - Kegels for him

May 31st, 2018


In a companion article on, I tell men how to exercise and strengthen their pelvic floor muscles by doing Kegel exercises. (A possible side effect is stronger orgasms!) Enjoy...

005 - Old Dog, New Tricks

May 31st, 2018


Based on my article posted in, I believe men can relearn what it means to be sexual and without being penis-focused.

004 - Ask Dr. Nick...Is it rude not to tell your lover about birth control?

May 30th, 2018


A woman asked if it's rude not to tell her lover she's on birth control? Personally, I think its none of his business.  Listen to my response and …

003 - The Psycho-Sexual (Side) Effects of Prostate Cancer

May 30th, 2018


In this podcast, I focused on the emotional and psychological side effects related to Prostate Cancer and Sexual Health.

002 - Three Benefits of Sex

May 29th, 2018


Sex is actually very good for you. Lets count the ways…

About Me

May 29th, 2018


This is just a little bit about me and why I like to write, talk and educate on the Prostate Cancer, Bladder Cancer and Sexual Health.

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