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Culture IS Strategy

May 20th, 2019

13:24

Culture is just behaviour. Effect is just a result of behaviour.

Are you focused on your own behaviour and that of those around you? without this it …

Resilience - in business and relationships

May 12th, 2019

15:25

What does Resilience mean to you?

What does it enable?

Hard work is NOT results, are you chasing illusions.

May 8th, 2019

21:25

Are you doing the work that matters?

Or are you just doing hard work because you "hope" if its hard, it should be rewarded?

Restorability & backup for better relationships

April 29th, 2019

20:49

Just some food for thought on the URGENT need for you to think about restorability so backups don’t get in the way of your relationships.

* Divorce and family photos?

* Employee and boss asks for phone back?

* …

Who controls the data for your emotional choices?

April 22nd, 2019

18:05

Who controls the data for your emotional choices? Know thyself is more urgent than ever!

We’re all emotional creatures – a great important part of …

This is Marketing worth the listen or read from so many angles

April 14th, 2019

18:59

This is Marketing worth the listen or read from so many angles

This episode is a tribute to Seth Godin, and a recommendation of his book This Is Marketing: You Can't Be Seen Until You Learn to See

IF you only read one …

Brand, Reputation and DOING the work that matters.

March 30th, 2019

19:28

Brand, Reputation and DOING the work that matters.

I know I here talk about how important DOING things is – to get real life feedback, to connect, to learn. Getting our ideas out of our heads to meet the world so we …

Go around it

March 23rd, 2019

12:46

Go around it. Dont wait for perfect - Its OK to go around the long way as long as you keep taking steps forward

 

Be kind to yourself. Dont wait for the perfect candidate, perfect opportunity or perfect idea.

 

Once you …

Laser Focus

March 16th, 2019

15:20

Laser Focus

What are you focusing on right now? So many of us imagine success as “having it all.” While that may be true, the way to get there requires focus; giving up a lot of things, disappearing from the …

Strangled by your own convenience

March 10th, 2019

24:50

Strangled by your own convenience

I know you love your comfort zone

So do I. I go there to rest myself and I have to force myself out, into scary uncharted territory every time

My Personal Trainer say most of us have …

How to be a person of Value

February 24th, 2019

15:34

How to be a person of Value

Einstein said:

Try not to be a person of success,

Instead try to be a person of value.

 

So you have to ask yourself. What is VALUE those you serve?

If don’t value people, you will never ask …

Status: Your Status, Others and the emotional work that matter

February 17th, 2019

37:51

I think we need to talk about YOUR status and it’s urgent we embrace the world we’re living in when it comes to status. Status

 

Status roles are at …

Masks and working with David Marquet on making the invisible visible

February 9th, 2019

20:21

Ric's currently reading the books "Masks of Masculinity" by Lewis Howes which led to some great conversations when he was working together with David …

Self-identity and how that can blind us, in my case on arrogance

February 4th, 2019

11:48

I’m grateful I got the chance to work with David Marque this week. I learned lot from him this week but have learned from him in so many ways like …

Setting things right – whats better than right?

January 28th, 2019

28:37

Set things Right – whats better than right? it’s easy to forget that what’s right most often is a matter of worldview. Ensure to separate facts, observations and measurements from labels Both are needed to do better …

Act as if

January 21st, 2019

26:14

Act as if – Do, measure, evaluate, experiment Failure, might not work as part of your identity, where it’s easier to learn from failure. not fake it to you make it – where it’s really hard to emotionally handle failure …

Expectations are the fuel and engine of perceptions

January 14th, 2019

22:10

How well are you tending to yours? How aware are you that they’re at the helm of everything you do, and everyone you meet. What do you expect to see on the other side of your effort? How often are you right? Dont expect …

Decision traceback – delayed feedback and results, learn to embrace yes or no when it matters

January 7th, 2019

16:23

Its easy to forget when a decision is actually made. When we’re stuck fighting the system of not embracing a YES fully, or not setting a clear and …

How do I know this is the idea to go all in for?

December 24th, 2018

20:47

How do I know this is the idea to go all in for? I hear this from clients and people often, in different forms like: Please tell me THIS is the idea to go all in for Is this THE idea to go for? Please tell me I’m at the …

Teach Dare to do things that might not work

December 17th, 2018

24:47

Teach Dare to do things that might not work Don’t wait for school or anyone else to teach those that matter to you the most important things like …

Beware Fake Paths, illusionary progress and blockers

December 10th, 2018

20:48

Beware Fake Paths, illusionary progress and blockers Learn to listen to yourself, including when to, and when not to, others

Algoritms- why they matter so much to your relationships

December 3rd, 2018

20:45

Algoritms- why they matter so much to your relationships The chain of algoritms is woven around all you meet, all day long. Your reputation preceede you in all your first contacts There is no escape. Use it or get used …

Christmas is coming – talk to your people. We are all rusty and emotional at this

November 26th, 2018

6:22

Christmas is coming – talk to your people. We are all rusty and emotional during this holiday, be kind to yourself AND those around you. Start …

What you are unaware of controls you

November 19th, 2018

33:30

What you are unaware of controls you Always work to become more aware. You can’t work with stuff that you’re not aware of. You can’t know the great …

Patience – Race dont chase

November 12th, 2018

27:51

Patience is something you can become better at. Its not a born thing that you either have or don’t have. Patience matter now most urgently because all the easy jobs will be gone soon. Easy is replacable. Automatable. …

Your Communication matter – 3 simple steps for better effect

November 5th, 2018

14:52

Meta talk about YOUR communication. Yes, I’m talking about your message earlier today. Are you seeing the effect you want when you say something?  

Embrace failing AND keep taking action to learn what better looks like

October 29th, 2018

10:46

Embrace failing AND keep taking action to learn what better looks like   If you find yourself failing often where you want to be in life and business. Allow yourself to take smaller steps and be kind to yourself when …

6 Steps to a Ready Resume – its time to update

October 22nd, 2018

10:28

Life is full of changes. Opportunities often catch us by surprise. Only those who are ready to grab the chance wins the game. An updated resume is a …

Befriend Boredom

October 15th, 2018

7:34

Busy, busy, busy! We live in a world where everyone is dedicated, driven, and competitive at work. Traffic takes forever. We spend our night eating fast food in front of Netflix when we’re not out for a drink with …

Let it Go

October 8th, 2018

7:05

Let It Go Brace yourself! Life is a voyage. You will sail to wondrous places. Strangers can become friends and friends can become strangers. Expect the unknown and the unexpected. Be prepared to win and lose. Stay …

The Big Leap and importance of State of Play

October 1st, 2018

10:22

4 Realizations From “The Big Leap” By Gay Hendricks “The Big Leap” is a book that encourages people to reach their pinnacle by going beyond excellence. Break your upper limit. Realize there is no ceiling to what you can …

indistractable

September 24th, 2018

16:23

“You can’t do big things if you are distracted by small things.” -Unknown Distraction is just as powerful and as dangerous today as it was thousands …

Work Ethic and Grit works for everyone. Better than waiting for talent

September 17th, 2018

14:32

Work Ethic and Grit works for everyone. Better than waiting for talent So what are you waiting for? WHO is worthy of your best hard work? Even when no-one is watching but yourself?

