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I Don't Get It

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The Bachelor's Ashley and Lauren Iaconetti and reality TV producer Naz Perez don't get a lot about this world. These three outspoken millennials discuss the most embarrassing topics openly and honestly. Relationships, men, sex, virginity, dating in the tech age, pop culture, and everyday annoyances,… read more

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EP283: How to be your own Matchmaker with NYC dating Expert Lily Womble

July 4th, 2022


On this week's I Don't Get It Podcast, the ladies welcome New York Dating expert Lily Womble. Lily provides truthful insight behind the tech curtain …

EP282: Summer Camp and Braces

June 27th, 2022


Since summer is in full swing and so many kids are going to summer camp, the ladies talk about their experiences in camps and how much Ashley missed …

EP281: Poor Rich Girl

June 20th, 2022


Lauren discovers the point of bird feeders. Ashley is the poor rich girl in first class who is puzzled by the behaviors of the rich rich people. Naz shows the girls the scariest bruise! Ashley does her Britney Spears …

EP280: You're a Human & You Get Fried Carrots

June 13th, 2022

In this ramble episode, Naz discusses her current battle with burn out and finding a work-life balance. Lauren and Ashley reminisce on ordering "fried carrots" from room service on a cruise. The girls also talk about …


June 6th, 2022

Naz started EMDR therapy earlier this year after doing years of talk therapy and wants to share about what it is and its effects with the world. EMDR stands for Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing therapy. It …

EP278: The Newlywed Game

June 2nd, 2022


Lauren hosts the classic newlywed game for Ashley and Jared. They answer questions like, What was their favorite part of their wedding, Which member …

EP277: Reasons To Medically Advocate For Yourself

May 23rd, 2022

Three guests discuss their rare bodily conditions. One guest recently found out she has a deviation in her vagina that leads to two uteruses. Another realized her husband was born with a blockage that was preventing …

EP276: Gelly Pens

May 16th, 2022

The ladies ramble about back to school supplies, more specifically a good pack of gel pens, and the excitement to shop for back to school clothes. …


May 9th, 2022

The women are joined by Kardashian expert Colt Paulsen to discuss all things Kardashian. Colt is the most credible superfan with a K! Winning the …

EP274: I don’t get instructions…

May 2nd, 2022

In this ramble episode, the girls talk about men’s lack of urgency and their universal love language...Drugstore shopping sprees. Plus, the crew all agree that they don’t get instructions. Like, they do. not. compute. …

EP273: Women's Viagra: A Billion Dollar Idea

April 25th, 2022

Do you feel like you have low libido and it frustrates you? Cindy Eckert's pharmaceutical company may have the solution for you. The media has dubbed …

EP272: Horse Girls & Flat Chicken

April 18th, 2022

You know how Bubba could talk about all the different forms of shrimp for hours? Apparently the I Don't Get It girls can talk about chicken in the …


April 11th, 2022

Author, host, and spiritual healer Jake Woodard comes on to talk to the girls about masculine and feminine energy, how it relates to self, in …


April 4th, 2022

The girls discuss how Jared Leto is a real life vampire, And Just Like That getting renewed for a 2nd season, Tom Brady returning to the NFL, having sex in a car wash, oh, and they classify the cheese puff. 

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EP269: Spiders Are Haunting

March 28th, 2022

Ashley and Lauren are joined by friend Jamie as Naz covers the red carpet of the Oscars. They talk about all things scary, spiders in the garage, spiders falling from the sky, ghosts on house listings, ghosts in Jamie’s …

EP268: Never show up to a man’s house empty handed

March 21st, 2022

Ashley and Lauren’s BFFAEAE Maura comes on the podcast this week. The ladies read cringe old texts they’ve sent to guys they have dated! They discuss …

EP267: Cheap or Thrifty?

March 14th, 2022

The I Don’t Get girls start off this ramble episode by analyzing Ashley’s spending habits. Is she cheap or is she responsible? Lauren and Naz make fun of each others’ driving styles. The crew imagines how hard meeting …

EP266: Jealousy

March 7th, 2022

Dr. Darcy Sterling joins the podcast to discuss jealousy. How jealousy manifests itself at a young age, how people outgrow it, and how to subdue those feelings while in a romantic or platonic relationship. The girls …


February 28th, 2022

Ashley tells all about her labor and delivery experience. From her first contraction and Jared’s reaction to being woken up in the middle of the night to the feeling of pushing and the bleeding and peeing postpartum. …

EP264: And Just Like That, It's Already Over!

February 22nd, 2022


All the episodes of the Sex & the City reboot And Just Like That have been released so the girls along with pop culture expert Oscar Gracey …


February 14th, 2022

Lauren and Naz are joined by Mystic Michaela. In celebration of Ashley and Jared's newborn Dawson coming into the world, Naz and Lauren talk to Michaela about baby auras, twin flames, and the journey of trying to get …


February 7th, 2022

It's the end of an era and Ashley is emotional over Tom Brady's retirement which leads the women to discuss how one can feel so strongly connected to public figures they don't know. They also don't get how each family …

EP261: Panic Attacks

January 31st, 2022

Panic Attacks often happen to people, and most commonly women, in their early 20’s and 30’s and since Lauren has been developing a panic disorder as …

EP260: Saving The Poochies with Bunny's Buddies

January 24th, 2022

Amanda Jo, the founder of Bunny's Buddies, explains how her dog rescue works. Some of your favorite Bachelor personalities, like Kaitlyn Bristowe and Jason Tartick, have adopted their dog's through her non-profit. She …


January 17th, 2022


Ashley is weeks away from giving birth and is terrified. Naz wants to move to Africa and is sad to be back home. Lauren is having panic attacks. But everything's fine because the orange juice in first class is the best. …


January 10th, 2022


In this ramble, the girls go off about people being flaky, and what is acceptable behavior around your in-laws. They also discuss the pressures of opening gifts in front of people, and the horrors of giving gifts to …

EP257: And Just Like That

December 20th, 2021


Ashley, Lauren, and Naz super analyze the first two episodes of the Sex & the City reboot “And Just Like That.” They discuss it all: Big’s death, Samantha’s grudge and flowers, Charlotte’s new friend, Miranda’s …

EP256: Behind the Scenes of Disney Parks

December 13th, 2021


It's considered by many to be the most magical place on earth, but how do Disney Park employees feel about the parks? We hear from performers, interns, and customer service staff about the experiences they've had with …


December 6th, 2021


Ashley shares a story that went down in a Burger King parking lot. Naz and Ash share their deep passion for fast food snack wraps and discuss the petitions to bring them back on the menu. Lauren sparks a debate between …

EP254: How High School Has Changed In The Last 15 Years

November 29th, 2021


Even though it has only been 15 years since Naz, Ashley and Lauren have been in high school, it seems like a lot has changed. Two high schoolers, …


November 22nd, 2021


In this ramble episode, the ladies discuss the look that is now considered "cheugy" by Gen Z. Lauren, ironically, defends them even though the trend can possibly hurt her business. This conversation leads to …

EP252: Neighbor Horror Stories

November 15th, 2021


It's horror story time again! You think your neighbors are tough to live around? Do they walk into your apartment unannounced and act as if your …


November 8th, 2021


On this week's ramble, the women discuss Pete Davidson and BDE. Does size matter as much to women as it does to men? Kravis' (Kourtney Kardashian and …

EP250: 90 Day Fiance and Two Babies In Two Years

November 1st, 2021


90 Day Fiance's Loren Brovarnik joins the girls this week to discuss marriage and motherhood. She explains how TLC's 90 Day Fiance experience worked for her and her husband of six years, Alex. Loren gets so refreshingly …


October 25th, 2021


This week the girls ramble about truly first world problems. They talk conversations overheard at the nail salon, what side you should sleep on, what …

EP248: Raven's Got Chalk

October 18th, 2021


Bachelor alum Raven Gates Gottschalk is full of wisdom when it comes to preparing for marriage. She opens up about the counseling she and husband, …


October 11th, 2021


The amount of energy it takes to be around other humans is discussed. Along with setting boundaries, growing, evolving, resisting life, beer & …

EP246: It's October 3 with Aaron Samuels

October 4th, 2021


Jonathan Bennett who plays Aaron Samuels in Mean Girls (amongst his many other roles) joins the girls for an hour laugh fest. He chats about what he …


September 27th, 2021


In this week’s ramble episode, Naz tells the girls all about the Met Gala, the Emmys, and her hotel run in with Timothee Chalamet. The crew compares and contrasts 9 Perfect Strangers with White Lotus. Lauren debates …

