Sex with Jaiya

Jaiya is joined by Dr Betty Martin, author and creator of The Lover’s Touch. After years of working with people in the realm of their sexuality, Dr Martin was surprised by the number of people who feel little real choice in their sensual and sexual lives, or struggle to exercise the choice they actually do have, or even to voice their desires. Everyone seems to have a great capacity to do what they think they are supposed to, instead of what they really long for in that moment. Dr Betty says, “I have come to appreciate desire and choice as the route to freedom and playful loving expression. Without choice, there is no freedom, and without freedom there is no play.” Dr Betty developed a simple, playful experience for two or more people that guides partners into desire and choice – easily, gently, sensually and as deeply as they like at any moment. It may be played for a few minutes to a few hours, and may be comforting, arousing, exploratory, fanciful, deep, silly, intimate, luscious, sexy or blissfully transporting. Each time it is played, new options arise. This is the basis of the book she is currently writing: : “The Lover’s Touch: How to bring your heart into your hands, and what it can teach you about life and love” www.theloverstouch.com