Emotional Work: Don’t underestimate the important of what you learn in the slow grind

September 10th, 2018

12:25

Emotional Work, Hard Work, Long Slow Grind Work – don’t underestimate the important of what you learn in the slow grind Few things in life are the insta-win you see in media. Most of those media show you has been …

5 Friendships You Have To Make: You become the company you keep

September 3rd, 2018

7:27

5 Friendships You Have To Make: You become the company you keep Think of the five people closest to you–the ones you spend most of your time with, your confidants, peers, family, and org mates. What is their influence …

Ratchets: The Beginning of Change

August 27th, 2018

22:07

Ratchets: The Beginning of Change Seasons are magical. Yesterday, the leaves of the trees were cold and white. Right now, it gets greener each day. …

Motor Examples

August 20th, 2018

15:24

Motor Examples What’s your motor? Do you know, guard and focus on your peak hours? Do you know what fuels YOUR motors and those around you? Do you know what feeds all the systems, organizations and people around you? In …

Your Trains, Ratchets and Motors

August 13th, 2018

21:14

Your Trains, Ratchets and Motors Most people worry way too much about the big mistake of getting on the wrong train. I think the biggest mistake I’ve done, and I see others doing is NOT getting of it when they’ve …

You are your work in the Mesh economy

August 6th, 2018

29:35

You are your work in the Mesh economy Some thoughts about how important it is to ask yourself “What is it for” – and embrace that there multiple …

dont Shrink, dont Puff: some thoughts on shame

July 30th, 2018

22:16

dont Shrink, dont Puff: some thoughts on shame Some of my thoughts on the great quote by Brene Brows ”dont shrink dont puff”  and the behaviour it creates. For me its a very effective quote to realize whats going on. …

Time, investments and relationships

July 23rd, 2018

22:12

Guard your time investments. Plan your time investments. Evaluate your time investments and the results, energy and relationships you get out of it. …

Race don’t chase, Try not to compare. Generosity is one answer

July 16th, 2018

18:40

Race don’t chase, Try not to compare Don’t compare because you just can’t know how it is walking in their shoes. What they have invested, in effort, time or other resources that you don’t see. Its human to compare. I …

Positive Future versus here and now?

July 9th, 2018

11:56

Positive Future versus here and now? How often your feedback have more to do about the past than the positive future behaviour you want to help create? How often to you sacrifice what you want the MOST for what you want …

Selfishness doesn’t last – What does Success look like to you?

July 2nd, 2018

30:26

Selfishness doesn’t last – What does Success look like to you? Selfishness doesn’t last. IF you want to win the infinite game generosity is the key, the path and the endgame. If you’re asking yourself “What does Success …

Confusing Ambivalent People

June 25th, 2018

26:45

Confusing Ambivalent People … your Energy  ..your results …your circles. You really become the company you keep It’s easy to say stay clear of …

Getting Pro Clients

June 18th, 2018

26:37

Getting Pro Clients Choosing and working hard for the right Clients, Customers, Managers, Bosses – who ever you choose so serve is one of the most important choices in your life. This episode is some answers to …

Create Health OR promote disease?

June 4th, 2018

23:51

Create Health OR promote disease? What if you could easily see how every tiny decision do make every minute in your life as either a small step to …

Your Vehicles, your results, your relationships

May 28th, 2018

26:26

Are you sure you’re in a ride heading where you want to be? Is it time to get a better one? is it time to pick up others and help them get to where they want to be too? Are you in a ride that’s leaking energy or giving …

Illusions about having time

May 21st, 2018

23:59

Illusions about having time Illusions about time, smoke and mirrors we do to ourselves In this episode I share some thoughts about time You might also want to take a look on this talk on youtube

You matter You belong. Be Remarkable

May 14th, 2018

22:15

You matter. You Belong. Be[come] Remarkable It’s up to you to think thru WHO you want to belong with. Not making that choice will make you belong somewhere, regardless. Others depend on you making a choice that matters …

Inciting Action is often better than all the data and insights in the world

May 7th, 2018

24:01

Inciting Action is often better than all the data and insights in the world For perhaps 20 years I was fooled by the lure of big data, business …

Options and being comfortable now versus a better state later

April 30th, 2018

20:57

Options and being comfortable now versus a better state later Options. We all want Options. Often one of the best ways of ensuring we keep having the best options making a choice of not allowing to many options when …

infinite more

April 23rd, 2018

14:55

continuing the talk on Infinite and finite games. game Windows and the dont wait game.   If its a stupid game stop playing it. ignore sunk cost. doesnt matter how long you’ve been playing it. The ONE thinh that matters …

Level up your infinite game with your finite games

April 16th, 2018

27:11

Level up your infinite game with your finite games Some of my ramblings on what is an infinite game and why should you care. What I think is not …

Discomfort precede

April 9th, 2018

20:55

Discomfort precede change I struggle alot  with sounding “Energetic” in my voice on my podcast. This episode contains some thoughts around the discomfort that always precedes change. Because change doesn’t happen …

Who would miss the work you put at their table? Infinite and finite games

April 2nd, 2018

4:01

Who would miss the work you put at their table? Infinite and finite games Who would miss what that you put on their table, in your unique way, your …

Treat everyone you meet as a volunteer

March 26th, 2018

19:47

Treat everyone you meet as a volunteer “Accept the fact that you need to treat everyone like a volunteer”. Is a quote by Peter Drucker ..if you want …

3 games, 3 seats of power

March 19th, 2018

38:29

3 games that matter 3 seats of power   3 Games that matter inner game: the why you play, the words you use in your head. outer game: current …

Are you ready?

March 12th, 2018

21:58

Are you ready? .. for opportunity when it comes knocking on YOUR door? I surely wasn’t, for most of the times when it’s been past my door. LINK For example when I was interviewed by John on his EOfire podcast. Having …

Learn more – know less

March 5th, 2018

19:14

Learn more – know less   It isn’t what you don’t know that gets you into trouble, its what you know for sure, that just aint so Quote Mark Twain   Its important to focus on the learning part of ourself. Niches come and …

Dare to ask questions. Dare to question your own worldview. Dare to help others see what you see

February 26th, 2018

25:04

Dare to ask questions. Dare to question your own worldview. Dare to help others see what you see, still respecting their perspective. Dare to speak out loud to a friend why you might be wrong. Dare to help others by …

Behave like your manager, client or customer pay you double for your result

February 19th, 2018

16:01

What if you behaved like your manager, client or customer payed you double for your results? Your ability to ask yourself the important questions …

Borrowing Happiness from tomorrow

February 12th, 2018

19:28

Borrowing Happiness from tomorrow. Making the best of today to enjoy both now and tomorrow Uncomfortable now rather than resentful later – by Brene …

Eye of the Beholder

February 5th, 2018

18:18

Eye of the Beholder Your life is how you perceive it, not how you see it Everything is a projection. Both from you onto others, and others onto you. …

Owning your Strength

January 29th, 2018

25:54

Owning your Strength i talk some about one worldview of “owning your strength” What is yours? and how do you embrace that worldview?   This episode is very different. This is because I took a course last week called …

Introduction to ComputerGames or new recruit at office

January 22nd, 2018

50:45

Lending some introduction and creating passion examples from the Computer Game world. For example perhaps you want to introduce your spouse to computer game play? It’s a lot of the same synergies you want when …

The Magic of Delegating Better

January 15th, 2018

41:11

The Magic of Delegating Better Save time and build peoples potential at the same time? Build relationships and get better results at the same time? …

State of Play: Focus on the relationships that matter

January 8th, 2018

37:08

State of Play: Focus on the relationships that matter Play is often used for doing better work, getting better revenue with innovative new ideas. Play is also often used to build teams, develop trust and enhancing …

One Focus

January 1st, 2018

14:08

One Focus Work on one project at a time. its the kind AND focused way towards accomplishing greatness What are you working on that’s got you most fired up? Questions like that I ask all the time. A trend I notice among …