EP244: Readings From Ashley’s Bachelor Diary

September 20th, 2021


Ashley reads passages from her Bachelor diary which includes writings about sitting on Chris Soules’s lap in a bikini during their first extended …

EP243: Hairy vs Harry

September 13th, 2021


Are the words “Hairy” and “Harry” pronounced differently? There is a hot debate going around and the girls weigh in. Naz needs help/advice interviewing celebrities and designers at the Met Gala next week. And Lauren has …


September 6th, 2021


You may know Dale Moss from Clare's season of The Bachelorette, but there's so much more you don't know about Dale. Naz & Ashley sit down with Dale to talk about his upbringing in South Dakota, his time on The …


August 30th, 2021


It's no secret GEN Z is not only out to save the world, but they're here to help us with all our fashion needs and advice. The women sit down with Sydnee Grill (Takeout By Syd – is the name of her business and TikTok …

EP240: Theme Parks, Beach Vacations, & Frugalness

August 23rd, 2021


In this ramble episode, the ladies discuss their I don’t get its about theme parks. Lauren doesn’t get the appeal of beach vacations and explains why a bunch of early 20 somethings made her cry this week. Lauren and Naz …

EP239: Flying Horror Stories

August 16th, 2021


You think you've been on a bad flight before? Have you been on a plane with a food poisoned Harvey Weinstein? Have you had your dogs lost in luggage? Have you had someone die a few row behind you mid-flight? Well the …


August 9th, 2021


Naz's Dad joins the I Don't Get It podcast this week to discuss his I don't get it's, why he thinks Naz's single, and what he wishes our generation …


August 2nd, 2021


Naz, Lauren, + Ashley are reunited. Ashley gives a pregnancy update, Lauren tells the latest on her wedding details, and Naz is moving. They also talk about orange soda and 90s kids snacks.

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EP236: House Hunter

July 26th, 2021


Lauren’s fiancé Hunter comes on the podcast to break down the home buying process. He very easily describes what goes into a home inspection, …


July 16th, 2021


Amazing news! Ashley is pregnant and she's getting real about everything she's been feeling. She explains how Amy Schumer has been a great support for her. Ashley shares how frustrated she is about the picture that …

EP234: Lessons in Love

July 12th, 2021


Is it acceptable for your significant other to “like” or comment under another person’s bikini or provocative Instagram photo? Should you ask …


July 5th, 2021


The girls are joined by Blockchain Baddie Karsen Woods (@karsendaily) who breaks down what an NFT (non fungible token) is. She also discusses block …

EP232: Nuances and Mercury Retrograde

June 28th, 2021


Naz discusses how she's navigating life post-pandemic. She wants to leave the house, but doesn't at the same time. She's lonely, but wants to be alone. Naz is craving more meaning in her life and possibly a move. Ashley …

EP231: Relationships, Are You Sure You Want One?

June 21st, 2021


Ashley, Jared, & Naz talk to Simone Milasas on how control is ruining relationships. Simone is the author of Relationship: Are You Sure You Want …

EP230: Social Anxiety with Tik Toker Lily Sais

June 14th, 2021


Do you have no idea what to say at a dinner party, wedding, or any social event when you have to meet new people? This podcast is designed to help you navigate all those awkward situations. We have Tik Tok star, and …


June 7th, 2021


The girls are back IRL for the first time in almost a year. They discuss everything from CHEUGY, Bennifer, to why giraffe's make Lauren cry. The women also discover that we are living through a Jennifer Aniston …

EP228: The COVID-19 Vaccine & Pregnant Women/Women Trying To Conceive

May 31st, 2021


So why is it that pregnant women can’t eat a cold cut sandwich, but they can be injected with a vaccine that hasn’t been FDA approved and has existed …

EP227: I Don't Get Why Men Make Golf A Job

May 24th, 2021


In this ramble episode, Ashley, Lauren, and Naz rant about how men make it seem like playing golf is a job that must be accomplished and a tee time …

EP226: Beware of These Facilities For Troubled Teens

May 17th, 2021


If you watched the This is Paris documentary on YouTube, you'll know right away what this podcast episode is about. Paris's parents had her taken by burly men in the middle of the night and brought to a "correctional …


May 10th, 2021


Hunter joins Lauren, Ashley & Naz to walk through the story of how him and Lauren met and fell in love. From 7th grade to engagement, they discuss how they connected, disconnected and then reconnected proving …

EP224: A Doctor With A Sixth Sense

May 3rd, 2021


Throughout the 25 years that Dr. Jeff O'Driscoll practiced emergency room medicine he saw spirits lift out of patients who died in his presence. He …

EP223: Notes To Our Past Lovers

April 26th, 2021


Naz discusses her awful early morning flight back to LA because of someone who doesn’t know how to turn their phone on silent. Ashley talks about a …

EP222: To Death And Back

April 19th, 2021


Stephanie Arnold of Netflix's "Surviving Death" docuseries died on the operating room table for 37 seconds during a C-Section. Prior to this, she …

EP221: When People Don't Prioritize Eating At Social Events It's Stressful

April 12th, 2021


In this week's ramble episode, the I Don't Get It girls discuss the anxiety they get when people have them over for dinner and the food is far from being ready or when people take their time before ordering at …

EP220: Occupation Series - The Life of a Paparazzo

April 5th, 2021


Go behind the scenes of celebrity street journalism with Adam Glyn in the newest episode of the I Don't Get It occupation series. He's interviewed Oprah, Trump, Justin Timberlake while out and about, and Beyonce even …

EP219: Decaf Coffee & Pancakes

March 29th, 2021


From decaf coffee to blowing your nose, this ramble is full of idiosyncratic "I Don't Get Its" that you're sure to have too. Ashley gets pancakes for …

EP218: True Life: I Hooked Up With My Teacher (When I Was Of Age)

March 22nd, 2021


Ashley was convinced as a teen she was going to marry her teacher because he loved American Idol as much as she did. She shares how that infatuation …


March 15th, 2021


Attachment styles are characterized by different ways of interacting and behaving in relationships. Knowing your attachment style can help you navigate dating and relationships in a more healthy way. The girls talk to …

EP216: Paris Hilton, Hannah Montana, and Chase Crawford

March 8th, 2021


It's a ramble! The IDGI ladies discuss how epic Paris Hilton's 2006 album and how embarrassed we used to be listening to it. Lauren reveals how she met Chase Crawford during her NYC days. Naz and Ashley talk about …

EP215: Rants with Feminist Liz

March 1st, 2021

Ashley and Lauren's best friend for the past 13 years Lizzie fills in for Naz this week. She complains about her lying, gaslighting ex who's bad behavior she was blind to for two years. The girls discuss the idea of …

EP214: Ben Higgins Sexual Awakening

February 22nd, 2021


You get a different side to Ben Higgins on this podcast than you usually get on Ashley & Ben's Almost Famous podcast. On this IDGI episode, Ben talks about his sexual awakening and explains why he was so good at …


February 15th, 2021


This week Ashley & Lauren admit that they barely drive now that they're in relationships. The girls also discuss their disdain for the word "sure". The free britney movement, snowboarding, and gorilla glue come up, …

EP212: Developing and Maintaining Healthy Female Friendships

February 8th, 2021


Certified friendship coach Danielle Bayard Jackson discusses how to strengthen your female friendships and create new ones beyond your school days. …


February 1st, 2021


Naz cries because Ashley and Jared are moving out of their place in LA to be vagabonds, as Elton John would say. Ashley discusses their home search …

EP210: Sarah Herron Opens Up about Bipolar Disorder

January 25th, 2021


Sarah Herron gets candid about living with Bipolar disorder. For the first time publicly, Sarah tells Naz, Lauren, and Ashley about the day she was …

EP209: Harry, Carrie and Matt

January 18th, 2021


The IDGI crew discusses a variety of pop culture hot topics in the first ramble of the new year. There are a lot of opinions on the Sex and the City …

EP208: Single is your Superpower with Case Kenny

January 11th, 2021


Case Kenny’s Instagram has become the go-to for singles around the world. Between his podcast New Mindset, Who Dis?, and his book Single Is Your Superpower, Case imparts his perspective and advice to people around the …

EP207: My Neighbor and His Two Boyfriends

December 21st, 2020


The IDGI girls explore what it's like to be in a throuple. Ashley's neighbors lived as three men in one relationship for two years. Recently the throuple became a couple. The men discuss how their throuple formed and …

