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A Gay and A NonGay

316 EpisodesProduced by James Barr and Dan HudsonWebsite

In a time where we're all threatened by a rhetoric of hate from the people in power; A Gay And A NonGay challenges our differences. No matter who you are, or what you're into, gay's and nongay's can & should be friends.'Highly Recommended' Guardian'One of the most fundamentally kind and funny podcas… read more

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Introducing A Gay and A NonGay

October 12th, 2015

0:29

Imagine being gay and having to hang out with your girlfriends straight boyfriend. This is the hilarious tale of two unlikely friends forming new friendships, challenging our preconceptions of each other and crossing …

Hello

October 12th, 2015

10:02

The very first episode of A Gay & A NonGay.


James & Dan's mutual friend, Dan's girlfriend has gone away for a month and left them both at a …

Lads

October 19th, 2015

8:23

James questions Dan's hatred of being tagged a lad, and Dan learns what 'On Fleek' means.


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James2

November 2nd, 2015

7:08

James is affronted when he finds out that he is referred to as 'James 2' in Dan's life.


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Showers

November 10th, 2015

8:40

James finally puts Dan in his phone but then learns something gross about his hygiene.


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Chickens

November 17th, 2015

12:28

One word... Chickens.


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Rude Questions

December 2nd, 2015

11:51

James gets asked an awkward question and then puts Dan on the spot. Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed

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The Christmas 'Special'

December 22nd, 2015

17:01

Dan and James get together for one last time in 2015 to talk weddings, beer and Christmas. It's a Christmas Special y'all! Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed

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Professional

February 8th, 2016

9:35

AGAANG is back and James and Dan have decided to 'go professional' while discussing their love for Oasis and The Corrs. Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed

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Valentines

February 12th, 2016

14:10

It's Valentines - James is three months clean of tinder and introduces Dan to new the new dating app 'Bro'. Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed

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Birthday

February 29th, 2016

12:58

James forgets Dan’s birthday, we discuss open relationships, sausages and if your mum jokes are funny when you’re an adult. Get bonus content on …

Kebabs

March 20th, 2016

8:56

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GAY QUESTIONS GAY ANSWERS

March 30th, 2016

19:40

James is mad about not being offered coffee, and we're talking about 'cleaning up' at other people's houses

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Manscaping

April 19th, 2016

14:09

Dan & James dive into bush trimming and chat about all the men Dan's been having round Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed

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THRUPPLE

April 28th, 2016

24:52

Dan is 'quite' emotional after a run. James is back from hanging out with star of Ru Paul's Drag Race ALASKA in NYC and there's THRUPPLE problems.

WEDDING

May 9th, 2016

15:38

Dan insists on further douche talk, James goes off on one about wedding lists and we discuss DIVORCE! Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed

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The Story So Far

August 16th, 2016

24:03

James brings us an emo look back at his and Dan's special friendship so far. A Gay and A NonGay returns soon.

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GOLDEN

September 11th, 2016

21:10

Dan and James are back and they've become such good friends they've been on holiday together. Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive …

HOUSEMATES

September 27th, 2016

24:05

Dan and James talk housemates asking weird questions and deciding who to let in through the front door. Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed

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Bromosexuality

November 1st, 2016

28:29

James and Dan discover they're part of a new friendship trend. #RIPCrabs Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed

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SPRINGSTEEN IS DADDY!

December 9th, 2016

24:28

Nongay Dan decides if he's a top or bottom whilst James' intolerably single life goes from bad to worse ... also are dicks nice to look at? Get bonus …

An Investigation

January 31st, 2017

10:43

James launches a special investigation into an invasion of his privacy. There's one suspect, you guessed it, Dan. Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed

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First Date

February 14th, 2017

13:14

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Victorian Porn

March 14th, 2017

19:42

Has James had sex with a woman? Has Dan kissed a man? Plus uninsured pizza parties... Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed

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The 1.7 Percent

April 5th, 2017

15:07

What does James do on a train when nobody's looking? And will he move to Paris? Plus the boys are accidentally going on holiday to New York together, …

Baghdad

April 13th, 2017

12:46

What's more of a struggle? The LGBTQ+ movement or liking alternative music? Plus we're nominated for an award, and we've already rehearsed our speech. Yay! Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed

Colin

April 19th, 2017

13:50

A comprehensive BREAKDOWN of James' love life - or why giving 6/10 is not okay. Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed

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COLIN STRIKES BACK

April 26th, 2017

16:05
It's the podcast equivalent of a F.U.R.B answer back song - A Gay & A Non Gay with special guest star - COLIN.



