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Modern Anarchy

76 EpisodesProduced by Nicole ThompsonWebsite

The podcast featuring real conversations with conscious objectors to the status quo. I'm your host, Nicole (She\Her). I am a sex coach and queer doctoral student in clinical psychology studying sex, relationships, and non-monogamy. Join me as I feature the honest stories of those who are unashamed i… read more

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69. Guided Masturbation Meditation #2: Solo-Date Night

August 10th, 2022

50:29

On today's episode, Nicole leads us on a guided masturbation meditation for people with vulvas to slow down and connect with pleasure. Set aside some …

68. Independent Sexuality for Women: Relationship Therapy, Navigating Jealousy, and a Look Into the Life of Non-Monogamy

August 3rd, 2022

56:49

On today's episode, we have Arushi join us for a conversation all about navigating the patriarchal construction of monogamy to challenge the status quo. Together we talk about differing from your family value systems, …

67. PORN, PORN, PORN: Masturbation, BDSM, and Safe Words

July 27th, 2022

44:58

On today's episode, we have researcher and professor Alan Mckee join us for a conversation all about the effects of pornography after 50 years of academic research! Together we talk about the contradictory data about …

Teaser: Jealousy in a Threesome?

July 20th, 2022

4:47

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66. I'm a Bionic Bitch: Stepping Into Yourself, Finding Community, and Flow States

July 20th, 2022

45:46

On today's episode, we have writer and editor Dayna Troisi join us for a conversation all about celebrating ourselves unapologetically. Together we …

65. Relationship Chemistry: Emotional Self-Awareness, Boundary Setting, and Healing Attachment

July 13th, 2022

1:18:56

On today's episode, we have artist and yogi Emilee Kerper join us for a conversation all about the beautiful complexity that is relationships. …

64. Uncensored Sex Education: Sex Positive Clubs, BDSM, and Fruit Fetish

July 6th, 2022

57:49

On today's episode, we have artist and founder of The Sex School, Anarella Martinez-Madrid, join us for a conversation all about living in the future …

63. What Does It Mean to Be Authentic? Co-Regulating, Existentialism, and Compersion

June 29th, 2022

54:12

On today's episode, we have therapist Mei Zarnitsyna (she/her) join us for a conversation all about existential philosophy and finding authenticity. Together we talk about shifting between our rational mind and body …

62. Public Sex: Out of the Closets and Into the Streets

June 22nd, 2022

1:16:49

On today's episode, we have a conversation with smut writer and exhibitionist Gem Cut (they\them) all about the anarchy behind the queer deconstruction of eroticism and sexuality. Together we talk about reckoning with …

Teaser: Can I Even Call Myself Gay?

June 15th, 2022

3:53

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61. Wrestling with Questions Around Identity: Sexuality, Gender, and Careers

June 15th, 2022

1:01:14

On today's episode, we have therapist Betsey Zemke (She\They) join us for a conversation about navigating the flux of change. Together we talk about trauma recovery with the pandemic, bird calling your community, and …

60. Exploring the Unconscious: Synchronicity, Dreams, and Psychedelic Psychotherapy

June 8th, 2022

1:08:13

On today's episode, we have doctoral candidate and marriage & family therapist, Manny Dominguez, who is studying drug assisted psychotherapy. Together we talk about spontaneous mystical experiences, our shadow …

59. Filleting Your Spinal Cord While Pregnant: The Intersection of Disability and Sexuality

June 1st, 2022

1:01:05

On today's episode, we have disability activist Robin Wilson Beattie join us for a conversation about navigating being a mom and becoming disabled. Together we talk about internet dating pioneers, wusbands, and defying …

58. I'm Definitely Gay: Unholy Sex, Disciplinary Action, and Painting the Mormon Church

May 25th, 2022

1:25:37

Activation Warning: Spiritual Abuse and LGBTQIA+ Oppression

On today's episode, we are joined by the polyamorous and kinky non-binary/trans therapist …

Teaser: How Do I Orgasm?

May 18th, 2022

4:46

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57. Healing from Emotionally Immature Parents

May 18th, 2022

1:07:54

Activation Warning: Sexual Abuse

On today's episode, we have Ebony Holloway join us for a raw and vulnerable conversation about healing and dealing. …

56. Building a Relationship Contract: Queer Theory, Kinky Monogamy, and the Relationship Escalator

May 11th, 2022

44:45

On today's episode, we have sex and relationship therapist Tom Doctor (He\Them) join us for a conversation all about approaching our relationships with curiosity. Together we talk about the healing  nature of community, …

55. Tuning Into My Embodied Self: Demi-Sexuality, Polyamory, and Somatic Experiencing

May 4th, 2022

1:42:13

On today's episode, we are joined by somatic experiencing therapist, Meggie Twible, for a conversation all about slowing down to land in the present. Together we talk about the language of sensation, orienting to …

54. Understanding Romantic and Sexual Attraction: Asexuality, Libido, and Abundant Love

April 27th, 2022

1:02:31

On today's episode, we have sex educator Aubri Lancaster join us for a conversation all about discovering her Asexual identity. Together we talk …

Teaser: How Do I Open Up My Relationship?