EP206: Sperm Donors & The People Who Utilize Them

December 14th, 2020


The girls explore a sect of the fertility world they have yet to learn about through the podcast. In this episode they interview a sperm donor whose …

BONUS: Bachelorette Recap with Sydney & Emily

December 9th, 2020


On today's episode sponsored by Pantene, the girls sit down with Sydney Lotuaco & Emily Ferguson to dissect this week's episode of The Bachelorette and Tayshia's season overall. Sydney reveals how Tayshia is doing, …

EP205: From The Dawn Of Time Ramble

December 7th, 2020

Naz addresses her feelings about Chasen's run on The Bachelorette. Remember, he was supposed to be in her finale of The Suitress months before filming Clare/Tayshia's season?! Lauren explains how she casted him for The …

EP204: Odd Numbers

November 30th, 2020


Ashley talks about what it's like having sex when the intention is to create a child, no matter if you're in the mood for sex or not. Naz shares what she said on the podcast that ended up in a date not wanting to see …

EP203: Monster in Law

November 23rd, 2020

The holidays are a time for giving, gathering, and eating. It's also the one time you can't escape your in-laws. So in the spirit of Thanksgiving and …

EP202: Talking Hair Care With Brad Mondo

November 16th, 2020


YouTuber and hairstylist extraordinaire, Brad Mondo, founder & CEO of XMONDO Hair joins the girls on the podcast this week to answer all your hair questions. How much hair do you grow each month? Can you really mend …

EP201: Betches Talk Bachelorette

November 9th, 2020


The hosts of Betches' The Betchelor Podcast, Kay Brown and Chris Burns, join the girls to talk about everything Bachelor franchise. Naz reveals her …

EP200: 200th Episode Celebration

November 2nd, 2020


In celebration of I Don't Get It's 200th episode, listeners from day #1 join us to reminisce on the show's funniest moments and share their I don't get its. These listeners have some splendid I don't get its, like why …

EP199: Sex & Intimacy with Dr. Viviana Coles

October 26th, 2020


Dr. Viviana Coles is the expert on Lifetime's hit show Married At First Sight and since 2003, has exclusively focused on her work with couples and …

EP198: Behind the Scenes of Dancing With The Stars with Jenna Johnson

October 19th, 2020


Dancing With the Stars dancer Jenna Johnson joins the podcast this week. She discusses the moment she met her husband, Val Chmerkovskiy, and how she almost hit him in her car before their first date. Jenna speaks about …

EP197: Big Poopin

October 12th, 2020


This week the girls ramble on about Feces. Do you sit on top of the turd like a Cranberry and let it linger, or are you flusher? When it comes to …

EP196: Witchcraft

October 5th, 2020


Have you ever been so heartbroken that you were tempted to turn to magic? The I Don’t Get It girls have a real witch from Salem Massachusetts on to talk about love spells, dark magic, and the difference between a Wiccan …

EP195: Fast Food Diaries

September 28th, 2020


IT IS ABOUT TIME that Ashley, Lauren, & Naz dedicate an entire podcast to the fabulous and fantastic world of fast food. The girls are joined by …

EP194: Travis Scott Makes Me Want McDonalds Even More

September 21st, 2020


It's a ramble! The girls talk about the most effective fast food marketing ploys. Lauren discusses her 30th birthday celebration at a haunted insane asylum in Buffalo, NY. They debate Spotify vs. Apple Music and the …

EP193: Find Flaw Less w/Mik Zazon

September 14th, 2020


Body positivity blogger Mik Zazon shows off all her “flaws” on Instagram. We’re talking stretch marks, razor burn, acne, discoloration, and tummy …

EP192: We Get Zac Efron & McFlurries

September 7th, 2020


The first half of this podcast episode is dedicated to the girls "get its." Someone's get its are another person's "don't get its." The significance of hair gel, high fashion, and sparkling water is debated. The second …

EP191: Occupational Series Phone Sex Operator

August 31st, 2020


The girls bring back the occupational series to chat with Cidney Green, a phone-sex operator who is the founder of MobileMoney365 and makes up to $150k a year on services like NiteFlirt. According to The Cut, because of …

EP190: Emotion vs. Logic With Nick Viall

August 24th, 2020


Nick Viall has been answering relationship questions on Instagram and his podcast, The Viall Files, for a bit now. He comes on to debate some of his most pragmatic opinions against Ashley and Naz’s emotional hearts. The …

EP189: Plant People

August 17th, 2020


The girls discuss a myriad of things on this fun ramble episode. From Octopuses, to people who pronounce Pink like Peenk, to people who sing to plants, this one is a great I Don't Get It. 



EP188: Folklore

August 10th, 2020


Taylor Swift stan Oscar Gracey joins the podcast this week to do a track by track analysis of Folklore. Based on his research, Oscar reveals what …

EP187: I Don't Get What The Birth Control Pill Does...Besides The Obvious

August 3rd, 2020


Nutritional biochemist & naturopathic physician Dr. Jolene Brighten joins the girls this week to discuss the effects the pill has on the female …

EP186: Free Britney

July 27th, 2020


Is Britney Spears being controlled too heavily under the conservatorship she entered into 12 years ago? Or is this situation in which a team has …

EP185: Don't Be a Maskhole

July 20th, 2020


Occupational Series: Healthcare Workers. The girls bring back the occupational series and talk to healthcare workers who are on the frontlines fighting the Covid-19 pandemic.   

EP184: I Don't Get Corona Greetings & Pistachio Ice Cream

July 13th, 2020


For the first time in four months, Ashley, Naz, and Lauren get together around the same table to ramble. Ashley thinks that doing "elbows" during social distancing is weird. Naz reports back on her family's response to …

EP183: Monica The Medium

July 6th, 2020


Monica Ten-Kate is an extraordinarily gifted Spirit Medium, author, and star of the Freeform original television series Monica The Medium. Monica's natural energy and presence makes her a relatable and lovable messenger …

EP182: Kaitlyn Bristowe

June 29th, 2020


Kaitlyn Bristowe comes on this week to talk about how you don’t need to be initially attracted to a guy in order to go out on a date with him, after all, it took 3 weeks for Kaitlyn to realize she wanted to be with …

EP181: All Shapes & Sizes

June 22nd, 2020


The girls ramble about the annoying need to eat well and exercise for the rest of their life for the sake of their health. It's like brushing your teeth, a day will never come where it ceases to be the right thing for …

EP180: Plastic Surgery, All Questions Answered

June 15th, 2020


Does Kybella really dissolve your double chin? Is Botox weakening the muscles in my forehead and will mess me up down the road? Should I not get …

EP179: White Fragility with Robin DiAngelo

June 10th, 2020


Robin DiAngelo: Academic, educator, and author of the New York Times best-selling book White Fragility: Why It's So Hard For White People to Talk About Racism  joins Ashley, Lauren, and Naz to talk about white …

EP178: The Suitress: The Final Two

June 1st, 2020


Ashley, Lauren & Naz ramble about binging Sex & The City, Tom Selleck's facial hair, and hair blow dryers. Ashley & Lauren take fan questions and interview the final two men on The Suitress, then Naz picks …

EP177: Chad Johnson's Johnson

May 25th, 2020


We all know Chad Johnson as the unfiltered, meat eating, contestant from JoJo’s season of the bachelorette, as well as infamously telling Chris Harrison to "fuck off", but Chad has a new business venture that might just …

EP176: The Suitress: Final Round

May 18th, 2020


Ashley and Lauren have been setting Naz up on virtual dates and broadcasting the dates on Ashley’s Instagram live. Naz has blindly dated 8 men over the phone and she has narrowed it down to the final four. Those final …

BONUS: I Don't Get Social Media & Phone Addiction

May 15th, 2020


May is Mental Health Awareness month and a topic people don’t talk about enough is digital health. So Naz sits down with two of her friends: The …

EP175: The Drunken Podcast

May 11th, 2020


The I Don’t Get it girls are experimenting this week by combining drinking with podcasting. The three ladies don’t drink often, so things quickly …

EP174: What is it Like Being Married to THE Tiger King?

May 4th, 2020


Did you guys watch Tiger King? Of course you did! On this week's IDGI Podcast, We get the inside scoop from Joe Exotic's current husband, Dillion Passage. Dillion gives us a recent update on how Joe is doing in prison, …

EP173: Netflix' Too Hot To Handle, David & Chloe Share It All

April 27th, 2020


Netflix' new reality viral show is here and it's called Too Hot To Handle! Where some contestants, are quite literally too hot to handle! The girls chat with show sweetheart David on the show about where his …

EP172: Guys Take Over!