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POWER SNEEZE

May 3rd, 2017

11:01

Dan introduces James to the bizarre concept of 'power sneezing', and James discusses the issues surrounding airport douching. Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed

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JAMES 3

May 10th, 2017

10:43
It's time for another meltdown - James fills us in on a mysterious guy from the gym... also called James.

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SLUT

May 17th, 2017

17:50

James is desperate to know if Dan thinks he's a 'slut' - but what does that actually mean? Plus the boys discuss the concept of 'expiry dating' and if James will be single forever. Get bonus content on Patreon, with our …

BEARS

May 24th, 2017

22:06

Does Dan know what a dark room is? Does James know what a clitoris is? The answer to both these questions is of course no. Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed

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Nongay problems

May 31st, 2017

8:38
It's time for Dan to let rip. He's a minority too guys, and he won't let James forget it. \ m /
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Bath Maths

June 7th, 2017

14:09
... that moment you decide to triple check that your nongay friend is definitely 100% nongay! Can James' accountant friend break Dan's unwavering commitment to a heteronormative life style?
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Between Stags

June 14th, 2017

8:44
Dan is taking James out of his comfort zone, but first he's got a couple of stags to go to.
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Bumming

June 21st, 2017

7:52
Bumming? A word you can use in 2017 or not?
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Jellyfish 🐟

June 28th, 2017

13:24
Is Dan more or less 'homophobic' since hanging out with James? After a recent interview things are getting heated, and wet - bring a poncho. 
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Pride

July 5th, 2017

10:01
Thanks for Pride Month, USA... now it's our turn! London Pride is this weekend, but is Dan invited?
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Lust for Love

July 12th, 2017

11:06

James has a revelation about his approach to dating, and someone steals Dan’s toothbrush. A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com

Taxi for Paul

July 19th, 2017

9:57
Plans for the next live show are afoot so to help James goes deep on the internet to discover Dan's past. A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email

Pride Bandwagons

July 26th, 2017

13:55

It's a No Meltdown special as we explore James' new lovebite as well as review how London Pride made us feel.

 

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Garden

August 2nd, 2017

12:32

Have you heard? Dan has a garden.


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Best Bits

August 9th, 2017

24:44

We're on our holidays but in case you're new to the podcast, here's our best bits from the last year. Thanks for being a friend, we love you!


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Wikipedia

August 16th, 2017

8:28

We're back! And someone has been tampering with James' wikipedia page.


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Breakup

August 22nd, 2017

13:07

James breaks up with the most important person in his life while Dan has trouble connecting with his emotions (but in a shock twist, not his bum.)


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Pastry Man

August 30th, 2017

9:53

Today's lesson - don't ever offer Dan Hudson free food and then not give it him.


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Cake

September 6th, 2017

15:39

Gross Alert! We had to rename this episode from the original title James gave it. Let's just say Barr discusses lots to do with his online video …

Palm Springs

September 13th, 2017

15:21

This episode is 'clothing optional'. James is back from L.A with a lot of tea to spill. The boys chat strip clubs, open relationships and why Dan takes so long to reply. Plus, how do you prepare for nongay sex?


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Slagtag

September 20th, 2017

7:05

How long do you have to hang around flirting with a guy after you realise he's straight? Plus Dan's giving up his favourite word for October.


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LIVE @ London Podcast Festival

September 27th, 2017

43:08

Yay! It’s A Gay & A NonGay LIVE at the London Podcast Festival. We’ve had so many lovely tweets asking for longer episodes so we hope this satisfies your THIRST.


James chats coming out, Dan finally reunites with his …

Nudes

October 4th, 2017

23:59

James reveals all about his relationship with 'Dan 3' and is already thinking about the wedding. Meanwhile the boys discuss unsolicited dick pics, …

On Religion

October 11th, 2017

20:30

James tackles our first complaint while getting a masterclass in the branches of religion from Dan. 


