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Bodysuits are a closet essential. A curvy girl must have in my book! Here are my fave bodysuits from Amazon that you will love too.

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Wondering if having a morning routine is worth it? It is! It's been two years since I started mine, and here is what I have learned.

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Still trying to decide what to wear on these colder days? Try a colorful cozy cable knit sweater, a winter style essential from Amazon.

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Corset tops are everywhere you look right now and I am so into it. Here are some ways to rock this on trend item. 

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I fully embrace being Afro-Latina despite having to deal with being misunderstood. I find it (and being different) to be gift. 

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You don’t want to leave your job but you wonder about starting a side hustle  Here is how to figure out a side gig that you can monetize.

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If you are an adult, you probably experienced some changes in your friendships. It is hard. We got into why that is and what to do about it.

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Have you been thinking about getting a personal trainer? Daniel Bernal joined me to talk about what to look for when seeking a trainer. 

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A white dress when done right is phenomenal! However, when done wrong, it is a disaster. Here are tips to get the right white dress for you.

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You may think that you can’t wear a crop top for a variety of reasons. You can wear one! Here are my tips on how to rock a crop top.

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It's hard to find a strapless bra for curves that works (and doesn't hurt). I think I found the best one ever! Here is my go to strapless. 

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You were on track until you weren't. You got off track. Here's how to relaunch habits to reach your goals. Get the show notes for this episode at https://livbyviv.com/how-to-relaunch-a-habit-after-getting-off-track/

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Street style is everywhere! You want to try it out, but you don’t want to look silly, right? Here are tips to pull this look off! 

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You are not sure about Over The Knee (OTK) boots? Well, I wasn’t either until I tried them.  

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No photographer? No problem! Here is how you can create content on your own for your blog or social media. No Instagram boyfriend needed.

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Livestream Shopping is showing up everywhere. It’s a fun way to share and monetize your style finds. I’m sharing my tips on how to start your own live. 

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The Shacket! Who knew that my brother’s flannel from the 90s would be trending. Here is why I am so into this item!  

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Powder blue is one of those colors we forget about. It’s not the usual winter palette. You will be hooked once you try this fresh shade. 

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The pencil skirt is a timeless item. However, it's easy to look old-fashioned with this skirt. Here are fresh ways to wear this classic. 

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Not all Little Black Dresses (LBD) are created equal. Some are just blah. I found one that I absolutely love! Here is what I look for when shopping …

A catsuit is not something I thought I could pull off! I was wrong and now it is one of my favorite items. Here is how to style it! 

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"You are so confident" is what I hear often. The assumption is that I shouldn't be confident. Here's how I gained my confidence with curves! 

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It is the perfect time to start a blog. It can take some time but it is so worth it. Here are the reasons to launch (or relaunch) your blog. 

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I'm so into Bodycon dresses right now. You may think that you can't pull this off. I didn't think I could either until I followed these tips. 

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Working out and going to the gym. We need physical activity but it is so hard to do it! I got some tips to go from hating to loving the gym. 

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Thriving through life's challenges and living fully takes intention and a bit of rebellion. Jeanelly Concepcion, from The Fashion Lotus, is doing …

Food can nourish us physically and mentally. Then, let's add some fashion and fitness. I got to have a conversation about the three Fs -Food, Fashion, and Fitness with Talicia Jackson from Foodie with a Fro. This is a …

Episode 100!!! I decided to create a morning routine that I love. Also, I have been able to keep it up. Here is what I did to sustain it. 

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Finding a swimsuit for Midsize and Curves is a task! Luckily, after procrastinating, I found some that I like! 

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Summer is the time to wear fun prints, styles, and colors! I rounded up my summer must haves to make the most of the warmer days.

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Although mental health awareness was in May, it is a topic that warrants attention every month! I got an opportunity to have a conversation on an Instagram Live regarding all things mental health with Jeanelly …

Brown doesn't need to stay in your closet until fall. You can wear it in the summer too. Here are some ways to wear brown.  

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Although creating a vintage look is fun, it can be expensive. I got some tips to create a Mad Men worthy look without breaking the bank. 

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One way to work smarter when it comes to creating is to repurpose content. Here are the ways I make the most of my blog content! 

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There are books that I always recommend. I did an Instagram Live to talk about my favorite reads. Here are the books that I have gained so much value from that are worth sharing! 