April 20th, 2020


As it's not become a yearly tradition, the men have taken over the I Don't Get It podcast. This time, Jared Haibon, Arie Luyendyk, Tanner Tolbert, …

EP171: Couples In Quarantine

April 13th, 2020


Inspired by an article in Rolling Stone tilted "Why COVID-19 Will Inevitably Lead to More Break-ups" the girls decided to talk to women whose …

EP170: I Didn't Know I Was Pregnant

April 6th, 2020


We’ve all heard a story of women that have given birth in a public restroom or in the back of a car, but we didn’t know there were “I Don’t Get It” listeners that have had similar experiences! On this week's I Don't Get …

EP169: Fights, Dirty Talk & Pictures of your Ex. IDGI Q&A

March 30th, 2020


It's been a while since we've taken questions from fans, so we figured hey why not? So for this week's episode we answer all your questions. From our thoughts on dirty talk, to if all 3 of us have ever gotten into a …

EP168: Girls Proposing to Guys!

March 23rd, 2020


In this modern age, increasing numbers of women believe that a marriage proposal is not a responsibility that should always fall upon men. On this …

EP167: Love Is Blind w/ Lauren Speed and Cameron Hamilton

March 16th, 2020


Lauren Speed and Cameron Hamilton met on Netflix's new show Love is Blind and have now been married for over a year. They explain what it was like to …

EP166: Lauren's Oopsies, Thrifty Tendencies and Recent Dates

March 9th, 2020


The girls talk about Ashley's thrifty tendencies, like bringing her own stinky prepared meals into the movie theater. Get the inside scoop on Naz's most recent dates as well as Lauren's tendency to lie about the …

EP165: All The Things About Childbirth We Don't Know

March 2nd, 2020


Educational Youtube star and OB/GYN Dr. Mama Jones joins the girls this week to answer all the things you didn't know about labor and delivery and the "fourth trimester." Did you know you have to deliver the placenta …

EP164: To Recline or Not to Recline? That is this week's Ramble

February 24th, 2020


Ashley, Naz, and Lauren ramble about Justin and Hailey Bieber's relationship, the airline chair recline debate, and the existence of pretzels. They talk lube and Girl Scout cookies. They question, "Why are box flowers …

EP163: Heartbreak Remedies

February 17th, 2020


Claire Bryne, a heartbreak coach comes on this week's episode to answer listener questions as well as giving remedies on how to get over a break up the healthy way. Claire writes for Poosh and also has her own podcast …

BONUS: LIVE with the I Don’t Get It Podcast – Happy Galentine’s Day!

February 13th, 2020


A little bonus Galentines episode this week! The I don’t get it girls take it live! They answer questions from the audience and read listeners personal I don’t get it’s. Krystal shares her wisdom on self-love & …

EP162: Sex Toys and Booty Calls

February 10th, 2020


Ashley reads a hilarious review of a sex toy and Naz tells us a simple trick to get a booty call to respond. The girls discuss the potential for Jen and Brad to get back together, as well as the enchanter that is …

EP161: Serving Up Drama with Scheana Shay

February 3rd, 2020


Scheana Shay of the Vanderpump Rules cast joins us this week. We talk about the perception that she's boy crazy, her past with the Bachelor's Robby …

EP160: Why Are Prenups Such a Taboo?

January 27th, 2020


It seems like prenups are a thing that people get so judge-y about. Some relationships breakup over them. What do you do if you’re in a serious relationship and one of you has significantly more money than the other? …

EP159: Talk Soft & Blow Them Really Well w/ Heather McDonald

January 20th, 2020


Heather McDonald from Chelsea Lately & the Juicy Scoop podcast stops by to chat with Ashley, Lauren, and Naz. They discuss everything from I Don't Get Its, Busy Phillips, Megan and Harry leaving the royal palace, …

EP158: All you need to know about Surrogacy

January 12th, 2020


On this weeks I Don’t Get It Podcast, the girls explore the world of surrogacy, and all it encompasses. First joined by a surrogate and then by a couple expecting their first born via surrogate, this podcast covers …

EP157: Occupational Series: Life Coach

January 6th, 2020


HAPPY NEW YEAR DG'ERS! We want to thank you for joining us in what is the start of the FOURTH YEAR of the I Don't Get It Podcast! Now that's …

BONUS: Your Very Merry Christmas

December 23rd, 2019


Join us today on this wonderful holiday week for celebration. Hear why we don’t get why the magic of receiving gifts has gone away as adults. Also, …

EP156: Catfishing Horror Stories!

December 16th, 2019


Ashley would only agree to this podcast if there were genuinely amazing, and crazy drama catfish horror stories, and we think we succeeded! Not to …

EP155: This Is Completely Overrated

December 9th, 2019


Some of the things we don’t get in life are sometimes things that are simply overrated. Like lingerie, growing up, or pool parties when you’re a kid. …

EP154: Dr. Iaconetti Answers Health Questions

December 2nd, 2019


Dr. Iaconetti is on the podcast this week and is answering listener health questions. He addresses the new use of ketamine treating depression, what a normal day looks like inside a hospital and do redheads actually …

EP153: Are You High? Everything you need to know about CBD

November 25th, 2019


Some of us use it often. We hear the abbreviation frequently. But what exactly is CBD, and what does it do to our bodies? This week, to answer all your questions, we invite a CBD expert to the show to talk about where …

EP152: Guys Stuff Their Pants, Just Like Girls Stuff Their Bras

November 18th, 2019


On this week's I Don't Get It Podcast , Jared comes on the show to talk about seasonal depression, when Ashley and Jared are going to move back to …

EP151: Sipping Tea with Amanda Stanton

November 11th, 2019


Amanda describes what it was like to be at Lauren Bushnell and Chris Lane’s wedding. Listen to see what she says about rumored love interest Brandon Fitzpatrick.


November 4th, 2019


The girls discuss what it would be like to be unexpectedly expecting a baby. Is Ashley Pregnant!? Naz learns what "Goalie" really means, and Lauren …

EP149: Halloween Horror Stories

October 28th, 2019


In preparation for Halloween, the girls thought it would be fun to gather some Horror stories from their listeners. Spooky stories of scary …

EP148: Gossip, Cancel Culture, and Makeup w/ Manny MUA

October 21st, 2019


Manny MUA is on this week's podcast to talk gossip, cancel culture, best and worst makeup products, and share details on his new make-up collection …

EP147: All Your Dreams Explained by Lauri Loewenberg

October 14th, 2019


Have you ever wondered why you always dreamt about your ex, a loved one dying or even why you can’t see to dial the right number on your cell phone during your dream? This week is all about dream analyzation and a dream …

EP146: Sister Sister

October 7th, 2019


Ashley and Lauren catch up with each other this week. Ashley tells Lauren some pop culture news that she hasn't heard yet. They discuss the …

EP145: Everything You Need To Know About Ovarian Cancer

September 30th, 2019


It's ovarian cancer awareness month, but most of you probably don't know that as this disease never gets spoken about enough. It's called the silent killer and that's because it's symptoms are usually not noticed or …

EP144: Self Love and First Dates

September 23rd, 2019


Naz learned a lot about herself at a writing retreat she went to and enlightens Lauren and listeners, about parts of her life that aren’t picture perfect. Lauren talks about her birthday and the one thing she wanted, …

EP143: Separate Sleeping Arrangements

September 16th, 2019


We are joined this week by Brain Candy Podcast host Sarah Rice, who has a masters degree in marriage and family therapy. She joins us girls for a candid conversation about her recent divorce, while also weighing in on …

EP142: After Wedding Ramble

September 9th, 2019


The girls discuss the wedding of Ashley and Jared. Ashley says the last line of her vows that made everyone in the room need a tissue, Naz talks about the cute guy she met at the the rehearsal dinner and Lauren …

EP141: Taylor Swift

September 2nd, 2019


Oscar Gracey, professional STAN joins Ashley and Lauren on this week's episode to discuss Taylor Swift’s new album, Lover. Oscar tells us the inside scoop on his recent meeting with Taylor, as well as some of the …

EP140: After Paradise; Bibiana tells all

August 26th, 2019


Going on Bachelor in Paradise and leaving without a rose or partner can be very difficult. People don't know how hard it is to go back home to normal …

EP139: Ramble, Dating Apps, and Sex and the City

August 19th, 2019


On this episode the girls talk about Naz’s pet peeves about dating apps, what makes you pee your pants as an adult, how Leonardo DiCaprio has the …