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Bowie

October 18th, 2017

10:40

Plans are afoot for the next live show, but there's just one problem - James can't pronounce 'David Bowie'


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#metoo

October 25th, 2017

14:44

#metoo


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Bring Your Own...

November 1st, 2017

18:24

James has a BOYFRIEND... but his BF has a 'thing' for Dan?? Meanwhile Dan wants to invite James to an exciting new cookery class but it's bring your own WHAT?!


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Relationship Update

November 8th, 2017

13:51

Oh dear. James has a relationship update

Don't call it a 'meltdown'


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James 3, Part 2

November 15th, 2017

9:02

James is back obsessing about a certain other James... and don't you dare phone Dan unless it's an emergency.


Plus... AUSTRALIA, we love you and are so happy about marriage equality!!!


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Rebound

November 22nd, 2017

10:14

Dan's in a mood and James is on the rebound.


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Irish Goodbyes

November 29th, 2017

11:05

Turns out when you put things on the internet, people can hear them, as James found out this week from his ex.


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Cuddles

December 6th, 2017

10:36

James thought it might be funny to do a 'would you rather' but, finds out from Dan that it's not.


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Insecure

December 13th, 2017

10:59

Dan is insecure. Or is he very secure? Discuss.


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Wonderful Christmastime

December 20th, 2017

14:41

How difficult is it being gay at Christmas? Is it James’ new year resolution to find a boyfriend? Plus we invite Santa into the studio for his first …

A Teeny Weeny Little New Year Thank You

December 27th, 2017

4:37

We just wanted to say thanks 💕


See you in 2018 for more meltdowns, wokeness, live shows and the return of James 3

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That Boy is a Bottom

January 3rd, 2018

17:25

James tests Dan on our sassy new jingles which leads to more BOTTOM ADMIN chat. Plus our listener Jacobi's sent us a special cookery book... New Year New Eww! Soz.


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James 3, The Finale

January 10th, 2018

13:24

James comes face to face with his gym crush.


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School

January 17th, 2018

15:17

Dan wants to ‘smash James’s poppadoms’ with his masculinity and James drags up some of Dan’s old social posts to see if he’s worthy of their …

PREPisode

January 23rd, 2018

18:20

James & Dan chat safe sex . What is PREP? Can it protect you from HIV and does it make you... erm, fart?


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Fifty Shades Of Narcissism

January 31st, 2018

9:37

Dan thinks he looks like the HOTTEST MAN IN HOLLYWOOD. James does not agree.


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Orgy

February 7th, 2018

13:43

Do nongays have as many orgies as gays? James is back on the dating apps and shows Dan how Grindr works. Plus the results from James' survey are in - …

Mummy and Daddy

February 14th, 2018

16:12

Happy Valentines Day - a day when James wants to call Dan 'Daddy.' Plus A Gay & A NonGay brings you an unexpected biology lesson about cows. Soz.


D before Date?

February 21st, 2018

13:35

Dan has a novel take on what 'bumble' might be for and James suggests a new approach to dating, inspired by Love, Actually.


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You Mug!

February 28th, 2018

16:05

The UK's LGBTQ+ homelessness crisis is top of mind after James hosts Student Pride and Dan's asked our voiceover lady to record some special 'NonGay' …

Lowkey Offended

March 7th, 2018

14:17

A Gay and A Non Hat Wearer. ICYMI the boys reveal their sexuality. Why does James feel different after 2 months of taking PrEP? And Natalie Imbruglia has some surprising subliminal messaging in her songs.  


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Top and Tail

March 14th, 2018

12:30

Dan and James plan their night sharing a bed together, while James is jealous that Dan's more popular on instagram than him.


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Ugly Cry 🎡

March 21st, 2018

12:14

James & Dan both break their promises for lent. Yep. It’s sp*** and meltdowns all in one place after James is triggered by the incredible new movie Love Simon. And we're getting ready for next weeks special episode, …

A Gay, A NonGay & A Trans with Juno Dawson

March 28th, 2018

1:11:06

"Transphobia is the forest fire that needs urgent attention “


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Bi Now, Bi Later

April 4th, 2018

17:43

We’re chatting bisexuality, James has his first Patreon Boyfriend plus Dan’s explanation of inverted hatred in the metal community is alarmingly familiar


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Korn or Porn

April 11th, 2018

12:52

Dan has prepared a special ROCK game for James to 'enjoy.' James makes a phone call and gets an unexpected answer.