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I obsessed about being under a size 10 for years. I had clothes I was saving for when I was “smaller”. I got over that and embraced being midsize.

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If you're an influencer, you've heard of Brittany Hennessy, the author of Influencer: Building Your Personal Brand in the Age of Social Media. We chatted about influencing and why influencer isn't a bad word. Get a …

Trends come and go. Some work for me, some don't! At the same time, you never know what trend will work for you. I got three questions I ask myself before I jump on a trend. This is a Instagram Live video that I shot.   

If you've read a piece on plus size fashion, Gianluca Russo probably wrote it. Not only is he writing about the plus size community, Gianluca created a community, The Power of Plus. I got to chat with him about his …

Have you hesitated to wear a bathing suit? What about this one, have you struggled with embracing your body the way it is? I got to spend some time with Carly Anderson from Lip Gloss and Crayons to talk about self love …

It’s been a year since I started shopping at Fashion Nova. There are some items I keep buying. Here is a round up of my fave items! Before you roll …

It's been a year since the start of the pandemic. While we were all absorbing this news, Professor Rosalyn Kahn was gathering stories of inspiration to create a book, A Message for Tomorrow's Leaders.  I got to sit down …

There is nothing like an item that not only looks good but also FEELS amazing. I got some items for Spanx that do both. These items were gifted from Spanx. You know that all opinions are my own. 

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Flare jeans are back and I am so here for it! Here are some ways to style these jeans. Also what to look for when buying a pair. 

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A tulle skirt isn’t just for Carrie Bradshaw. You can wear one too. Here is how I style this whimsical skirt.  

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Some define self-care as a luxury that includes long bubble baths. Actually, self-care can be done in little moments throughout the day.  

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I would keep an eye out for a leather jacket to add to my closet every fall and winter. One that I will get a lot of use out of and will be easy to …

Loungewear is a balance between feeling comfortable and staying warm. Additionally, the pieces need to be affordable. Here are items to lounge around in and still feel put together! 

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Do you love the color yellow but don't know how to wear it with your skin tone? I got some ideas on how you can rock this vibrant color! 

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Difficult conversations, difficult people. Everyone deals with challenging interactions. Here are some tips to get through these situations. 

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I've been blogging since 2014 and it still brings me joy. I have some tips on how to create content consistently and still enjoy blogging! 

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Setting boundaries can be hard especially as an Introvert. We get into tips for Introverts (and everyone else) to set limits in relationships. 

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The holidays were already emotionally charged. Now add an unexpected event like a pandemic. Here are tips to thrive through the holidays in your own …

Deciding to pursue a graduate degree is a commitment.  I just finished earning my doctorate. I got some tips on how to thrive through it.  

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The election is almost here. I talked to Dr. Vanessa Tyson about the issues that impact women and everyone else. Listen in, this is a good one.  

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There's one color that been into more lately- Navy Blue! It is timeless, versatile, and can give black and run for its money. This is a quick episode …

What you put into counseling is what you will get out of it. There are a fews ways to maximize your therapy sessions.

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Blogging can you feel like you’re talking to no one. You want your posts to be meaningful to your readers. Here are tips to crafting posts your …

We're told to avoid negative thinking. Thinking about what can go wrong won't help. Actually, negative thinking can help achieve your goals. Yeah, I …

Women are told that "adulting" should look a certain way. We need to have kids to be of value. But, there are different ways to be an adult. In this …

There are so many different ways to wear Retro styles. I've found some styles that always make me feel dynamite.  I get into all things Retro in this episode! 

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Last spring was tough! Some things I did worked. Some didn’t. Here’s my back to school plan. 

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I’ve been keeping up blogging for awhile now. There are a few free tools I use to create while managing other responsibilities.  

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Introverts and Extroverts are familiar categories. But, these labels are often misunderstood.  We get into all of this and how being an Introvert can be a strength. 