Invest in your sleep – investing in better results, connections & empathy

December 25th, 2017

15:00

Sleep affects the results of most things. Yet it’s so easy to keep pushing investing in it forward. If you’re lucky to have a few days of vacation …

Time with your most important people.. and what story the data tells

December 18th, 2017

8:19

Time with your most important people.. and what story the data tells Blissful time with your most important people? Check your stats and think …

Exceptions to the rule. Dangers and inspiration

December 11th, 2017

21:16

Exceptions to the rule. Dangers and inspiration Beware there be dragons here. Exceptions to the rule. Something we often long to become. Personally. …

Asking Right

December 4th, 2017

23:32

Asking Right – a few thoughts on how to ask questions: For advice or anything else. We are living in wonderful times. It’s easier than ever to …

Your Attention in the modern age and how it affects your relationships and everything

November 26th, 2017

28:36

Your Attention in the modern age and how it affects your relationships and everything Are you in control of your attention investments? I think not, …

Your Compass and your Map-Making skills, your maps Legends and your ability to share Vision of what may be

November 20th, 2017

22:16

Your Compass and your Map-Making skills, your maps Legends and your ability to share Vision of what may be Are you trying to follow a map when really …

Clarity, Clarity, Clarity – only then communicate

November 13th, 2017

14:34

Clarity, Clarity, Clarity – only then communicate Think “What is it for?” “WHO is this for?” Before you speak, before you plan, before you execute. For example, when talking in order to get things to happen: Own the …

What’s YOUR style of play? This is not a quickfix/howto podcast harvesting on fear of loss, need for guarantees or checklist.

November 6th, 2017

12:58

What’s YOUR style of play? This is not a quickfix/howto podcast harvesting on fear of loss, need for guarantees or checklist.   When I was a young leader of my first team I was desperately longing for a quick checklist …

The gap between ambition and effort-level

October 30th, 2017

29:35

The gap between ambition and effort-level. If there is a gap they become disconnected and thus not feeding each other energy. This can sound something along these lines, but I’m sure you have heard countless others just …

Choosing Your Manager, Clients, Students, Customers – basically who you want to serve and why

October 23rd, 2017

16:46

Choosing Your Manager, Clients, Students, Customers – basically who you want to serve and why I tap again on the theme, you are the company you choose. And I want to highlight “your manager.” Who are the people you’re …

Your time mostly comes from your actions

October 16th, 2017

25:14

Your time mostly comes from your actions You are your own source more than anyone else. Don’t blame others for where you are. Step up to the responsibility of being you, or at least closer to it right now.   You become …

Bimodal organisation Development & Digital Transformation still require a People First mindset

October 9th, 2017

22:30

Bimodal organisation Development & Digital Transformation still require a People First mindset  How BiModal are your organisation percentage wise? How much do you “experiment” to learn a better new normal? How well …

Deflecting – Connect or Disconnect, dont deflect

October 2nd, 2017

24:55

Deflecting – Connect or Disconnect, dont deflect Some thoughts on inner and outer deflections and what this does to your ability to connect. Acknowledge the beam of positive energy sent to you. Dare to look into the …

International Podcast Day

September 30th, 2017

13:43

This is just an extra episode celebrating International Podcast Day You’re listening to the 185th episode of Relationship Power at work. I started podcasting 4 years ago. Please check out the live celebration here. I …

Digital Transformation, Operational BI and the importance of infrastructure and well oiled listening processes

September 25th, 2017

26:12

Digital Transformation, Operational BI and the importance of infrastructure and well oiled listening processes   Now is the time to really thank the heroes at infrastructure for their hard work, because it’s about to …

A tribute to Seth Godin’s altMBA

September 17th, 2017

20:58

A tribute to Seth Godin’s altMBA Some thoughts its lasting effects now two years after attending Mars 2016 I completed Seth Godin’s alltMBA, it was the 4th time Seth held it. I’ve learned, applied and had great success …

Train your imagination – What you are unaware of controls your options

September 11th, 2017

25:28

Train your imagination – What you are unaware of controls your options I’d claim your most important thing is your imagination, combined with your …

The Purpose of Analytics is Change. Listen to the 4+Arrows within every dot on every graph

September 4th, 2017

23:51

The Purpose of Analytics is Change. Listen to the 4+Arrows within every dot on every graph The Purpose of Analytics is Change. It’s not enough to become aware. It’s not enough to sit on the IT side of this only, you …

Analytics & algorithms – enhancing beyond your own direct experience

August 28th, 2017

26:09

Analytics & algorithms – enhancing beyond your own direct experience Can you Trust your own direct experience as an answer for the future? You can’t trust algorithms blindly, yet you’re unaware of how they’re used …

Come Storms, Ebb, Tide and high water – I will be here lighting your path toward this position

August 21st, 2017

15:04

Come Storms, Ebb, Tide and high water – I will be here lighting your path toward this position Sometimes metaphors gets a picture in our head that is so energizing we just have to act on it. In this episode I talk about …

Embrace your draft: responsibly & publicly

August 14th, 2017

43:39

Embrace your draft: responsibly & publicly Dont hide behind a draft, make it real. Dont hide behind perfect, share your draft. Ship something today that will help someone else. This episode is actually two episodes. …

Effects of having a contingency plan BEFORE you need it

August 7th, 2017

26:05

Effects of having a contingency plan BEFORE you need it What’s a contingency plan for you? For me it’s all about maintaining the ability to execute …

Encourage, Encourage, Encourage – don’t punish instead be clear and positive about the future

July 31st, 2017

11:57

Encourage, Encourage, Encourage – don’t punish instead be clear and positive about the future Encouragement is mightier than compliance long-term. Try to catch yourself whenever you get carried away in frustration, or …

Exponential results – ways to get that 1% behavior that yields 99% of your result

July 24th, 2017

26:53

Exponential results ways to get that 1% behavior that yields 99% of your result Seneca said “Luck is a matter of preparation meeting opportunity” – …

Seeing things from others, zoomed-out perspective.

July 17th, 2017

16:32

Seeing things from others, zoomed-out perspective. Clients perspectives, your customers perspective and your own perspective.   Few are those who see with their own eyes and feel with their own hearts.  Quote Albert …

Doves & Hawks, Relationship Power and the Fast, Connected Economy

July 10th, 2017

15:31

Doves & Hawks, Relationship Power and the Fast, Connected Economy or the Curves of Evolution in the Fast Instant Access Connected Economy   Doves …

Know your people – and some thoughts on KPIs, metrics and measurements

July 3rd, 2017

25:23

Know your people – and some thoughts on KPIs, metrics and measurements ..or Key Metrics Performance Indicators when the order to “Round Down Cost” inevitably comes This is a managers’s guide on leveraging key metrics on …

Behaviour Follows Assumptions – You become the company you keep

June 26th, 2017

44:56

Behaviour Follows Assumptions – You become the company you keep The power of the group you surround yourself with are strong. Imagine positive …

How to Create a Deeper Relationship with Your Online Audience with Cliff Ravenscraft

June 22nd, 2017

1:01:04

How to Create a Deeper Relationship with Your Online Audience with Cliff Ravenscraft “We have the power within ourselves to literally change the world.” – Cliff In this episode, we will learn about how to create a …

Freedom can best be created before you need it – leaving that choice to others will make you a commodity.

June 19th, 2017

20:26

Freedom can best be created before you need it – leaving that choice to others will make you a commodity. The Digital Era In these fast paced, digital era, most of the things that we do has an equivalent of a software …

Intention and Attention

June 12th, 2017

19:24

Intention and Attention Train in guarding your attention. It’s the lifeblood of all of us. If we’re mindful of our attention we choose if we should …

Go Beyond your muscle failure. Build your business and character like a personal trainer.

