Closeness

In this unprecedented interview read by the podcast host, a Closeness Client shares her struggles with intimacy and grapples with her desires for dominance and assertiveness in relationship. A two part interview with a …

Without a doubt, one of the number one reasons people struggle in long term, committed relationships, is because they feel like best friends or roommates at home. There's no passion or excitement! Nothing is moving …

Often the things we aren't doing in bed can be as detrimental as the ones we are. Here are ten reasons why your wife or girlfriend doesn't want to have sex with you.

An unusually intelligent and intellectual college student explores her boundaries of sexuality, and intimate desires. How men and women at the …

Chapters:

0:00 Intro

4:45 Speak up for yourself

12:00 Speaking unconsciously for obnoxious lengths of time

20:26 Making her come well and relax often triggers women to talk

22:24 …

The most difficult subject for any man to think about much less discuss is likely to be: keeping it up, getting it up and finishing too quickly. This …

CHAPTERS

0:00 Introductions

3:29 How exactly does a man learn to be dominant

8:06 What does healthy dominance mean?

14:30 When a woman …

CHAPTERS

0:00 Introduction and can you have it all? Recitals and disclaimers

2:44 In a nutshell

4:20 What does it mean to have it all?

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Chapters:

Avoid these thirty expressions to have a better life

One of the biggest questions of our time as it pertains to intimacy is whether or not a man should always "finish" when having sex. This episodes …

Please listen to this episode with your partner. Sexually inexperienced men do not get a lot of attention. Because this subject is so sensitive, there isn't much real world instruction around it either. In fact most men …

One of the most difficult things someone can hear, is that their partner needs space. Nothing is clear, the terms are undefined, and once uttered it …

1:45 Actions speak louder than words

5:55 What do you actually owe the other person?

8:24 Do unto others as you would have them do unto you

One of the biggest challenges of being alive today, is handling, processing, surviving and getting through a breakup. In this 90 minute episode I am going to help you get through it.

CHAPTERS 0:00

Intro 2:45

Breakups are extremely painful and can often take months and years to heal from. But there are always warning signs and things we often ignore. In …

It's one of the most detrimental behavior patterns of our generation. Here's everything you need to know to recognize it, avoid it and if you are afflicted with this disease, how to cure it. CHAPTERS: 0:00 What is …

What’s your definition of hot passionate chemistry? Do you believe that it’s just “there or it isn’t?” In this episode we will put that myth to an end. 

We’ll explore over twenty concepts including: 

- How to have …

Chapters:

0:00 Intro

1:16 Is she asking for it? 

8:04 Men don't really like to be teased the way women do

8:43 You should always be able to say no 

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In this unprecedented time of worry and concern regarding COVID-19 (or coronavirus), this is our corona-free offering to soothe you and help you relax: a sensual meditation to listen to again and again, anytime you need …

Countless Closeness episodes focus on how to pleasure a woman, but what can you do to take care of your man? Put down your magazine and let's get deep. Sure, we can talk about how to go down and how to arch your back, …

Learning to kiss our partner in a way that really turns them on is not innate. Like most things we do for the first time, we're sloppy and we don't take the time to learn good technique. Yes even kissing has a technique …

Welcome to 2020 and welcome to Season Two of the Closeness Podcast! To start the New Year off with a bang we're diving in with a sexually-explicit episode that covers fifteen steps to giving a woman a phenomenal …

Exposing your sexual health and history to someone new is very vulnerable. Getting tested, asking a partner about their past and sharing your …

Growing up you may have heard of the sexual response cycle: excitement, plateau, orgasm and resolution.  We'd like to introduce you to something a …

How many times have you changed your mind? Perhaps you didn't desire someone at first and you later found yourself wanting them. You said you were attracted to them, you acted like you were attracted and then suddenly …

Rejection leaves most people feeling unworthy and hurt. Both men and women are generally terrible at receiving it and even worse at giving it. But rejection is a necessary step towards establishing or maintaining …

One of the best parts of listening to Closeness is learning how to have great sex! After so much great feedback from previous sensual meditations, we'd like to offer you another. When men listen to this episode, they …

This much-anticipated, 90-minute conclusion to our 3 part series holds nothing back. We'll share articles, statistics, personal references and even …

In this three part series, we explore over 25 more points regarding who should pay, including:

- What happens when the woman makes significantly more …

In this incredible three part series, host Tari shares his thought-provoking stance on who should pay and why. He draws on countless personal …

When we learn how to share closeness with someone else, it often deals with the things we should avoid doing. We'll give some examples of this before …

Open any self-help book to discover the phrase, “communication is the key.” But do we in fact know how to communicate? Are we shy? Do we say what we …

We all have the capacity to make things work, but are long distance relationships really worth it? If you’ve been in one yourself or are in one now, …

Hot sex and great intimacy is not just for young people. In this episode we cover a lot of territory such as:

- Stigmas and judgements about homosexuality and whether it's easier for a woman to be openly bisexual in …

