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Oracle On Purpose | Lia Dunlap

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Are you an intuitive entrepreneur or inspired leader who wants a powerhouse business that makes money while making a difference in the world? Would you like to align your unique life purpose with your business strategy to create stability and lasting fulfillment? Are you ready to find the clarity an… read more

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EP89: I Suck at Setting Boundaries!

A client reached out to me, saying, “I suck at setting boundaries! Allowing others to burst through our boundaries is the same as giving away our authentic nature and our own autonomy to live and breathe in the world.

What is the key to setting strong parameters for ourselves?

Take some time to discern your values and be aligned with what you truly want. Present yourself the way you want the world to respond to you.

As I was working with my client through this process, I asked them:

“What decisions are you making based on your vision of what you want to create in the world?”

Possessing this deeper intuition will help you draw those boundaries and bring you closer to your life fulfillment.

WATCH: I Suck at Setting Boundaries!

Key points covered in this episode: 

✔️ Ask yourself the tough questions. If you have internally decided that other people’s intentions and needs are more important than yours, you’re blocking yourself from moving forward. Be honest with yourself so you can finally stand firm with your higher purpose.

✔️  Recognizing the destructive pattern of pleasing others is the first step to breaking it and knowing what you want. We may not notice it. But throughout our lives, we’ve been hardwired to let people push into our space because of our innate human desire for validation and conformity. But this knee-jerk reaction is making us unhappy. 

✔️ We tend to make decisions that are outside of what we truly want. This leaves us disconnected from our present experience. Creating boundaries equates to being in your aligned self. Strongly stick to your authentic desires and inclinations, and you’ll be able to naturally set those parameters.

✔️  If you feel that you are taken for granted and undervalued, create from inside yourself that person that deserves respect and love. No one receives you in any other way than how you show up in the world. 

 

✔️ Pay attention to what feels real and true to you. The road to learning how to set boundaries is rocky. But once you start being present at the moment, it becomes more natural. When you begin to make authentic decisions, people around you would respond accordingly.

✔️ Be aware of your thoughts when people cross your boundaries. Recall what happens when people step into your sphere. What comes through your mind? How does it make you feel?

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The Oracle on Purpose podcast is for the intuitive entrepreneurs or inspired leaders who want a powerhouse business that makes money while making a difference in the world. It's time to find your unique life purpose and get back on track with your business strategy to become fulfilled in your work. 

About Lia Dunlap:

Dubbed the Oracle on Purpose, Lia Dunlap's Intuitive Guidance and 25 years of successful operational business experience will help you find your Unique Life Purpose. Get back on track with your business strategy to become fulfilled again in the work you do. It's time to remember... You are here on purpose. You've got a mission to fulfill, and we are here to make sure, no matter what, you achieve it.

Loved this episode? It's time to escape the monotony of shallow work without losing everything you've worked so hard for. Download your FREE Purpose and Prosperity Road Map. Discover the five essential steps to go from frustrated, annoyed, or not living your purpose to a successful purpose-driven leader. purposeandprosperityroadmap.com

 

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