June 5th, 2017

15:15

Go Beyond your muscle failure.  Build your business and character like a personal trainer. Go Beyond yourself often towards muscle failure. That’s the only time growth happen. Power speed reading, comfort zone …

My weird honours your weird

May 29th, 2017

19:04

My weird honors your weird The bell curve has changed thanks to the internet, the connection economy and “near instant access” to most things. It’s easier than ever before to make an impact, to help people beyond the …

Take your positions – Who do you want to help and why?

May 22nd, 2017

28:14

Take your positions – Who do you want to help and why? There is a reason why the instructions tell you to put on the air mask on yourself FIRST: Before helping your kid, friend or co-worker. Without Air, you will …

Tension, Empathy & Sympathy – Responsibility from different perspectives

May 15th, 2017

15:10

Tension, Empathy & Sympathy – Responsibility from different perspectives Empathy. Seeing the perspective of others. Walking in someone else’s shoes. Dare to face the unknown of the minds of those around you. Dare to …

Exciting times – What’s exciting for you might not be exciting for someone else

May 8th, 2017

35:26

Exciting times – What’s exciting for you might not be exciting for someone else We’re living in exciting times. I’m sure every generation before me has said the same words, felt the same.  What I’m thinking on right now …

Why are you doing this? Why High Standards help you – Why Commitment increase attention

May 1st, 2017

22:44

Why are you doing this? Why High Standards help you – Why Commitment increase attention   Quite often I get the question “why do you do this?” Some talk about “why the commitment on consistency” others “why for free …

Throughput thoughts

April 24th, 2017

39:44

Throughput thoughts Some thoughts on intention and results, and the passage required to archive it. This is high and low, tech and people. I guess …

Full Contact play with your Anti-thesis

April 17th, 2017

18:50

Full Contact play with your Anti-thesis Get the habit of embracing an anti-thesis to your belief every now and then to deepen your learning on your …

thoughts on becomming a commodity and choosing your position

April 10th, 2017

31:11

Right now forces are gathering to make you a commodity. It already happened all around you. Uber, Spotify, Travel-agents etc. The middleman is cut out and a proxy service is censoring out everything that doesn’t adapt. …

Race don’t chase – some thoughts on awards

April 3rd, 2017

18:08

When presenting a week back I got the question by a person in the audience on any advice in becoming awarded by eWork just like I did. (ework awarded …

Mind your attitude – let go of labels

March 27th, 2017

15:09

Mind your attitude – let go of labels I believe you, me and most of us need to constantly remind yourself before the mindset becomes the new normal for us, the new natural. When you start to take action your mind will …

The Power of a Delta.txt file of how things should and could be

March 20th, 2017

15:02

The Power of a Delta.txt file of how things should and could be When you’re starting new, for example at a new site, new employer or anything you’re …

Simple – not easy

March 13th, 2017

15:53

Simple – not easy   Simple and Easy is not the same ting yet I find that over the years most people confuse the too, sometimes myself included. We want easy yet we already know the recipe for what we want is simple. …

Gratefulness & Respect – your choice of words matter

March 6th, 2017

13:18

Gratefulness & Respect – your choice of words matter Gratefulness serves you in so many ways beyond here and now. Let is invigor you with energy …

Your Life is not a prologue, don’t wait, the time is now

February 20th, 2017

18:03

  You don’t need a big chunk of time to start. Are you sure you’re not waiting and wasting valuable time investments. In essence, are you stuck in the prelude to your own life? Its easy that Works becomes the main …

Digital Connections, and the power of the system and our emotions of feeling connected.

February 13th, 2017

30:18

Digital Connections, and the power of the system and our emotions of feeling connected. Right now we’re attention flooded. Many use systems to keep up with friends. We no longer use DIRECT-CONNECTION to most things we …

There is a message for you everywhere

February 7th, 2017

15:31

There is a message for you everywhere. If you’re looking for it you’ll always find a lesson, anywhere, at all times, from everyone   If you’re actively looking for it, I also believe people around you will bloom in …

You become the company you keep

February 6th, 2017

11:56

You become the company you keep Another way of saying it is “you are the average of the X people you spend the most time with.” I believe WHO you invest the most of your time with is the most important decision of your …

time is your most precious investment – become aware

January 30th, 2017

23:43

Time is your most precious investment – become aware   Where you invest your time, and furthermore WHO you invest your time with is the most important decision in your life. It affects everything. The impact you will …

Listen for what is not said + John Lee Dumas Entrepreneurs on Fire second Kickstarter

January 23rd, 2017

16:24

Listen for what is not said + John Lee Dumas Entrepreneurs on Fire second Kickstarter How often do you actively listen for what is NOT being said? Focus on what the data is saying, not the highest talker Focus on what …

Age of Instant Access and Connection Analytics

January 16th, 2017

17:30

We’re in an Age of Instant Access and Connection Analytics – food for thoughts Instant Access to so many things today, and yet more is coming every day. How does that affect relationship building and the power to help …

Meta-Memory, Meta-Me – Self-confusion and Clarity, Psychosynthesis & Imagery Exercises

January 9th, 2017

19:24

 Meta-Memory, Meta-Me – Self-confusion and Clarity,  Psychosynthesis & Imagery Exercises   Some say our Memory is “us”, that we are the core of what we remember. Your achievements, friends who has always been there …

Age of Access, Virtual Reality and Digital_Twins

January 2nd, 2017

13:14

It’s wonderful living in the world of Instant Access like we’re doing right now. And Virtual Reality can really help build a connection to the …

Nobody owes you is a mindset that often helps us build better relationships

December 26th, 2016

15:58

Nobody owes you is a mindset that often helps us build better relationships. Owning how we respond and act to feelings that emerge within us will change your life trajectory more than anything. Complaining about someone …

Connection is a feeling – Christmas and other Rare activities

December 19th, 2016

13:49

Connection is a feeling – Christmas and other Rare activities   Most often its thru feeling we connect to people. And what we connect to in a story is most often individually. I’ve had people come up to me after a talk …

Talking about performance, behaviours and effect

December 12th, 2016

17:02

Talking about performance to make behaviours more effective with authenticity and without acting   Performance, when we’re taking on an act we are really distancing ourselves from people. It’s the total opposite from …

Gratitude for others no? Benefits of making it easy for others to say no.

December 5th, 2016

12:44

Gratitude for others no? Benefits of making it easy for others to say no. Embracing reality for a new, more effective way   I deeply believe in focusing on the one thing until success (quote from my friend John Lee …

Virtual Reality means business of Generosity, might even help move away from Self-centredness

November 28th, 2016

14:56

VR – Virtual Reality means business of Generosity, might even help move away from Self-centredness I believe the most common way to major success is helping others. Letting go of that self-centredness that envelop us …

Virtual Reality effects on Business and relationship building

November 21st, 2016

15:31

Virtual Reality effects on Business and relationship building Corporations invests enormous amounts of “could have been results” into meetings, and …

Help-Others and Self-Help

November 14th, 2016

8:57

Help-Others and Self-Help I often think about how come the amount of teachings around “Helping Others” is not anything near the amount of exposure of people, method and processes to “Self-Help”. When I looked at …

Your way is understandable

November 7th, 2016

16:26

Your way is understandable   Sometimes it feels hard to accept the method of path taken by someone else. Accept their way, their reasoning. Doesn’t …

Attention Waste – Is Your Time Investments and efforts making a difference for the better?