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This episode topic isn't my area of expertise. I talk to Lissette, my sister and world traveler, about how she plans trips and about traveling as a BIPOC woman. Although we can't travel that much right now, we can …

I started blogging to have something just for me. A space to express myself. Now, four years later, my blog is more than that. I’m talking about why I’m still blogging and creating. And, how the process generates the …

Stress and trauma can significantly impact our lives. Dr.Regalena Melrose shares how trauma affects the brain and body as well as tools to live a …

Curly hair! If you have it you know that styling it is a whole thing. My sister, Lissette, and I have been wearing our hair curly exclusively for 20 …

My summer style has evolved over the years in some ways. I'm going back to some warm weather basics. And, trying a few items that I thought were …

It’s well known that there is a stigma attached to accessing mental health in the Black community. We can even say that this is true for the BIPOC community. One way to combat this is through increasing awareness. In …

Being an ally for LGBTQ+ Youth is something we need to talk about every month, not just in June. Although I've been a school psychologist for two …

Aging: We all have to deal with it and there is so much associated with it.  It's my birthday, so I thought this was the perfect time to reflect on the concept of aging. My sister and I had a conversation for Episode 56 …

Alright let’s talk about swimsuits. I feel like buying a swimsuit that fits is like a second cousin to the search for jeans. When the fit is on point you feel like a million bucks! When the fit is off you want to cover …

"What are you?" is a question that my sister and I have been asked multiple times. This usually occurs when the person hears our surname or when we …

I’ve made some changes on a personal level and on the blog since my last post! There’s so much to talk about. I’m going to share my take on how I shop for my shape online. Also, more importantly, I will discuss how I’m …

The gym is better when you like what you are wearing. I talk about the items I scooped up to make the gym more enjoyable. 

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Before you decide leather leggings won’t work for you, hang on. I say rethink how you style them and watch how fun they can be!  

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Polka dots are one of those prints that can be worn all year. It’s classic print that’s versatile too. Here are the polka dot dresses I’ve picked up …

A bodysuit is not what I usually wear. Let’s be honest. However, I just got a couple and I’m so glad I did! 

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Houndstooth is a bold print that can be intimidating. Instead, think of it as the perfect palette for a pop of color. I got two ways you can style a …

It’s closet clean out time. So it’s the perfect time to decide what to keep and what to let go. Here are the items that I have hung onto for years! And, I actually wear them. 

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Although it will be winter in a minute, I’m still going to wear color. Wearing color can instantly boost your mood. Plus, it’s just fun to rebel a …

A velvet blazer is one of those pieces that immediately reminds me of winter. Don’t let the fancy velvet fabric intimidate you. A velvet blazer, like …

Your mood can dictate not only how you feel but also what you wear. There’s a holiday event and you don’t feel like wearing a basic dress. I got you! …

The Don’t Mix In podcast is over a year old! It has been one of my favorite ways to create content. I get questions on how I started podcast. Spoiler …

Here’s the issue – I like the look of a pencil skirt. But, some don’t work. The fit needs to be right. So when I find one that works, I buy more than one!  

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There’s so much to talk about- why don’t do it all with joy! We get into from buying an item for curves on a budget to mental health. Everything we …

I go with bold prints every now and then. There are a few questions I ask myself when I’m considering a print that’s more adventurous than my usual …

Solid, high quality basics are the building blocks of your wardrobe. Am I right? In this episode, I’m talking about one basic, the button up shirt.  

There are styles that I am continually drawn to and buy repeatedly. One of those styles is a tie neck top! Hear more about why I buy tie neck tops and dresses pretty much every year.  

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Even though thrifting takes time, there are ways to make sure your trip is efficient as possible. It’s been a about a year since I got into thrifting. I’ve learned a few things during that time!  

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Summer is winding down and a ton of items are on sale. It’s so tempting to want to buy the trendiest summer items. But, the problem is that you may not want to wear those items after this season. Here are the items I …

Episode 35: How to Wear More Color Once you start to wear more color, it's hard to go back. However, it is a balancing act. There are few ways to …

I am all about items that can be worn in different ways. Finding items that match your lifestyle, right? A tank top dress is one of those items. Listen in as I get into how come I like this dress along with some style …

A few years back, I had a green dress that I absolutely loved! It was a Kelly Green color just like this top and dress. I don't own a lot of items in …

Summer means all kinds of cute bags, am I right? One item I am into lately are purses. I am loving how a rattan bag can elevate an outfit. 

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Workwear for Summer can be tricky. It’s super hot but you can’t show up to work in shorts & flip flops (really, you shouldn’t!!). So, I rounded …

When it comes to styles of dresses, wrap style is the one I wear the most. In fact, it’s the style that I feature most frequently on the blog. This episode gets into the wrap style dress and how to wear it.  