EP138: Doug The Pug

August 12th, 2019


One thing we DEFINITELY get, are pets. Our I don’t get it this week though, is the world of pet influencers. Some of today’s most popular influencers …

EP137: Ashley and Jared & Their Greatest Fear

August 5th, 2019


Ashley & Jared do this podcast to kick off their wedding weekend. They discuss the frustrations of not being able to enjoy their end of their engagement because they’re swamped with logistics and invoices. They …

EP136: Ashley’s Wedding Secrets

July 29th, 2019


Ashley’s wedding planner, Troy Williams of Simply Troy comes on this week to share exclusive details about the planning that went into Ashley’s wedding. From flowers, special celebrity guests, to if Chris Harrison will …

EP135: Holistic Health

July 22nd, 2019


Jess Suchan, a health and holistic wellness coach, comes on the podcast this week to give some very helpful advice for losing weight and gives some …

EP134: 101 Dates in 30 Days

July 15th, 2019


Amy Malin is the guest on this week's episode to talk about how she went on 101 dates in 30 days in order to find love and spoiler alert, the 101st was the lucky number. She ended up marrying her 101st date and that …

EP133: Corn Porn

July 8th, 2019


Taking it back to the I Don’t Get It roots, Lauren, Naz and “Feminine Rant Lizzie” discuss everyday “I Don’t Get Its”. They don’t get what baby corn …

EP132: Sorority Horror Stories

July 1st, 2019


Sororities are a great way to meet friends in college and have a strong sisterhood among women but there is also a dark side. Some I Don’t Get It …

EP131: Buffets, Jonas and Cruises

June 24th, 2019


Naz tells all about her vacation with her extended family as well as the pros and cons of going on a cruise vacation. The girls decide whether buffets are amazing or disgusting. Ashley has some wedding updates as the …

EP130: Inside Instagram

June 17th, 2019


Does Instagram make money off of influencers? What is the best time to post a picture? Will instagram die like other social media apps? Will getting rid of the like button change our mental health? Josh Constine, a …

EP129: Body Image w/ Kristina Zias

June 10th, 2019


The ladies have Kristina Zias on this week to talk about how to be confident as a full figured woman. The girls talk about editing instagram photos …

EP128: TV Shows, Movies and Saggy Boobs

June 3rd, 2019


There are so many new movies and shows coming out in theaters and on Netflix. The ladies have the inside scoop. The girls saw Aladdin together, and obviously have very strong opinions about the film, and they need to …

EP127: Hiv and Herpes

May 27th, 2019


In this episode of the podcast, the Ashley, Naz and Lauren, talk with two show guests to debunk and understand their experiences living with STD’s. Jamie Gentille, author of ‘Surviving HIV: Growing Up a Secret and Being …

EP126: Adulting

May 20th, 2019


Ashley, Lauren and Naz research how women put on make up in the early 1900’s and who was the first to put blush on their cheeks. Naz talks about her experience at a car dealership and realizes she and the other ladies …

EP125: In Pop Culture News

May 13th, 2019


Naz entertains Ashley and Lauren with her tales from the Met Gala. The ladies talk about their best and worst dressed from the event, and they talk about the Jonas wedding that happened after the Billboard Awards! There …

EP124: Talking Miscarriages with Jamie Otis

May 6th, 2019


The girls have Jamie Otis from the show Married at First Sight on to talk about her very public miscarriages. Jamie talks about her physical symptoms, what causes a miscarriage, different types of miscarriages, and what …

EP123: Berning in Hell w/ Hannah Berner

April 29th, 2019


Hannah Berner from Bravo’s Summer House comes on the Podcast this week to put the girls through hell. Hannah has her own podcast called Berning in Hell where she asks her guests about their own personal hell and she …

EP122: Nudes and Airplane Cookies

April 22nd, 2019


On this week's I Don't Get It Podcast, Naz needs help planning the perfect nude photo to send to a new crush she has. The girls also find out they share a passion for the Biscoff cookies they get on a plane. Stay tuned …

EP121: Ashley and Jared Get Hypnotized! w/ Dr Mike

April 15th, 2019


On this week's I Don't Get It Podcast, we invite Dr. Mike on the show to explain hypnosis! He works with Jared and helps him get over his fear of flying, and then attempts to hypnotize Ashley and Jared together as a …

EP120: Bekah M & All the Baby Decisions

April 8th, 2019


Bekah M was known on Arie's season of The Bachelor as the young one. Twelve months from her time on the show, Bekah has a little one of her own. Four …

EP119: Dating Horror Stories! Your Most Embarrassing Moments!

April 1st, 2019


Everyone has had bad first dates, but these girls have stories you won’t believe. From being peed on, to witnessing your date getting handcuffed and …

EP118: Occupational Series: Stripper

March 25th, 2019


A stripper comes on this week to talk about how someone gets into stripping, the money they make and the dark side of the industry . The stripper …

EP117: Morning Ramble

March 18th, 2019


Ashley, Lauren and Naz talk about the new Hulu show Pen15, which brings back awkward middle school memories like dances, doing homework with your …

EP116: A Star is Born: Willam the Drag Queen

March 11th, 2019


Willam sat down with the girls to talk about his and Lady GaGa’s friendship, having Bradley Cooper sing to him, and his drag beauty routine. Willam …

EP115: Next weekend's no good for me, the Jonas Brothers are in town

March 4th, 2019


The Jonas Brothers have reunited and Ashley, Lauren, and Lizzie reminisce on the embarrassing things they did around the guys during the Little Bit Longer and Lines, Vines, and Trying Times era. Like, the time they gave …

EP114: Cheating Horror Stories!

February 25th, 2019


Being cheated on is always a horrific experience. But Ashley, Lauren and Naz have callers on this week to talk about their extra horrific cheating experiences. We are talking about being cheated on with best friends, in …

EP113: You Deserve It

February 18th, 2019


It’s Lauren and Naz this week, talking about their new work schedules and how they struggle with finding time to work out and eat healthy when all …

EP112: Fyre Festival

February 11th, 2019


The ultimate “I Don’t Get It” is who would buy tickets to the infamous Fyre Festival. After watching the two documentaries on the subject, Ashley, …

EP111: How to Think, Act, & Be Happy w/ Dr. Mike Dow

February 4th, 2019


Sometimes one of the hardest things to do in life is to try and look at the bright side. We all have to overcome obstacles and sometimes the easiest way to do so is to change your perspective. But how exactly do you do …

EP110: Long Distance Relationships!

January 28th, 2019


Long distance relationships can be very difficult and some people may not even consider them “real relationships”. But the I Don’t Get It girls have …

EP109: The Magical World of Disney

January 21st, 2019


With all of the Disney live action films coming out this year, the girls are feeling nostalgic for the old classic Disney cartoons. Ashley, Lauren …

EP108: Surviving a Plane Crash

January 14th, 2019


Ever wondered what its like to be in a plane crash? Well this week the ladies talk to a girl that survived a plane crash, a man that survived being in a building that a plane crashed into and stay tuned until the end to …

EP107: WTF does X mean?

January 7th, 2019


The ladies talk about their past New Years Eves, growing up not understanding math class in the slightest, and the taboo subject of having a crush on your teacher. The girls also reflect upon their past year and how …

EP106: Grinchmas, Christmas Questions, & Buying for Your Significant Other

December 24th, 2018


Why do people send Christmas cards in the mail of a picture you can just see on Facebook? Why is going to the post office the most confusing task as …

EP105: Roommate Horror Stories

December 17th, 2018


These stories are truly terrifying. A roommate pooping in the shower, another bringing homeless men back to the dorm room and another masturbating …

EP104: Things I Would Have Texted You

December 10th, 2018


Clara Persis joins the podcast this week to talk about how she began a successful relationship last year by cutting out texting with her new …

EP103: True Love, Childhood Crushes, & Nostalgia

December 3rd, 2018


Lauren and Ashley's long time friend, Lizzie, joins the panel this week to talk about the nostalgia of the holiday season and past love interests. …

EP102: I Don’t Get Anesthesia with Dr. Iaconetti

November 26th, 2018


Dr. Iaconetti, Ashley and Lauren’s Dad, comes on the podcast this week to talk about why people don’t feel anything when we go under anesthesia, the pros and cons of getting an epidural and just how absurd Grey’s …

EP101: Boys Rebuttal, and Lauren's Leftovers

November 19th, 2018


We're heard everything the girls didn’t get about their significant others, so for this episode,we thought it fair to have the boys share everything they don’t get about Lauren and Ashley, while Naz moderates! There's a …

EP100: We’re 100 Episodes Old!