October 31st, 2016

8:33

Attention Waste – Is Your Time Investments and efforts making a difference for the better? The most brilliant minds of our era invests their time and attention in creating better and better clickbait to get everyone …

Information wants to be free

October 24th, 2016

14:48

Information wants to be free That is one of the “Alternatives” to the info, status or just Social talk you are having right now.   Another way of seeing it is, consider this the “alternative cost” in what you COULD have …

Relationship Power and other Powers

October 17th, 2016

16:51

Relationship Power and other Powers Relationship Power. Role Power. Authority Power. Situational powers. Accidental powers. Temporary powers. Don’t …

Speed determines the value of almost EVERYTHING value, and every connection

October 10th, 2016

13:52

Speed determines the value of almost EVERYTHING value, and every connection Everything has a game window, everyone you talk or don’t talk to. Everything you do or don’t do. Time to Market. Start backwards from when its …

Turning Visible – creating trust

October 3rd, 2016

16:39

Turning Visible – creating trust A small talk on how sometimes trying to hide something makes a crater for all to see, making it harder to see who we really are beyond it. sometimes helping too much or too little makes …

Seek to invest most of your time with Grateful Action takers

September 26th, 2016

12:09

Seek to invest most of your time with Grateful Action takers   You’re really the average of the five people you spend the most time. Who you spend …

Embraceing your Potential

September 19th, 2016

15:50

Embraceing your Potential consists of a lot of things, below is just a few of them. I personally dont think it matters where you start though, as long as you start thinking about it, start acting to become it. This cast …

Own your results – own your communication

September 12th, 2016

12:23

Own your results – own your communication Manager-tools.com often talk about “communication is what the listener does”. So what does this mean for …

Refueling others

September 5th, 2016

12:22

Refueling others Where does your fuel and generator of energy align with those around you? What does those around you get fuel from and how can you help them get more of it without it costing others? is that energy …

What fuels you? What fuels those around you?

August 29th, 2016

12:32

What fuels you? What fuels those around you? Most often we do things, without really thinking, about what gives us fuel. Where in this activity does my energy really come from? If it comes at all? It’s easy to think we …

Delayed Reward, Alternative Costs – Build your relationships for the long run

August 22nd, 2016

14:16

Delayed Reward, Alternative Costs – Build your relationships for the long run if you seek to maximize what you get out of someone thats rarely relationship-building. thats transactions and might work in the short run …

Listen to people but trust the numbers

August 15th, 2016

15:45

Listen to people but trust the numbers – Ensure you measure the right thing for others, not just whats easy to measure or makes you look good. Continous measurement makes you look trustworthy. Its easier to trust a …

Recruiting – when to say no, NO and when to say yes

August 8th, 2016

9:35

Recruiting – when to say no, NO and when to say yes.   A quick cast about three thoughts on recruiting. I personally find this worth thinking about for recruiters AND anyone that wants more out of work. And I’m not …

it’s not about you – focus on the behaviour you can change not the stuff you cant

August 1st, 2016

17:28

it’s not about you Sometimes we need to remind ourselves that everything isn’t about me. Sometimes people around you behave in ways that makes things …

Credentials Decay, Results last longer. Change is the only constant

July 25th, 2016

13:44

Credentials Decay, Results last longer. Change is the only constant In todays modern world credentials isn’t what it used to be so its more important …

Give first individually, Listen first – Relationship power comes later

July 18th, 2016

14:34

Give first individually, Listen first  – Relationship power comes later Schedule five minutes every day to just get to know the people around you. …

Listening beyond what isn’t being said

July 11th, 2016

28:31

Listening beyond what isn’t being said The most important thing in communication is listening for what isn’t being said according to Peter Drucker. Listen for the silence We all carry invisible baggage into our …

Commitment , Control & Contribution and the speed of Trust

July 4th, 2016

17:26

Commitment , Control &  Contribution and the speed of Trust Most of us was trained in compliance as a kid for countless of hours. Hours that …

Envy and gratitude

June 27th, 2016

13:47

Envy and gratitude Envy is a human emotion that is easy to fall prey to. It can be harnessed to make you do  more, make you archive move but my experience it’s one of the more common paths to the dark side (sounds like …

What work matters when you strip everything else away?

June 20th, 2016

16:48

What work really matters when you strip everything else away? What will live beyond you? This cast is about your inner question of what what is …

Grit and Generosity

June 13th, 2016

9:55

Grit and Generosity I really believe Generosity is a great compass towards your success. Ask yourself where in your life, where you invest hard work in creating things, You still don’t you mind others carbon copy your …

Let Go – one way to become free to invite the new

June 6th, 2016

18:59

Let Go – one way to become free to invite the new What and where is your safe haven? Who would you invite there and why? How can you get more of that …

matters beyond your comfort zone

May 30th, 2016

16:21

Most things that matter to use on a deeper level lies beyond our own comfort zone. Accept your discomfort, and the feelings from it. Its OK. We all experience that. Then take a step to dare to look and act beyond those …

if your job and results where a fantasy story – Would you do anything differently? – if so why, where and for whom?

May 23rd, 2016

22:53

If your job and results where a fantasy story. Would you do anything differently? – if so why, where and for whom?   Sometimes playing with our mind …

Mirrors and actions beyond Reflection

May 16th, 2016

14:27

Mirrors and actions beyond Reflection Your actions and attitude to others speak way more about you than your mirror’s reflection.   Its worth reflecting over that reflection. Sometimes I think most of us often try to …

Betrayal

May 9th, 2016

16:40

Sometimes you encounter the dark side of helping people. Sometimes you invest your generosity into people who does the opposite back. How do you deal with it?

Breathing – Cure of Stress and giver of Focus, Clarity and shape

May 2nd, 2016

6:00

Breathing – Cure of Stress and giver of Focus, Clarity and shape Breathing is a great cure for stress. Take four deep breaths and your worldview might change. Of course it won’t change the world. But your new mindset, …

Projecting yourself onto other people – beyond the effect you probably want

April 25th, 2016

14:58

Projecting yourself onto other people – beyond the effect you probably want Take a minute to think about your own patters. What do you usually notice about the world? What does that tell you about yourself and your …

Opportunity Stress

April 18th, 2016

19:24

Opportunity Stress We live in a world of abundance. You can do so much. One person can change (parts of) the world. This is a perspective of Alternative Cost, and just some thoughts on stress and fear of …

Criticism is futile in driving change

April 11th, 2016

13:42

Criticism is futile in driving change I’m re listening to “How to win friends and influence people” by Dale Carnegie – I do that every 5th year or so. A great way to remind myself – and to pick up thing I wasn’t ready …

Life can be unexpected short – Show gratitude while you can

April 4th, 2016

6:47

Life can be unexpected short – Show gratitude while you can. Life is change. People you take for granted might not be near you tomorrow. Due to health, change of job, friends moving out of town or anything might happen. …

I am defined by my fears and strengths – by not limited to neither

March 28th, 2016

17:31

I am defined by my fears and strengths – by not limited to neither I think both our strengths AND your fears easily puts us in corners that we are not aware off. Embrace our fears – don’t try to push it away. likewise …

interview with John Lee Dumas EntrepreneurOnFire

March 21st, 2016

26:11

I (Ric) interviews John Lee Dumas from EntrepreneurOnFire on how to connect to raving fans, Leadership and getting results. We talked about “if you …

Learn to Learn new things – climbing example

March 15th, 2016

17:14

Learn to Learn new things – climbing example When learning new things – its easy to forget how much more power someone who is skilled can have than a beginner. its so easy to cling to what you think is effective instead …

Embrace tension, potential strength, Life and the longbow idea of requirements of change