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Slow Cooker

April 18th, 2018

15:50

Say what, we've been nominated for Best Comedy Podcast at The British Podcast Awards. Yay! James is "shook" and Dan has a problem with it. Plus the boys discuss Dan's new toy. Spoiler alert: it's a slow cooker. 


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🐓 Blocker

April 25th, 2018

13:14

It's finally time for James to apologise to Dan after he receives some listener feedback. Plus has Dan been deliberately 'cockblocking' James?


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Gay Bar

May 2nd, 2018

16:04

Dan finds himself uncomfortable on a night out, while James stresses about becoming a home owner.


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Berlin

May 9th, 2018

13:42

Everyone gets a bit giddy when a trip to Berlin is mentioned. The least morning commute appropriate episode ever.


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Meringue

May 16th, 2018

15:50

James wants to talk about gay dads leading Dan to somehow accidentally volunteer to become a co-parent with James.

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Officially Funny - our British Podcast Award winning entry

May 19th, 2018

19:02

We just won the Bronze Award for BEST COMEDY at the British Podcast Awards and consider us weeping and screaming all at once! Bottoms, Santa, Avril and Bumming - we thought you might like to hear what makes us award …

The Bum Sex Files

May 23rd, 2018

16:37

James has had 'hot sex with a hot guy' and wants to tell Dan all about it. Meanwhile, Dan has questions regarding a recent Amazon purchase.


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Shorts

May 30th, 2018

11:57

Dan's love of shorts comes back to bite him (IN THE BUM)


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Thirsty

June 6th, 2018

12:10

James & Dan go to a festival, but James is too thirsty for all this NonGay chatter.


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Section 28 🤢

June 13th, 2018

18:11

We forgot to wish Section 28 a happy birthday, oops! And why is everyone going on about Russia? Ugh.


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Pronouns

June 20th, 2018

18:12

James and Dan explore whether to talk about pronouns in daily life, and Dan is inspired by the fab five to dish out some advice.

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Russia

June 27th, 2018

19:02

Would your family and friends be proud of you being LGBTQ+, even if it put themselves in danger? Should a gay person lie about their sexuality if …

BREEDER

July 4th, 2018

15:03

Dan has 'the gist' of Pride, and James needs to remember this weekend is not all about husband hunting. Plus a case of vocabulary when the nongay …

Save Dan

July 11th, 2018

18:20

Is James 'hysterical'? Is Dan being bullied? #SaveDan. Plus James is done with f*ckboys and Dan's had a tweet about ice cubes.


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Mincing

July 18th, 2018

16:53

Dan's back from celebrating his first ever Pride in Seattle! The boys discuss the anti-trans protesters at #PrideInLondon, and "what kind of fresh hell, is a lad?". 


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Freaky Friday

July 25th, 2018

19:49

Dan has “finished The Velvet Rage” and is now the expert on gay men.


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Birds

August 1st, 2018

18:09

Dan wants water, and knows an alarming amount about birds. Say hey to him if you see him at Brighton Pride this weekend, but James won't be there. Plus an announcement about our forthcoming 100th episode!


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Taxi 4 James

August 8th, 2018

14:29

Nothing makes James laugh harder than Dan's teenage band, and Dan has finally caught up with Queer Eye.


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Number 10

August 15th, 2018

22:06

We discuss James' recent DJ set at... 10 Downing Street. What should you do when politicians with questionable histories invite you round for tea? …

Gay for Pay

August 22nd, 2018

19:24

It’s official. Dan is ‘gay for pay’. Plus the boys are back from sell out shows at the Edinburgh Fringe festival where they discussed NonGay Jack Whitehall getting cast as Disney’s first openly gay character. Featuring …

Gay on the Train

August 29th, 2018

17:17

Dan gets chatted up on the train and won't stop bringing up YMCA while James can't stop laughing at Dan's recent foray into the world of lip-sync.


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Banana 🍌

September 5th, 2018

8:12

It's a short one this week as Dan and James get ready for their celebratory 100th episode!


Rule No. 1: Don't sexualise a banana 🍌


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100

September 13th, 2018

40:06

It's episode 100 of A Gay & A Nongay! Can you believe? It's a long way from 'Hello' and NonHat wearers.