April 20th, 2022

4:05

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53. True Crime: Holding Onto What He Could Be vs. What He Was

April 20th, 2022

1:16:58

Activation Warning: Stalking, Self-Harm, and Domestic Violence

On today's episode, Jamie Baier shares her story behind starting the podcast I Am Not …

52. Year One Reflection with Your Host

April 13th, 2022

34:28

On today's episode, we are celebrating the one year anniversary of the podcast with a special reflection episode! Settle in with Fat Cat and myself as we reflect on the last year of growth, embarrassment, and bravery. I …

51. Being Transgender is My Super Power

April 6th, 2022

56:47

On today's episode we have activist Corey Rae (she\her) join us for a conversation about what she has done with the cards she has been dealt to change the lives of others. Together we talk about the oppression and …

50. I'm a Polyamorous Person in a Monogamous Relationship: Black Holes, Relationship Anarchy, and Queer Deconstruction

March 30th, 2022

1:21:19

On today's episode, we have LGBTQIA+ activist, Aurora Higgs (she\they), my ideological twin! Together we talk about escaping the monogamous or …

49. The Creative Expression of Pornography

March 23rd, 2022

52:50

On today's episode we have performer, model, and director Lina Bembe join us for a conversation about our responsibility as ethical consumers to listen to the voices of porn performers. Together we talk about …

48. That's Not the End of the Story: Spicy Childhoods and Talking about Sex

March 16th, 2022

1:04:41

On today's episode, we are joined by the therapist Jason Best, who enjoys working with LGBTQIAA individuals, poly people, nerds, kinksters, gamers, …

47. The Mythology of A-Sexuality: I never had a crush!

March 9th, 2022

1:09:58

On today's episode, Destinie joins us for a conversation all about how asexuality redefines our understanding of human development and what sexuality really means. Together we talk about the independence of the virgin …

46. The Eroticism of a Shared Vision

March 2nd, 2022

1:18:58
On today's episode, Dr. Matthew Gamble shares his journey from serving as a pastor  to discovering a new found freedom in our sovereignty through expansiveness and curiosity. Together we talk about the need for …

45. Are You Willing to Sip Your Own Medicine?

February 23rd, 2022

1:03:11

Activation Warning: Mention of Suicide

On today's episode, we have founder of the Mother Tree Foundation, natalie, join us for a raw conversation all …

44. How Men Cry

February 16th, 2022

1:06:55

Activation Warning: Mention of Suicidal Ideation

On today's episode we have artist and podcaster Dxtr Spits join us for a conversation all about the …

43. Shit Pearls

February 9th, 2022

54:59

On today's episode, we have a conversation with the founder of Living Wisdom Church, Amanda, all about reclaiming your sacred sovereignty. Together …

42. Public Art with a Cause

February 2nd, 2022

1:19:52

On today's episode we have the epidemiologist and activist, Jason Avery, join us for a conversation all about his life as a classic over achiever. …

41. I'm Too Jealous for Non-Monogamy

January 26th, 2022

1:22:17

On today's episode, we have polyamorous research psychologist Dr. Joli Hamilton join us for a conversation on jealousy within non-monogamy and …

40. The Paradox of Our Identities

January 19th, 2022

1:31:08

On today's episode, we have R&B singer and song writer Jordanna join us for a conversation about the fluidity of our identity. Together we talk about analysis paralysis, shifting our negative internal dialogue, and …

39. You're Your Own Superhero

January 12th, 2022

47:42

On today's episode, we have painter and muralist Nico Cathcart joins us for a conversation about advocating for yourself and living with a disability in the artistic world. Together we talk about recognizing what's …

38. Be Ready to Be Confused

January 5th, 2022

25:50

On today's episode, we have the multi-awarded LGBTQ+ advocate, genderfluid editorial and runway model, and published author Desmond Napoles …

37. Two Bad Bitches on Boundaries and Break Ups: Part 2

December 22nd, 2021

1:18:02

On today's episode, we have part 2 of my conversation with artist Nexus J, Together we talk about existential dread, aligning our futures with our …

36. Two Bad Bitches on Boundaries and Break Ups: Part 1

December 15th, 2021

1:13:36

On today's episode, we have artist Nexus J join us for a raw conversation about the difficulty of relationships. Together we talk about finding a …