March 7th, 2016

17:24

Embrace tension, potential strength, Life and the longbow idea of requirements of change   Just some ramblings about comparing life to a longbow, tension to stress. all stress being inner stress. About becomming aware …

Communicate on the level they want AND the level you need for effect. DiSC is one way to become more aware of your communication strengths and how they are perceived by others. And how you can adapt your style to those you talk to for a way better effect

February 29th, 2016

15:52

Communicate on the level they want AND the level you need for effect. DiSC is one way to become more aware of your communication strengths and how they are perceived by others. And how you can adapt your style to those …

100 episodes – giving away 3×10 Leadership Coaching Sessions + 30 kindle books – Be Generous & Walk Your Talk

February 22nd, 2016

19:40

Celebrating 100 episodes I’m giving away 3×10 Leadership Coaching Sessions + 30 kindle books and talking about Be Generous & Walk Your Talk. ..and some “be kind to yourself” when starting to drive change. it’s tough …

Stuck is just most often just a mindset

February 15th, 2016

20:07

Stuck is just most often just a mindset “From where I am now I can’t see my way forward” – this talk is about why I love climbing and how much benefit I have had from my mindsets trained when climbing – in both …

Neutral or criticize and its potential cost and rewards

February 8th, 2016

13:27

Neutral or criticize and its potential cost and rewards Some thoughts of the potential in all the people you meet and all the things they may create – and what your actions can behaviour can create or prevent from …

The Power of Enthusiasm for others Enthusiasm is amazing.

February 1st, 2016

11:05

The Power of Enthusiasm for others Enthusiasm is amazing.   It’s a great way to connect to other people. It’s a great source of insight and awareness. It’s a great fun way to be curious and take action. And it’s a great …

Selfishly Generous

January 25th, 2016

13:25

Selfishly Generous A lot of studies show that generosity really pays of in health. long life. opportunities. The list is long. What would make a …

Tap into the larger conversation

January 18th, 2016

20:37

Tap into the larger conversation.   The one in yourself, the one in your organisation and the ones going on by your customers. Tap into that, align with it and you will find both a great connection and great energy for …

Listening Brands: How Data is Rewriting the Rules of Branding

January 11th, 2016

14:19

Listening Brands, Mini-Audience – always adapt your message to the individual to get the effect you want. The Power of Data might be shining most clearing when it comes to Marketing but its heading into HR and alot of …

When to Create Commitment first – Compliance second

January 4th, 2016

33:10

When to Create Commitment first – Compliance second Podcast Episode #93 Don’t limit yourself to get compliance from people. It might feel like you are connecting around compliance . It might feel secure and easy but you …

Reflect over your time investments this year – What could you do differently?

December 28th, 2015

22:05

Reflect over your time investments this year – What could you do differently?   Time is the one resouce you never get back. It cannot be managed, …

Be the change you want – instead of assuming how you think things “should” be

December 21st, 2015

23:39

Be the change you want – Take action instead of just assuming how you think things “should” be   Be the change you want to see in the world – quote …

Un-awareness controls your options

December 14th, 2015

21:51

Un-awareness controls your options   Help yourself and others to awareness, insights and transform those to actions and awareness for those actions …

Trust

December 7th, 2015

24:14

Trust – is in my humble opinion, everything in Relationship Power. Without it you have nothing. With it you both have a great, great help in most storms. So strong a thing – yet so brittle, so easily shattered in the …

Fragile Puzzle Parts of Life, relationships and results

November 30th, 2015

18:24

Fragile Puzzle Parts of Life, relationships and results All of us are building multiple puzzles. Take a break to reflect on YOUR most important …

Generosity and its powers – helps yourself and others grow towards your potential

November 23rd, 2015

16:34

You might have noticed that I have Generosity as part of my intro and that its something I mention quite often. That’s of course because I find it some important. Today I want to encourage you to be generous to …

Recognizable You + lessons learned from Phil Pallen and Lauren Moore

November 12th, 2015

21:36

Recognizable You + lessons learned from Phil Pallen and Lauren Moore   You want people to be able to recognize your work as your work, and your clients to as well, recognize when something can’t be your work. Phil …

The Power of Pessimistic Thinking

November 9th, 2015

11:30

The Power of Positive and Negative Pessimistic Thinking. I believe we live in a “connection economy” like Seth Godin started saying many years ago and nothing kills a connection with someone like pessimism. Pessimism …

Dreams, Goalsettings, Plans and Life transformations

November 2nd, 2015

14:54

Dreams, Goalsettings, Plans and Life transformations Are you waiting for your dreams to come true and transform your life? Dreams rarely come true, but your goals can forever change your life.. You need to set goals in …

log your work – be transparent on status – to yourself and others

October 26th, 2015

15:01

Work always include reporting status – even if your boss doesn’t specify it you will build a better relationship with most managers by repeatedly report status and progress. Both Good and Bad. Excellent news and no new …

Gratitude – share yours with others, let others share theirs in yours

October 19th, 2015

11:45

Gratitude – share yours with others, let others share theirs in yours Allow yourself to feel your Gratidude for whatever it is. Why do you feel it? whats the smallest and biggest grain of it? Allow others to enjoy their …

Leadership is about getting results and why to get them for yourself and others

October 12th, 2015

7:54

Leadership is about getting results  and why to get them for yourself and others – not becoming something else just because books or courses tell you …

The Power part in relationships and dating

October 5th, 2015

13:22

Here are some novice thoughts (two simple points) on the power part in relationships and dating. I do not think I am the one to advice others on this, so I’m not really confortable with sharing this episode but friends …

Make it easy for the others to take action, not just you. Pushing it out of your plate is not getting it done.

September 28th, 2015

14:33

Make it easy for OTHERS to take action, not just you. Pushing it out of your plate is not getting it done.  Its not the same thing as making progress. In this episode I talk about mini-small things to help others, and …

Everything gives relationship status feedback – even a simple hair coloring talk

September 21st, 2015

13:29

Everything gives relationship status feedback – even a simple hair coloring talk   Here’s some more personal examples of why bother with Relationship …

Story Power – Choose your words with care, you are the author of your life story

September 14th, 2015

13:11

Story Power – Choose your words with care, you are the author of your life story Story Power – what ARE you telling yourself? I think it was stories that taught me that we’re all a part of everything. No hero is 100% …

Your Expectations are your responsibility – Own them!

September 7th, 2015

16:43

Your Expectations are your responsibility – Own them!   No one other on this planet can fix your feelings, only you It’s your job to speak clearly, including tone of voice, body language, choices and actions. Be clear …

inner game – Energy and Connections worth exploring

August 31st, 2015

12:14

Inner Games – Energy and Connection exploration of worth I every now and then get the question “How do I start” with “Connecting” to people? – …

Courage to Stretch – Courage to rest

August 28th, 2015

5:43

Courage to Stretch – Courage to rest I have decided, with help from friends and mentors to only continue sharing a podcast every Monday. Right now I have been doing twice a week, Monday and Thursdays. I have pushed …

The Power of Questions and the feelings and energy they create

August 24th, 2015

21:35

    The Power of Questions and the feelings and energy they create   My Greatest strengths as a consultant is to be ignorant and ask a few questions. …

You can do Anything but not Everything

August 20th, 2015

8:40

You can do Anything but not Everything – Don’t spread yourself thin if you are an “over-helper/over-archiver” those that matter will love you and …

what KIND of person would you like to BECOME? TEDx talk by Camillla TheFreeProject

August 17th, 2015

3:50

what KIND of person would you like to BECOME we are all in on a journey of change we all have everything we need within us, we just let some of our …

Time Entwined – who is around you the most and how are they actively helping?