November 12th, 2018


It’s the podcast’s 100th episode and the girls are reading fan emails to show their appreciation for every listener. Naz shares another fantastic story about a wedding she went to this past weekend as well as some new I …

EP99: Men Are Annoying! Relationship pet peeves.

November 5th, 2018


Naz asks Ashley and Lauren about the little things that annoy them about their significant others. In every relationship there are pet peeves, for Lauren it’s the pile of clothes in Jacks bathroom and for Ashley it’s …

EP98: Occupational series: YouTuber Ryland Adams

October 29th, 2018


Youtuber Ryland Adams is with the girls this week talking about all that goes into becoming a successful Youtuber. Ryland spills all the “Tea” about …

EP97: When Celebrity Encounters Go Bad!

October 22nd, 2018


Is there anything worse than meeting someone you legit idolize and them being mean to your face? Or maybe they just didn't add up to the fantasy you …

EP96: The Men Take Over, w/guests Jason Tartick, Nick Viall and Jared Haibon

October 15th, 2018


Jason Tartick, Nick Viall and Jared Haibon take over for the girls this week. They discuss approaching girls at the gym, Nick dissects a confusing text conversation with a girl. Listen up ladies, Jason tells us …

EP95: I Object!: Speak Now or Forever Hold Your Peace

October 9th, 2018


The ladies discuss the very cinematic moment during a wedding when the officiant says “Speak now or forever hold your peace”. Does that actually …

EP94: Haunting, Ghosting, & Zombies

October 1st, 2018


Has someone ever ghosted you but continues to watch your instagram stories, snapchats and like your photos? There is a name for this and it is called being “Haunted”. The girls have a relationship expert on the podcast …

EP93: Life’s Not On Paper

September 24th, 2018


Ashley and Lauren were on a cruise with the Haibon’s and she is spilling all the tea. Naz gives an update on her dating life. Listen to hear all the cringeworthy first date tales (and one tale of closure).

EP92: He's Just Not That Into You & Sex and The City!

September 17th, 2018


Greg Behrendt is the author of the infamous book that has arguably shaped or influenced our lives in one way or another: He’s Just Not That Into You 

EP91: Occupational Series: Influencer & IG Model Sommer Ray

September 10th, 2018


OG Instagram model @SommerRay comes on the podcast to talk about her infamous BUTT, how she takes her photos, and her      19 MILLION INSTAGRAM FOLLOWERS, TF?! Sommer’s mom @Shannon_rayyy, and her boyfriend come on the …

EP90: Thirst Trapping with Nick Viall

September 3rd, 2018


Nick Viall needs some dating advice. He is sliding into a girls DM's and needs a female perspective as to whether this girl is into him or not. Nick also lets the girls know if a "Thirst Trap" photo works and what's the …

EP89: Relationship Secrets, Marital Affairs, Lusts of the Flesh

August 27th, 2018


Have you ever hidden a relationship from a family member, boss or significant other? The ladies have people call in to discuss their most scandalous relationships that had to be hidden. There is a caller that is unhappy …

BONUS: Naz's Story, so far.

August 21st, 2018


Naz takes the solo driving seat on this mid week bonus episode of the podcast, and gives us a glimpse into her ongoing journey as a TV producer and …

EP88: We Don't Get Why Mom's So Nervous Co-Hosting!

August 20th, 2018


Lauren and Ashley have their Mom on to talk about her own wedding to their Dad as well as more travel and airplane “I Don’t Get Its”. Ashley discusses her newly developed anxieties and the common “Quarter Life Crisis”. 

EP87: Engagement Rings, Kissing on the Lips, and Stream of Consciousness

August 13th, 2018


Ashley, Naz and Lauren talk about Becca’s engagement ring and whether or not men should wear an engagement ring. The ladies also discuss whether …

EP86: Ever wonder why Spinning, Boxing,Pilates and Yoga aren't giving you the results you want?

August 6th, 2018


Ever wonder why spinning, boxing, pilates, and yoga aren’t giving you that Victoria’s Secret body? Well, our guest Stephen, the founder of a program …

EP85: Bridges, Spiders and Drains Oh My! All our worst fears!

July 30th, 2018


The gals discuss their biggest fears and how irrational they may sound, truly terrify them. They also asked their listeners what their biggest fears …

EP84: Pop Culture, Prom, and Wedding planning with Jared Haibon

July 23rd, 2018


Ashley is sick today so her fiancee, Jared Haibon, filled in for her to discuss his own thoughts on their wedding. Naz and Lauren fill him in on the …

EP83: Psychics, Mediums, and Aura Readers

July 16th, 2018


There's a lot of mystery surrounding the supernatural, metaphysical and mystical world so the girls invite Psychic, Medium, & Aura reader Mystic Michaela on the podcast to discuss said topics. From interactions with …

EP82: Confessions of a Shopaholic - Managing your finances

July 9th, 2018


It seems like we've discussed everything a millennial girl may have to deal with in her everyday life, but we have never spoken about finances on the I Don't Get It podcast. In this episode, we talk with Cait Flanders, …

EP81: The Definition of Sex?

July 2nd, 2018


Have you ever stopped to think about how YOU define sex? Or have you ever felt judged by your sexuality? The girls are joined by Nicoletta Heidegger …

EP80: The Wedding Planner

June 25th, 2018


Since there is a wedding in the future for Ashley and Jared, the girls begin planning! The ladies talk about buffet vs sit down dinner, how expensive being a bridesmaid can be, beach vs church weddings and so much more. …

EP79: Jonathan Van Ness is in the houuuuseee!

June 18th, 2018


By now we all know the iconic Jonathan Van Ness from the reboot of Queer Eye on Netflix. Season two of Queer Eye came out just a few days ago and he's with the I Don't Get It girls to discuss the new season as well as …

EP78: The Great Debate - Likes and Dislikes

June 11th, 2018


Join the girls in a fun game of either or. They debate whether they like Aquafina or Dasani, Hulu or Netflix, massages or facials and many more. …

EP77: Anxiety & Depression w/ D. Mike Dow

June 4th, 2018


Millennials are reportedly the most anxious generation and are at high risk for mental health issues like depression. The girls are joined this week by America's therapist Dr. Mike Dow to answer all things …

EP76: Ashley and Jared reveal ALL!

May 28th, 2018


Can you believe the day has finally come? This episode is dedicated to all the I Don’t Get It fans that have been so patient for the #Jashley announcement. This episode you get some inside information that wasn’t …

EP75: Naz's Dating Life, Skid Marks & Backstreet Boys

May 21st, 2018


This episode was supposed to be all listener emails and giving advice, but it mostly turned into a hilarious stream of consciousness that delved into Naz’s dating life, skid marks, airport etiquette and the Backstreet …

EP74: I Hope You Like Lauren

May 14th, 2018


There have been a lot of people wondering about the mysterious Lauren Iaconetti. She is not active on instagram and keeps her life private. So what does Lauren actually do with her days? The answer may surprise you… …

EP73: Long Nails, Cellulite, & *NSYNC vs. Backstreet Boys

May 7th, 2018


*NYSYNC received a star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame and life has come full circle for Ashley. The girls also discuss living life with long nails, …

EP72: Sugar Daddies

April 30th, 2018


Have you ever wanted a sugar daddy and just didn’t know how to go about getting one? Or you think that it’s an absolutely ridiculous idea and don’t …

EP71: The Clueless: Ashley's Jiu-Jitsu & Guest Jarrett Sleeper

April 23rd, 2018


The lovely ladies have Jarrett Sleeper on the podcast this week and he traded lives with Ashley for a day. He shared some "I don’t get it’s” of his own like why do we have top sheets and how embarrassing it is to wait …


April 16th, 2018


Pregnant Khloe Kardashian has been publicly humiliated and cheated on, so it got the girls thinking about people who get cheated on in general. It begs the question: if you know someone who is being cheated on do you …

EP69: After the Wedding

April 9th, 2018


We got a bunch of Jersey girls today! Ashley and Lauren talk to their cousin Kristina to discuss the changes in a relationship once you get married. She offers words of wisdom that can help nurture any relationship at …

EP68: Heart Broken Anonymous

April 2nd, 2018


The girls have a girl come on to discuss her heartbreaking story that she shared at one of Naz’s heartbroken anonymous meetings. While it is a sad tale to hear, it has a lot of good tips on how to overcome that aching …