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Shorts can be a bit tricky. I found a couple that I really like. So, I’m sharing my tips on what to look for when buying a pair.  

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A Denim Jacket is a closet essential in my book. There are so many different ways to wear this wardrobe staple! In this episode, I got some help from some of my fave bloggers to show you how you can wear your Denim …

Jumpsuits are showing up everywhere as summer fast approaches. They can be an easy and fun alternative to a dress. However, finding the right one for curves can be a challenge. So, I rounded up some tips for you! In …

If you know me or have been following me you know that I shop at Target quite a bit! Most of my outfits are from there. So, I rounded up some of my …

Although I have been using eSalon hair color for some time, I just recently went to their Color Studio for the first time! Here is a review of my …

It is officially dress season (my favorite season!!). This is also when we attend outdoor parties, graduations, or showers. That means that you need to have a dress ready to go. I found one, this maxi dress. In this …

Every year, I pick up a couple of gingham pieces. I love the classic feel of gingham. It’s a print that reminds me of Spring and Summer. In this episode, I talk about a couple of gingham styles you need.  

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Spring is here but it doesn't feel like it, right? The weather is a bit unpredictable so you can't put away all of your winter items just yet. Here are some ideas for this in-the-meantime in-between-time! Alright, so, …

My FAVORITE FINDS Spring Edition just came out. Think color & dresses all on a BUDGET! It’s my newsletter for you with links to my fave items …

Once you find a thrifted piece you love, then you need to be able to style your item.  Now, buying a thrifting item is one thing. Styling that item with what you own is another. The key is to not look like you are …

Besides, comfort, versatility is one of the main things that I look for in an item. Wear it over and over again. Although I love red, blue is a color …

One trend that I have been so into is white boots. There are so many ways to wear a pair. Get ready to be inspired! 

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One color combination that I wear quite a bit is black and white. Although I love to wear color, I am constantly drawn to black and white. This color …

One style that I always go back to are A-Line skirts. I love this skirt style for a variety of reasons. It can be worn year-round by just changing up how you style it. 

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Floral prints are usually just for Spring. Although we got a few weeks until Spring, there are ways to wear floral prints in the Winter. With just a few tweaks, you can wear these prints now.  

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I talk a lot about the items I get that are on a budget. However, before I can shop, I need money to actually have a budget, right?  In this episode, I am going get into my experience and how I make money by selling on …

Animal Print is always such a fun print! However, not all animal prints are created equal. So, for this episode, I rounded up some of my tips for finding the right pieces with this print. Then, I talk about styling …

I’m so into turtlenecks lately. It’s been my favorite basic this month! I used to think that I couldn’t wear turtlenecks because I was “too big”. …

I love the holiday season but not the pressure that comes along with it! So, I rounded up my tips (you know that I like tips) to avoid stress during …

Episode 11: Holiday Style on a Budget The holidays are that one time a year that I feel that I can play dress up. Here is the problem, I love the …

Although I like the idea of layering, it can add volume to my outfit. Volume belongs in our hair, not our outfit, right? Anyway, I wanted to share my …

Do you ever have something that you are so into that’s in your closet? I am starting a new series of episodes, what’s “trending in my closet”. It’s not about trends dictating what I wear. Instead, it is what I’m into …

I had a problem every Fall. I would get swept up in the fall fashion hype and buy some things I wasn’t going to wear all that much. Hear about what I …

Shopping for my size used to be so frustrating. I would fixate on the size on the tag instead of fit. I would buy and hope that I would fit into an …

Before I started blogging, I used to shy away from wearing red. I thought it was too bold, too much, too loud for curves. In this episode of Don’t …

Finding the right blazer can be a challenge when you have curves! In this episode of Don’t Mix In, I'm sharing my Three Tips for Finding the Right Blazer.  

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Trying to squeeze blogging into your busy life can be a challenge. Especially if you have other goals you want to achieve. In this episode of Don’t Mix In, I'm sharing my tips on making time to blog or create. This is …

I've been blogging for a few years and have loved this little journey! So I figured I should write a post about it. Blogging has taught me about …

It's been awhile since I did any thrifting! High school to be exact. Hear what happened when I tried it as an adult (with curves). Also, I got some …

Join me as I talk about how to avoid buying items you won’t wear.  

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