August 13th, 2015

19:10

Time Entwined In summary for saving time: I’m sure you’ve heard people talk about “you’re the average about the 5 or 10 people” you spend your time with. it goes both ways. Help others grow and make sure you invest time …

Imagination – the power of what MAY be

August 10th, 2015

18:25

Imagination – the power of what MAY be. I think this is one of the most energy giving activities that exists. What we all may be. What YOU MAY …

Tribute from me to Cliff Ravenscraft and his amazing Podcasting A to Z course

August 6th, 2015

14:34

This is a tribute from me to Cliff Ravenscraft and his amazing Podcasting A to Z course that you can find at PodcastAnswerMan.com. I also talk some very quick about why I created the testimonial – basically self …

Everything in your life has a game window – what game are you playing right now?

August 3rd, 2015

12:59

Everything in your life has a game window * Know what game you are playing * Know when it’s time to switch game rules .. or perhaps someone around …

Personal Why Examples – Complex Processes on a global scale – Revenue driving Labels in many thousands of shops all around the globe

July 30th, 2015

18:59

Personal Why Examples – Complex Processes on a global scale – Revenue driving Labels in many thousands of shops all around the globe   I am sharing some of my “Personal Why Examples” of benefits of Relationship Power at …

We all need to bond to something

July 27th, 2015

15:21

We all need to bond, from our first ever second to all of them throughout life. Especially when doing new, insecure things. I personally believe introverts also needs this. We just bond to different things. When I was …

Teambuilding story – Why Bother with Relationship Power?

July 23rd, 2015

11:08

Teambuilding story – Why Bother with Relationship Power? I guess we all have to find out our own reasons for leading the way we lead, but here’s some thoughts about why I behave like I do. I love taking the initiative. …

How to leave the table when there is not enough love coming from it

July 20th, 2015

14:59

How to leave the table when there is not enough love coming from it? I believe in sharing the knowledge, power, compassion, courage, generosity and most stuff around that but there can be no power of any kind without …

Dont Fix it if it aint broken

July 16th, 2015

11:01

Dont Fix it if it aint broken – listen for what others REALLY want fixing – otherwise its just about you, and that is rarely the best way to build Relation Power with anyone. Its important to let go of our own ideas. …

Guessing takes energy

July 13th, 2015

8:39

Guessing takes energy from Relationship Power. Don’t make others guess what you do for work, and who you do it for and primarily what THEY get out of …

The Power of Rest. Sleep more – Archive more

July 9th, 2015

2:58

The Power of rest continuned. My podcast recommendation for today: Michael Hyatt Michael Hyatt is talking about the power of rest. Its so important to get sleep and exercise.. Michael is doing a way better job than I …

How Full is your bucket? Powerfull words and energy

July 6th, 2015

12:18

How full is your bucket? Be mindful of the words you use internally to yourself as well as to others, Words are more powerful than we think of. Try …

Gamification at work

July 2nd, 2015

11:51

Gamification at work if you simplified your work into just a few rules… What would those be?  Just the top ten most important things and ways to …

Fan the flame – awaken the spark

June 29th, 2015

16:34

Quite often I find myself thinking “oh there’s a ember glowing under there, should i help ignite it? Help light the passion?” Its my own curiosity …

Everything Gives Feedback – Boardgames are excellent examples

June 25th, 2015

13:26

Everything Gives Feedback – Boardgames are excellent examples for becomming aware of your own patterns and figure out how to transform those insight into “in real life” Learning is a choice. You can learn from whatever …

That Other Way often works Just Fine – Continued

June 22nd, 2015

18:54

That Other Way often works Just Fine – Continued Some listeners requested I add a few more thoughts to a previous  cast since they said the original really helped them connect and get more accomplished by doing so. So I …

Help others without expecting anything back

June 18th, 2015

9:17

Help others just because you can and want to. I belive in a world of helping others for no other reason than the strong should help those they can. …

the balance between kindness to one self and stretching one self

June 15th, 2015

13:59

Last Thursday I released something sub-par. It was my podcast on team-building that WE feeling. And the thing is, i don’t even know if most of you noticed that the outro was cut off a few seconds and that I myself …

Teambuilding – building a WE feeling

June 11th, 2015

11:55

Building a team isnt just about the big actions to form it, its also the very small repetetive gestures that affect the “we/us feeling” the most. Dont underestimate them, make sure you include small things every day …

Easy for you might not be easy for others

June 8th, 2015

12:52

Easy for you might not be easy for others. Just because its easy for you, dont take for granted that its easy for others. Look for the Positive intent! It might not be due to disrespect its “not finished”. They’re “not …

HEAL ME plz plz

June 4th, 2015

15:14

We can learn more about ourselves using anything. I’m a computer gamer and love healing people but you know what? most often its the ones that ask the most for HEALS that doesn’t learn to avoid the need in the first …

People AND Results

June 1st, 2015

13:50

You need Results in order to grow power. Otherwise, eventually, the powerful people will not invest their time and other resourses with you. Help …

Embrace Reality – small progress is progress too – help others see theirs

May 28th, 2015

11:36

Most of the successful people I know say it’s mostly due to small repetitive progress. Don’t wait for that huge one thing that will make ALL the …

Unmet needs and your expectations, only you can own your own expectations

May 25th, 2015

14:14

Unmet needs and your expectations Unmet needs and your expectations. You have to own your own expectations, because no one else but you can give you want you one. No one else has walked in your shoes for the length of …

When to talk and when to not.. Choose active listening to build power with awareness

May 21st, 2015

20:50

When to talk and when to not… Choose active listening to build power with awareness Listening is, according to my humble opinion, by far the most effective Relationship Building action you can take. One of the times …

The Power of Positivity within – to yourself and others

May 18th, 2015

14:11

The Power of Positivity within – to yourself and others   Be positive. As much as possible. Manager Tools, of whom I am a big fan say “start with 3 …

Fear is natural – Showing vulnerability will connect you

May 14th, 2015

9:02

    Fear is natural – Showing vulnerability will connect you – to yourself and to others Honor your fear. Listen to it. Trust it. But do what you can …

Everything decays – What actions do you take for what effect?

May 11th, 2015

24:31

Todays episode is more philosophical in nature than most of my previous ones. I hope you enjoy it and that it helps you shift perspective, encouraging you to take action today – For a better future for yourself and …

What Game Are you Playing? Learn the Rules Beyond it

May 4th, 2015

14:01

What Game Are you Playing? Learn the Rules Beyond it    

Dare to be a beginner again

April 27th, 2015

23:37

Dare to be a beginner again. You will find you inspire others AND become clearer to others on what you excel at by being clear of what you know very well and what you are a beginner at. That you also show as en example …

Seek the Energy – WHO wants an effect? Let them drive it!

April 23rd, 2015

15:10

        Use the energy where it is heading. Let the one who wants the effect drive it, instead of you risk forgetting trying to be helpful between …

Your Time and its effect on Your Relationship Power at work

April 20th, 2015

24:19

Your Time and giving it away – its effect on Your Relationship Power at work   Take a minute for yourself. Think back on the past week. Who do you …

Lowering the resistance to communication from others

April 13th, 2015

11:59

Take the Lead. Take the initiative. Greet or share a helping hand to those you pass in the corridor. This will lower the barrier when you OR they need something next time. Perhaps try to make 2015 a more generous year …

Accepting ourselves – so we can accept others easier

April 6th, 2015

10:34

Accepting ourselves – so we can accept others easier. This I believe is one of the first step of embracing the relationship with another person. It starts and ends with ourselves. It’s not always easy but be kind to …

Encourage others to be their kind of hero

March 30th, 2015

13:40

Encourage others to be their kind of hero I love fantasy heroes. I love a great story. I think most of us do. Myself I love reading and seeing films like Lord of the Rings. A lonesome figure bearing the responsible to …

Adjust your steps but keep taking them

March 23rd, 2015

13:29

Adjust your steps but keep taking them Should I take smaller or bigger actions? If you accomplish most of what you set out to do, take bigger steps …

Yes and No – its Power and its Dangers

March 16th, 2015

14:58

Yes/No The power of saying yes to yourself is awesome. The power of saying Yes continuously to your Boss – and deliver on it is amazing So what’s the danger then? Be aware of when you use it. “With great power comes …

Be Slow to Judge – great blogpost by Michael Hyatt

March 9th, 2015

15:56

Be Slow to Judge – great blogpost by Michael Hyatt We often project our own issues. Be careful that you are talking about future benefits for the …

Why and what is important for you..beyond yourself?