35. The Struggle of Living

December 8th, 2021

1:01:23

On today's episode, we have a conversation with activist Vitoria about learning to be comfortable with change and grounding actions in your beliefs. Together we talk about the importance of community, connecting to the …

34. What Does it Mean to Manifest?

December 1st, 2021

1:02:23

On today's episode we have yogi and soul coach Anna join us for a conversation about the power of the universe. If you are into the whoowoo then this …

33. Pussy Glitter is Contagious

November 24th, 2021

1:24:36

On today's episode, we have sex coach Tazima Paris join us for a conversation on the question, what is sex? Together we talk about monogamousish …

32. Coming Out to Your Conservative Family: Are You a Gay Villian?

November 17th, 2021

1:11:28

TW: Mention of Suicidal Ideation

On today's episode, we have artist and graphic designer Jordan Parvex join us for a conversation about coming out to conservative family and claiming your queer identity. Together we …

31. Life is Too Short to Do One Thing

November 10th, 2021

57:02

On today's episode we have Keith Ramsey who shares his story about how the universe pushed him into becoming a full time artist. Together we talk …

30. Advocating for Yourself in the Medical System

November 3rd, 2021

51:13

On today's episode we have sex educator Ren Grabert join us for a conversation about their journey navigating the the complexities of the medical system with a chronic condition. Together we talk about the importance of …

29a. Sound Healing Meditation Only

October 27th, 2021

10:27

On today's episode we have holographic sound healer, yoga teacher, and spiritual mentor, Sahsa join us for a conversation about limiting beliefs and …

29. Limiting Beliefs Around Love: Sound Healing, People Pleasing, and Finding Your Purpose

October 27th, 2021

1:09:14

On today's episode we have holographic sound healer, yoga teacher, and spiritual mentor, Sasha join us for a conversation about limiting beliefs and …

28. You are Enough: How the ADA Shaped America

October 20th, 2021

50:09

On today's episode, we have Reverend Cyndi Jones join us for a meaningful conversation about disability. Together we talk about the white older man …

27. I Got Double F**ked, and Finally, I Released!

October 13th, 2021

1:07:05

On today's episode we have the spank therapist and writer Ze Royale (ze\they\them) join us for a conversation about authentic alignment. Together we talk about not being boxed in by your queer identity, squirting …

26. Mind, Body, Spirit: Letting Go of an Eating Disorder

October 6th, 2021

1:03:03

TW: Eating Disorder, Suicide, and Depression

On today's episode, Isa shares her journey to healing after 13 years of having an eating disorder and …

25. Hot and Steamy Consent: Communicating Your Sexual Desires and Exploring Polyamory

September 29th, 2021

1:14:08

On today's episode, we have podcaster and somatic sex educator Karen Yates join us for a conversation about her journey from the difficult change of …

24. If You Can Sit For a Tattoo, You Can Have a Vasectomy

September 22nd, 2021

52:54

On today's episode, we have Drew discuss his meaningful decision to have a vasectomy and what the procedure actually entails. Together we talk about …

23. God Loves Queers: The Faith Journey of a Lesbian Bishop

September 15th, 2021

1:29:33

On today's episode, we have the first openly lesbian bishop in the Evangelical Lutheran Church, Brenda Bos, join us for a conversation about how her sexual identity shaped her unique faith journey and prepared her for …

22. The Hot F**king Mess of Legalized Cannabis: Is Your Consumption Ethical?

September 8th, 2021

1:01:25

On today's episode we have the artist and film-maker Anna Epstein join us for a conversation about the monopolization of the legal cannabis industry. …

21. The Internet Age Gap: Is Curation Making Real-Life Intolerable?

September 1st, 2021

1:18:38

On today's episode, we have artist and activist Noah Scalin join us for a conversation about the generational divide with the rise of the internet age. Together we talk about the internet-self vs. the physical self (or …

20. Escaping the Multi-Level Marketing Scheme of Mormonism

August 25th, 2021

1:04:19

Trigger Warning: Mention of Suidical Thoughts 

On today's episode, Rayna shares the details of her personal story with spiritual abuse from the Mormon Church and how she was able to rediscover her sense of self. …

19. When Do You Leave a Relationship: Polyamory, Sadism, and Self-Care with an Empress

August 18th, 2021

1:12:08

On today's episode, we have the tender brutalist and professional dom, Empress Wu join us for a philosophical and vulnerable conversation about …

18. The Gray Forefront of Psychedelic Research

August 11th, 2021

1:16:48

On today's episode, we have psychedelic scientist and researcher Manesh Girn join us for a conversation about how psychedelics affect our brain and their effectiveness in therapy. Together we talk about some of the …

17. Let's Not Take Things Too Personally: HPV, Social Media, and Anxiety Brain

August 4th, 2021

1:01:10

Trigger Warning: Sexual Assault 

On today's episode, Kellie joins us for a raw and honest conversation about her experience with HPV and navigating …