EP67: Acne, Religion, & Ghosters w. Bekah M

March 26th, 2018


The I Don't Get It Girl's crush is Bekah M, and today she is on the show! We talk about a wide range of topics from religion, to acne, to guys using the word "cute". Plus, Ashley calls her Ghoster! Strap in because this …

EP66: Becca Tilley & Tanya Rad On What They Don't Get

March 19th, 2018


The I Don’t Get It podcast has the pleasure of having Becca Tilley and Tanya Rad on this week’s episode to discuss their own “I don’t get its”. Tanya wants to know why all the guys she meets just want to be friends with …

EP65: Die Hards

March 12th, 2018


The gals go back to their roots and discuss everyday things that they don’t get. They discuss things from overly buff guys, to bacon, to overly expensive weddings. The girls have some good laughs this episode. This is a …


March 5th, 2018


High School is a tough time and place to navigate. Worrying about being popular, having friends, who to sit with at lunch, high school crushes, the …

EP63: Ashley I & Kevin Wendt: Bachelor Couple of the World

February 26th, 2018


Now that the Bachelor Winter Games have ended, the I Don’t Get It girls finally get to have Kevin Wendt on to discuss everything that happened throughout the season and what it was like for Ashley and Kevin on the road …

EP62: Don’t Take Crumbs When You Deserve a Whole Cake

February 19th, 2018


Dr. Mike Dow comes on the podcast this week to answer I Don’t Get It listeners' relationship questions. Dr. Dow offers amazing advice for all stages of relationships and reminds us that “feelings aren’t facts” and much …

EP61: Singles In America: Statistics on the Single Life

February 12th, 2018


Dr. Helen Fisher is a anthropologist and sociologist that does an annual “Singles in America” survey for Helen discusses her findings with …

EP60: Ben Higgins and Jared Haibon Call Their Crushes

February 5th, 2018


Back by popular demand, the girls invited their friends Ben Higgins and Jared Haibon to call their childhood crushes. Prepare to feel awkward ladies …

EP59: Awkward GYNO Questions

January 29th, 2018


he girls talk to OBGYN Dr. Shannon Klingman and ask her listener submitted questions that people are too afraid to ask their own gynecologist. …

EP58: The Five Stages of a Relationship

January 22nd, 2018


The ladies discuss the five stages of the development of a relationship and the five stages of the decline of the relationship with communications professor Jen. Jen also helps the girls with tips on how to get a …

EP57: Calling Our Crushes

January 15th, 2018


FOR SOME ODD REASON Ashley came up with the idea for the girls to call someone in their past they had a crush on and never told, and TELL THEM they …

EP56: My Eyes! I Walked In On My Parents Having Sex!

January 8th, 2018


There is the kind of horror that arises from ghosts and war and then there's walking in on your parents having sex...And then there's also them walking in on you. We've got plenty of humiliating, disturbing moments from …

EP55: We Hate New Years Eve

January 1st, 2018


The ladies take a look back on 2017 as well as recap their best and worst New Year's Eve experiences. They discover sometimes its just better to stay at home, warm, enjoying your family for New Years. 

EP54: All I Want For Christmas is You

December 25th, 2017


It's the best day of the year and the trio is back talking all things Christmas. the girls dish on their favorite Christmas memories, traditions, and the day they found out Santa wasn't real LOL. The girls also dive …

EP53: Occupational Series: Funeral Director, Embalmer.

December 18th, 2017


Continuing with the occupational series on the I Don’t Get It Podcast, this week the girls invite a Funeral Director/Embalmer to share her stories on the show. Naz and Lauren plan their future funeral as well as listen …

EP52: I Don't Get It Occupational Series: Professional Cuddler

December 11th, 2017


The next strange occupation on this I Don’t Get It occupational journey is a professional cuddler. Professional cuddler Samantha comes on to talk about the benefits of cuddling, what kind of clientele she gets, and why …

EP51: Mr. Big Stories Part 2

December 7th, 2017


The girls got SO much feedback on Episode 39 Mr. Big Stories that they decided to do a part two! In this episode Ashley, Naz, and IDGI BFF Lizzie who sits in for Lauren this week (and was a guest on Ep 39) talk to 3 I …

EP50: I Don't Get It Occupation Series: The Royal Family

December 4th, 2017


The girls continue their extra bonus podcasts this week with their "I Don't Get It" occupation series. The series explores certain occupations and …

EP49: I Don't Get It Occupation Series: Pornstar

November 30th, 2017


DISCLAIMER. If you get offended easily, please don’t listen. This podcast episode contains extremely mature adult content. Our guest this week is …

EP48: Brandi Cyrus talks about boys and dating

November 27th, 2017


On this week's I Don't Get It Podcast, we are joined by the wonderful Brandi Cyrus. Ashley, Lauren and Naz talk to Brandi about her single life, her …

EP47: Taylor Swift's REPUTATION

November 20th, 2017


Taylor Swift's 6th studio album Reputation is finally here and the girls invite die-hard Taylor fan Oscar Garvey over to spill all the details on her latest album. They discuss the meaning behind her new songs, her …

EP46: Forever and Always & Lo & Behold--We're Sick This Week

November 13th, 2017


The I Don’t Get It gals are sick today. They are talking all about home remedies, modern medical advances, and how they all got each other sick. Ashley, Lauren and Naz talk about pretending to be under the weather in …

EP45: Free-For-all w/ Kristina Schulman & Jared Haibon

November 5th, 2017


We start off this weeks IDGI podcast with a ghosting story from Ashley with a huge update on the ghoster followed by the beautiful Kristina Schulman …

EP44: We Don't Get Air Travel

October 30th, 2017


The girls rant about the annoyances of airport travel. Everything from oversized bags, to the actual act of flying and smelling everyone's farts on a plane. Fasten your seat belts because you will definitely experience …

EP43: Catching Up, McDonalds, and stalking your crush.

October 23rd, 2017


This week the ladies catch up on their lives with each other and discuss McDonalds, This is Us, and crazy things girls will do to run into their crush. We all have driven by guys houses and places of work to have the …

EP42: Corrine Olympios Tells All

October 16th, 2017


THE Corrine comes on this weeks podcast to talk every dirty detail of her past and present dating life, as well as her upcoming projects. You’re not going to want to miss this one ladies and gentlemen! We are calling …

EP41: The Real Housewife's Advice w/ Siggy Flicker

October 9th, 2017


We've all heard of or seen The Real Housewives reality show on Bravo. The women on the show appear to "have it all" when it comes to success and marriage. The girls sit down and talk to Real Housewives of New Jersey …

EP40: Romantic Comedies

October 2nd, 2017


The girls have seen a lack of Chick Flicks in the movie market and its really grinding their gears. They just don’t get why people don’t enjoy a classic romantic comedy anymore. The ladies reminisce on the movies that …

EP39: Mr. Big Stories

September 25th, 2017


There was so much positive feedback on last week's podcast that the gals decided to delve back into the subject of “Mr. Big” and had fans of the podcast call in to talk about their own “Big” stories. Some girls ended up …

EP38: Mr.Big & Unrequited Love

September 18th, 2017


Ashley, Naz, Lauren & special guest/friend Lizzy Sharkey open up about their "Mr.Big," you know...the primary on-and-off again love interest in your life. The girls delve deep into the world of unrequited love, open …

EP37: Why People Cheat & The 80/20 Rule

September 11th, 2017


Ashley, Naz and Lauren discuss the 80/20 Rule, which may explain why people stray from monogamous relationships with Dean Unglert, to see if this …

EP36: The Queen Has Returned: A Taylor Swift Story

September 4th, 2017


Taylor Swift is back, ladies and gentlemen, and to help us dissect her new video and song we have Oscar joining us again to give us his STAN play-by-play. The group talks about deep tracks, her ever-changing look, and …

EP35: Jade & Tanner Tolbert Are Parents

August 28th, 2017


The world is officially better and prettier now because Jade & Tanner decided to make a child and Emerson Avery Tolbert is now with us. Just ONE …

EP34: Sex Talk w/ Guests Daniel Maguire & Vinny Ventiera

August 20th, 2017


Today's show is definitely rated R, everyone! The girls along with Daniel Maguire and Vinny Ventiera from the past and current season of Bachelor in …

EP33: Girls v. Guys--The Breakdown of the Bachelor Boys Take Over

August 14th, 2017


The girls get together to recap and analyze everything that Wells, Jared, and Chris (Cupcake) discussed in the previous weeks podcast. Including kissing on a first date, letting a girl down easy, and the "chase." 