March 2nd, 2015

14:51

Why and what is important for you more than your own results? Please give yourself a minute to ponder on WHY you want to archive what you want to get …

Explore your own playfulness

February 23rd, 2015

11:05

Explore your own playfulness. That will give you energy that your relationship will share. What is having fun for you? Where do you have fun and what …

Embrace the data all around – its ALL about the people

February 16th, 2015

18:18

Embrace the data all around you. WHILE you are at the meeting be at the meeting. Meet the people and their senses, attitudes, body language etc. …

Systems beyond systems beyond systems

February 9th, 2015

23:15

There is always systems beyond systems beyond systems. Thus there is harmony AND turmoil inside the person your are talking to right now. Some of it comes from systems you will never see, but affecting here and now. …

Inner game of self isolation

February 2nd, 2015

11:47

Be happy and impressed by other skills and archivements, but their success in no way diminishes yours. If you enjoy their happiness for their sake, they might like you more. If you put them above you – you actually …

That other way often works just fine

January 26th, 2015

11:45

Open your mind to that other way of getting things done Often we believe our way is the best way, missing the point that by doing so we lose a lot of …

The Power in names – yours and others

January 19th, 2015

20:15

The Power in names – yours and others How often do you think about the power of names? Yours and others. Do you make it easy for others to use your name for the best of you and them? Do take note of others name to show …

Embrace Your reality – Lessons learned after 25 episodes

January 12th, 2015

21:49

Wow 25th episode is here! Part of embracing reality is to do your own internal recap and feedback for yourself and I thought I’d share mine, in case those thoughts help anyone else. Please note that todays podcast will …

See The Individual – dont generalize

January 5th, 2015

15:03

It’s human to make assumptions. “I have met people for your firm before, your school before, your country before, your continent before.”.. It’s an …

Successful communication is ALL on you

December 29th, 2014

17:53

Successful communication is ALL on you   Successful communication is all on you – Which means if you don’t get the results and actions you want when …

The Power of believing Others can improve

December 22nd, 2014

3:18

The Power of believing Others can improve Please take time to listen to the great TED talk “The Power of believing that you can improve” by Carol …

Your Calendars Relationship Power and other Effects

December 15th, 2014

19:28

Your Calendars Relationship Power and other effects on you and those around you. Are you aware of the real power of a shared calendar? Experiment with yours until you get the effect you want. Do not leave your calendar …

First Impressions and its longlasting power

December 8th, 2014

26:30

First impressions and the lasting power of it First impressions last longer than most of oss think about. You probably heard it before, but do you actually make use of its power in your daily life?       Action to take: …

Better a small step today than waiting for perfect

December 1st, 2014

10:46

Help someone today just because you can. It doesn’t have to be anything big.  Often I find that people wait for the perfect moment to help that will make a big impact. Or wait and see if the help they think they can …

Listener Feedback – Alternative Cost

November 24th, 2014

7:20

Thank you so much for your listener feedback! I am sorry that I said that we have to be perfect when sending things out to the web without explaining myself properly. What I meant to say, but didnt since I got on a …

Why do you want power to help others? + Plan for December business

November 24th, 2014

26:03

Ask yourself Why you need Relationship Power? We are all different. Different things matter differently to us.  This doesnt have to matter to you …

Be an Opportunity Maker

November 17th, 2014

3:41

Connect others!  Help them with whats important to them. You never know where this will lead them ..thus and you… The reward can be enormous for everyone. This is the “opportunity cost” I compared not taking action with …

Polarizing People towards you – Awareness and its power

November 10th, 2014

26:10

Are you aware of your polarisation effect in different situations and environments? Do you know what you want when for which effect?   Action to …

Alternative Cost

November 3rd, 2014

25:02

Relationship Power at work – What’s your alternative cost for the things you are thinking about or not thinking about right now? to ANY action or …

The Power of all the Circles around you – people!

October 27th, 2014

30:08

The Power of all the Circles around you In this episode I want to help you focus on the people you most commonly don’t go to lunch with at your work. With the purpose to explore why that is and how it accepts the power …

The Power of Rest and some inspiration why you should experiment to get yours often

October 20th, 2014

25:32

The Power of Rest and some inspiration why you should experiment to get yours often How do you know you’re rested? How do you know you’re at your …

The Art of Listening

October 13th, 2014

22:52

The Art of Listening. “When you talk you are only repeating what you already know. When you listen you may learn something” – Dalai Lama We all get very preoccupied with ourselves every now and then. In some situations …

Make others bloom

October 13th, 2014

35:09

This episodes focus on some of the reasons on why and how you could help make others bloom. It could be as simple as taking five minutes extra just …

The Power of Silent feedback

October 6th, 2014

28:53

This podcast will help you explore the silent feedback that is always around you and how you can harness this to your advantage. We will also talk about the fact that you are never ever in neutral mode with anyone you …

Relationship Power at work – Appearance don’t tell the full story

October 6th, 2014

27:26

Relationship Power at work – Appearance don’t tell the full story We all start by judging the book by its cover, but with self-awareness we can catch …

Know thyself – we are abit of everything + treat your directs as volunteers

October 4th, 2014

25:07

RelationshipPower at work – Know thyself. We are abit of everything Know thyself.  Your relationship with yourself is the most important one you have. Some experiences make part of me go into mental shutdown. is it the …

Your Reputation and the trust you bring before you

October 3rd, 2014

26:25

Relationship Power at work – Your Reputation and the trust you bring before you even meet someone for the first time. Are you aware what people find about you online? What you yourself type into all those emails you …

RelationshipPower is all about Integrity. Your Integrity!

October 3rd, 2014

23:50

RelationshipPower is all about Integrity. Your Integrity is important! We explore some of what that means to me and you as a manager. We explore being uncomfortable, and that we can all learn new things if we can just …

The Power of your bodylanguage

October 1st, 2014

30:35

Everything you do, say and don’t do sends signals on multiple levels and multiple channels at once. Are you aware that your body either hinders or …

The Power of choosing yourself by disconnecting + Necessary Endings

September 29th, 2014

24:16

Relationship Power at work – The Power of choosing yourself by disconnecting and other Necessary Endings This episode is dedicated to help you explore where you stand most commonly on disconnect and saying no to things …

Relationship Power at work – The power of vulnerability + Handshake

September 26th, 2014

26:23

Make others feel worth of Love and Belonging. Be kind to yourself, that the only way you can sustain kindness to others. Help yourself feel “you are enough” and pass that feeling to others whenever you can. Be kind to …

RelationshipPower at Work Episode001 What is Relationship Power and how does it help you?

September 22nd, 2014

26:56

My definition of Relationship Power is that thing that you earn, not the same thing as Role Power or Authority Power that you get by your position. …

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