16. The Anarchy of Beginning From Love

July 28th, 2021

1:13:57

On today's episode, we have somatic social justice practitioner, trauma-informed, resilience-oriented licensed psychotherapist, Nat Vikitsreth. Together we talk about the effects of generational trauma and internalized …

15. Radical Everyday Acts: Jumping the Turnstile

July 21st, 2021

1:21:05

On today's episode, artist and abolitionist Christiana joins us for a conversation about radical everyday acts and being a multi-hyphenate artist. …

14. Defying Labels: Discovering I was an Abuser and Abused

July 14th, 2021

57:50

Trigger Warning: Domestic Abuse  

On today's episode, Gary shares his personal journey with the difficulties that life can throw at you including …

13. Behind the Scenes of OnlyFans

July 7th, 2021

56:22

On today's episode, we have burlesque dancer, model, and OnlyFans content creator Ramona Romance. Together we talk about abstinence only education, Satanism, and learning to love your genitals.

If you enjoyed today's …

12. The Psychedelic Experience of Post-Traumatic Growth

June 30th, 2021

1:12:43

On today's episode, we have medical anthropologist Jessica Cadoch. Together we talk about the power of the psychedelic experience, grief and loss, …

11. Nuns, Cum Socks, and Relationship Anarchy

June 23rd, 2021

1:03:34

On today's episode, we have Queen Trashley & TayyySlayyy from the equality demanding, pussy poppin, dildo riding, nazi punching, rap duo GLITTER MONEYYY. Together we talk about their journey into becoming their …

10a. Inner Parent Art Meditation Only

June 16th, 2021

9:32

On today's episode, we have Pam share her experience with embracing the unknown and letting go of outcome-based perspectives as she transitioned from …

10. Leaving the Secure Job to Create Your Own Career + Inner Parent Art Meditation

June 16th, 2021

1:25:48

On today's episode, we have Pam share her experience with embracing the unknown and letting go of outcome-based perspectives as she transitioned from …

9. Squirting, Wrestling, and Cannibalism! OH MY!

June 9th, 2021

1:04:26

On today's episode, we are getting kinky with Lola Jean, sex educator, pro domme, wrestler, and writer. Together we talk about her squirting world …

8. God is Pro-Abortion: an Agnostic and a Christian Share Their Stories

June 2nd, 2021

1:25:22

Trigger Warning: suicidal thoughts

On today's episode, we have Kim from Calling in Christians join me for a very personal conversation about their abortion experience. Together we talk about the abortion pill, …

7. White People, It's Not About You: Moving Through the Discomfort of Growth

May 26th, 2021

54:53

On today’s episode, we have Shimmy LaRoux join us for a meaningful conversation about where we are at a year after George Floyd’s murder. Shimmy …

6a. Guided Masturbation Meditation Only

May 19th, 2021

13:15

On today’s episode, we have a Yoni massage therapist join for a honest conversation about Tantra and what a Yoni massage actually entails, how to pursue pleasure, and transform your understanding of sex (be that with a …

6. The Vulnerability of Sex and Connection: Yoni Massage Therapy and Guided Masturbation Meditation

May 19th, 2021

1:29:38

On today’s episode, we have a Yoni massage therapist join for a honest conversation about Tantra and what a Yoni massage actually entails, how to pursue pleasure, and transform your understanding of sex (be that with a …

5. Staying Safe on Mushrooms: Progressing from Cannabis to Psychedelics

May 12th, 2021

1:09:17

On today's episode we have psychedelic journalist and writer of Your Psilocybin Companion, Michelle Janikian. Together we talk about Michelle’s passion for opening people’s mind beyond the mainstream narrative about …

4. Voluntary Female Sterilization at 26: I Don't Want Kids

May 5th, 2021

1:02:52

On today's episode, we are bringing out a woman's personal story about voluntary sterlization as a form of permenant birth control out into the open …

3. Commentary with a Slice of Comedy: Spiritual Trauma and Fundamental Christianity

April 28th, 2021

55:35

On today's episode, we have Jen and James from Fundie Fridays, a youtube channel with over 125,000 subscribers providing deep dives into the world of fundamental Christianity. Together we discuss what spiritual abuse …

2. Out Here for the Queers: Sex Work, Activism, and Advocacy

April 21st, 2021

1:03:01

On today's episode, we have the wonderful Cruel Valentine. They are a burlesque entertainer, sex worker, performing artist, creative business …

1. Cannasexual and Finding Pleasure After Trauma

April 14th, 2021

1:01:09

On today's episode, we have Ashley Manta who created the term Cannasexual! She is an award-winning sex and relationship coach. She brings a trauma informed approach to combining sex and cannabis. She is also the author …

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