EP32: What the Guys Don't Get w/ Jared Haibon, Wells Adams, & Chris Stranburg

August 7th, 2017


Bachelor Alum & favorites Wells Adams, Jared Haibon, & Chris "Cakes" Strandburg take over for Ashley, Lauren, and Naz and talk about things they don't get about women. The guys talk about everything from …

EP31: Ghostbusters II

July 28th, 2017


Ghostbusters is back! Naz, Lauren, and Ashley help Amanda, a girl who feels like she’s being ghosted by a guy she recently started dating. Find out what the ghoster tells Amanda in this cringe-worthy episode of …

Episode30: To Freeze or Not to Freeze w/ Whitney Bischoff & Carly Bass

July 24th, 2017


Does your mom keep reminding you about your biological clock? Anxious that your timeframe to have children is getting smaller and smaller with each …

EP29: Is It Okay To Date Your Friend's Ex?: Dibs and Don'ts.

July 17th, 2017


The women are joined by tv host and actress Daniella Monet to discuss the argument that has broken up many friendships: Is it okay to date your friends ex? The discussion leads to other question such as can you put dibs …

Bonus Episode: When Harry Met Oscar

July 13th, 2017

Access Hollywood producer Oscar Gracey went to interview Harry Styles at the recent press junket for the movie Dunkirk. As a self proclaimed "stan" …

EP28: I Don't Get Why Guys Are Staying Single Longer w/ Guest Chris Strandburg.

July 10th, 2017


Chris "Cupcake" Strandburg from Kaitlyn Bristowe's season of The Bachelorette tries to explain why men are waiting to settle down until later in life. He believes that society doesn't force them to grow up and become …

EP27: Aaron Carter on Pop Stardom, Tragedy, & Fame

July 3rd, 2017


The I Don’t Get It gals have a pop icon on this week’s show. The very talented Aaron Carter comes on to talk about his new album, dating, and how he …

Episode 26: Ghostbusters--Ashley I, Lauren, & Naz Confront Ghosters

June 26th, 2017


Chances are you've been 'Ghosted' before. And if you haven't and you don't know what it means, Ghosting is the act of breaking off a relationship with someone by ending all communication suddenly with no warning or …

Episode 25: I Don't Get "Female Problems"

June 19th, 2017


Ashley, Naz and Lauren discuss the uncomfortable issue that the majority of women have a few times in their life… the dreaded UTI. A young female …

Episode 24: Why Is Dating So Hard? w/ The Bachelor's Olivia Caridi

June 12th, 2017


On today's show, Ashley and Naz have a friendly girl chat analyzing first and second dates they both experienced this week. The Bachelor's Olivia …

EP23: Everyone's a Hacker w/ Guest Amanda Stanton

June 5th, 2017


Let's get real for a second: how many of you have ever tried to hack into your significant other's phone? What about their e-mail or snapchat account? Ashley, Lauren & Naz talk about the concept of hacking and how …

Episode 22: We Don't Get How Harry Styles Can Be As Perfect As He Is

May 29th, 2017

The talented, the beautiful, the all around full package...It's HARRRYYY STYYYLESSSS. The ladies discuss all things Harry Styles from his debut solo …

Episode 21: Pregnancy, Childbirth, & Motherhood w/ Guest Jade Tolbert

May 23rd, 2017


The I Don't Get It girls will never get what it's like to be pregnant until it actually happens to them. It seems so far in the future, especially for Ashley I & Naz. They discuss what pregnancy does to the body and …

Episode 20: Losing My Virginity & Other Sex Secrets

May 17th, 2017


As every Bachelor fan knows, Ashley Iaconetti is a virgin, but she still has sexy stories. In this episode of the I Don't Get It podcast, she reveals just how experienced she is. And even though Ashley hasn't gone all …

Episode 19: Kids These Days

May 9th, 2017

The trio of gals interview a high schooler and discuss the difference between going to high school in the early 2000's compared to today. They ask …

Episode 18: Why Is He With Her? Celebrity Couples That We Do & Don't Get

May 1st, 2017


Ever see a celebrity couple that just doesn't seem to fit? Naz, Ashley, and Lauren list off the couples they do and do not get. The girls analyze the inner workings of many past and present celebrity relationships, …

Episode 17: Coachella...We Don't Get It

April 25th, 2017


There are two kinds of people in this world. Those of us that went to Coachella, and those of us that didn't. Except those of us that didn't go, can say we pretty much DID go, because our entire Instagram feed for the …

Episode 16: He Didn't Like My Instagram

April 18th, 2017


Do you post photos just so that you can get that little high you get when your crush "likes" it? Social media has changed the dating landscape immensely. Instagram can help you get dates (sliding into DMs), confirm that …

Episode 15: I Don't Get You: Sister's Edition w/ Lauren Iaconetti

April 11th, 2017


The sisterly bond is a beautiful and unique thing. Ashley and Lauren are similar in so many ways but there a few things they just don't get about …

Episode 14: When is the Ideal Time for a Relationship in the Millennial Age?

April 5th, 2017


Ever wonder how some women seem to have it all? Ashley and Lauren talk to the former editor-in-chief of Seventeen magazine, Anne Shoket author of the …

Episode 13: Embarrassing Bachelor Journal & Diary Entries

March 28th, 2017


Ashley and Lauren take a trip home where they uncover their old childhood diaries. The girls read embarrassing entries from their early teen years in …

Episode 12: Going Out On the Town & Getting Tipsy

March 21st, 2017


Ashley and Lauren definitely don't understand why anyone would choose to "go out" rather than spend a night cozy on the couch. They did some research …

Episode 11: First Kisses & Dating w/ The Bachelorette's Wells Adams

March 15th, 2017


We don't get first kisses. Ashley grew up listening to Hitch AKA Will Smith's kissing advice. According to Hitch, the guy needs to go 90% of the way in and the girl closes the kiss by making 10% of the move. Is this …

Episode 10: Holding in Your Farts w/ Jade Roper & Tanner Tolbert

March 7th, 2017


Ashley gets bloated really easily and is so confused by how some couples keep in their farts around each other. It gets super uncomfortable! She and …

Episode 9: Giving Guys Multiple Chances Guests Jared & Carly

February 28th, 2017


Ashley recently went on four dates with the same guy. She gave him chances because he was good on paper and respectfully asked her out. She describes …

Episode 8: I Don't Get How to Play the Game w/ Guest Jared Haibon

February 22nd, 2017


Ashley and her special guest, The Bachelor's Jared Haibon, discuss what guys really mean when they say “let’s take it slow” or what it probably happening when a girl is “confused” in a relationship. Jared discusses why …

Episode 7: Why We Reject the Good Guys w/ Emily & Haley Ferguson

February 14th, 2017

Haley and Emily Ferguson, best known as "the twins" from The Bachelor franchise join Ashley and Lauren this week as they discuss everything from blow up techniques to Valentine's Day gift giving. Their conversation …

Episode 6: Finding Mutual Attraction

February 7th, 2017


Has someone ever said "You're so pretty and smart... why are you still single?" Well, the Iaconetti sisters delve into reasons women tend to push away the nice guys and say come hither to the bad boys. Ashley analyzes …

Episode 5: Puberty, Teenage Crushes, & Awkward Years

January 31st, 2017


Ashley and Lauren Iaconetti don’t get why their magical childhood feelings have disintegrated with age. What happened to those enchanted times of daydreaming about Justin Timberlake and Leonardo DiCaprio without a care …

Episode 4: Beauty Rituals, Plastic Surgery, and Grooming

January 25th, 2017


Ashely and Lauren Iaconetti just don't get why women have to go through a million steps just to get ready. Why do we have to wear makeup and pluck …

Episode 3: Cool Girls, Fuck Boys, & Ghosting

January 17th, 2017


Add cool girls to the list of things Ashley and Lauren Iaconetti don't get. You might think, wait, these chicks were on the Bachelor, they ARE cool …

Episode 2: Awkward Moments with Love Interests

January 10th, 2017


Why does it seem like loving moments always invite awkwardness??? This week Ashley I brings in her sister Lauren to discuss sticky situations in dating. Ashley describes a crush she had on one of her teachers and why it …

Episode 1: Boyfriends and Relationships

December 21st, 2016


In the first episode of the I Don't Get it Podcast, Ashley I (Bachelor, Bachelor in Paradise) and her bestie, Naz Perez (producer, Bachelor, Bachelor in Paradise) talk about how they met and why they are kindred …

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