What does it mean to be demisexual and how does this affect online dating? What does it take for someone like Sarah to get aroused? This is a very …

For many, traveling is one of our favorite ways to experience life, culture and romance. In this episode, we interview freshly-turned twenty-one, …

By default you are probably thinking, yes of course! However, is that what’s really going on when sexual attraction is involved? This podcast takes a …

In this riveting climax to the 3-part series of Deadly Sins of Online Dating, we'll give you the final thirteen sins and teach you how to avoid them at all costs. In this episode:

- Using general or filler words to make …

Our next installment of deadly sins of online dating include:

- Looking approximately 40% worse in person than your worst profile photo 

- Speaking only of what you “don’t do and won’t do” and being utterly disagreeable 

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Online dating is a bit like the wild, wild, West. For some, it’s like a dirty little secret we don’t discuss with anyone but our closest of …

Being close with another starts with caring for yourself and knowing how to stay in alignment. In this episode we discover the power of your own presence. This alone can dramatically improve your life. Then we'll look …

Introducing two incredible offerings packed into one little episode. First, learn how to go on a rampage of appreciation to immediately feel more positive emotions.

Next, get your first taste of our signature Sensual …

In this action-packed episode, we’ll discuss more than twelve mistakes you want to avoid when communicating with others. Here's just a taste of what we'll cover:

- Hyper-exaggeration

- Erroneously flinging around heavy …

This episode is part of an interesting new series on recognizing bad manners and poor behavior, as well as learning what to do about it. Regardless of your gender, it's worth listening to! Most of us know when someone …

Have you thought about where you can go to get help for intimacy and relationship issues? Hopefully after listening to the Closeness podcast you know …

As many people have discovered for ages, leading and following in dance can directly translate to how you healthily navigate your relationships. In …

Have you ever wondered why women don't try again after initiating or approaching only once? We'll explain how severely women internalize rejection and what both partners can do about it. We'll then break down how to …

Do you have a sense of how much sex you want in a given day, week or month? Do you refuse to quanitfy it? What are your thoughts on who should …

We are as passionate about our hobbies and physical activities as we are about our intimate relationships. For some, this borders on obsession. For others, it is as important as religious beliefs and whether or not to …

To get anywhere with our partner intimately, we must first accept that neither men nor women are mind readers. We can be intuitive and sensitive, but it's destined to fail when we expect someone to “just know” what …

Deep listening means learning to read your partner so you don't have to ask so many questions. Tuning into her with your whole being so you can give …

There’s no greater gift than when a woman has chosen you and is all-in! You can see it in the way her eyes sparkle and in her actions. She wants you and only you, and it feels fantastic! But how do you make sure it …

One of the most difficult and excruciating parts of relationships are breakups and the events leading up to them. Sometimes though, they can be …

One of the most difficult and excruciating parts of relationships are breakups and the events leading up to them. Sometimes though, they can be …

Experiencing sex, closeness or intimacy with another person starts with feeling great about yourself. Our eating habits, at least partially, dictate how we look and feel. In today's episode we'll explore:

- What an …

Oh the things we put into our mouths. Our culture insists that the only way to health is through what we eat. We might argue that our thoughts, self …

Everything you want to know about an in-person sex, intimacy and relationship coaching session. An in depth look at what makes Closeness famous for …

Self love and "touching yourself" is an interesting concept. Observe how you feel when you simply read the question: "Do you touch yourself?" or "Do …

Helping a woman spill over into orgasm is a very exciting experience.  We're big fans of the whole process. But getting her there is not always about …

Fewer things are more exciting to a man than a fully aroused woman. But how to get her to this place? Hint: this is the episode that excites women …

Is it safe to talk to strangers? Have you ever been on a date and said, "You don't know me, you don't know anything about me!" or "You're a stranger!"
Language shapes our view of the world and it dramatically effects how …

The feeling of unrequited love is a difficult and painful subject for everyone. Somehow though, we rarely consider the impact of how the other person …

When you're on a date, are you guilty of telling others you don't want them to waste your time? It's a nasty, demoralizing expression that implies anyone who isn't interesting to you, or who isn't going to give you …

Have you ever been accused of playing games or not being up front? Most of us struggle with three simple words: I'm not interested. This one sentence alone can save you so much time and heartache.

If we're being honest, …

Do you tell people how busy you are all the time? Is your response to people asking you out phrases such as, "can't," "busy,” "it's a really busy …

As soon as you have sex with someone new, a pattern begins and expectations from the other person set in.  But the moments leading up to having sex with someone new can be so special and memorable. Your thoughts and …

You've shared some amazing time together and now you’re ready to take things to the bedroom. Yes, logistically we all technically know "how" to have sex insofar as where things go, but do you know how to navigate the …

The Closeness podcast teaches us how to be intimate, romantic and sexual in the healthiest way possible. Delivering sensual content with class, we unravel real questions about dating, sex, relationships and intimacy. …