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Come Together

September 19th, 2018

16:37

Happy 101st! It's business as usual as James propositions Dan for some male bonding. 


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Pride & Prejudice

September 26th, 2018

28:15

It's the end of Pride season in the UK and James has some upsetting thoughts. Plus Dan has a beard - does he need to keep it oiled?


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Bert & Ernie

October 3rd, 2018

12:40

Dan reviews his queen of rock Avril Lavigne's new single at HIGH VOLUME, and there's a startling realisation about Dan & James similarity to Bert & Ernie.


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Paula

October 10th, 2018

13:38

It's getting cold but Dan is here with 10 fantastic reasons why you should wear shorts all year round, plus memories of the Solihull Library and Arts …

First Boyfriend

October 17th, 2018

23:00

James tells Dan about his first boyfriend and everything takes a turn for a conversation we thought was confined to Gay & NonGay fanfic.


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Exclusive

October 24th, 2018

14:06

Trigger warning : this episode contains discussion of depression and suicide.


James is having a difficult time and Dan knows a weird amount of Meat …

👻 Ghosting 👻

October 31st, 2018

21:29

James wants you to know he is ok and discusses the stigma surrounding anti-depressants. We also talk ghosting, because it's Halloween and we love a tenuous link. How long can you be 'mugged off' before you've been …

PC 4 PC

November 7th, 2018

21:54

We dive deep on the perils of Instagram and find that Dan doesn't even recognise his own humble brags. #Blessed

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Isolation

November 14th, 2018

24:22

James shares some upsetting but unsurprising news from Stonewall on LGBT mental health in the UK but Dan’s friend seems a bit bored of us discussing James’ depression on the pod. There's also some admin and both A Gay …

Deep Feelings

November 21st, 2018

16:48

How easy is it keeping your friends if you talk about them on your podcast, never mind any new love interest? TLDR - James is no longer dating.


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Wrestling

November 28th, 2018

26:23

It's a tale of two nights out involving semi-clothed men when James & Dan have both have a very triggering experience in each other’s worlds. Is …

World Aids Day 2018

December 1st, 2018

31:06

A special episode for us to talk about how we feel about AIDS and HIV. December 1 marks the 30th anniversary of World AIDS Day. Launched in 1988, the annual observance highlights worldwide efforts to combat HIV/AIDS and …

World Aids Day

December 1st, 2018

31:09

A special episode for us to talk about how we feel about AIDS and HIV. December 1 marks the 30th anniversary of World AIDS Day. Launched in 1988, the annual observance highlights worldwide efforts to combat HIV/AIDS and …

STI

December 5th, 2018

15:08

Back together after the #RedRun, Dan shares his top tips on how to get over someone and is all this 'depression stuff' James talks about just …

Fairytale of New York

December 12th, 2018

18:29

You scumbag you maggot you cheap lousy f*****... is Fairytale of New York homophobic? Are radio and TV stations that play it uncensored in twenty-Gay-teen, implicitly homophobic? James & Dan have a new version, and …

Santa

December 19th, 2018

12:14

Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays from A Gay & A NonGay where we're delighted to welcome Santa back down our chimney to spill the tea on his …

Best of 2018

December 27th, 2018

41:46

Dan’s had enough of James’ ‘meltdowns’ for one year, so he’s complied a Best Of full of his fave 2018 moments! Expect admin, your mum jokes and some …

TwentyBiTeen

January 2nd, 2019

15:55

#20GAYTEEN is over! Happy 20-bi-teen!


This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship.


Mug someone off for New …

Dan's Pants

January 9th, 2019

21:50

Dan's world is thrown into confusion when a new moneymaking opportunity presents itself and James is cute to Dan. Swoon.


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Tales from Miami

January 16th, 2019

14:27

James is back from a holiday to Miami with some new vocabulary, a new use for twitter and shocks Dan with an upsetting story.


For support and …

Fabulous

January 23rd, 2019

12:10

Fabulous means Fabulous and James uses the podcast as a sensible (!) way to communicate with someone romantic.


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Erased

January 30th, 2019

30:09

James & Dan have a huge announcement, and with Boy Erased opening in cinemas in the UK soon the boys discuss gay conversion therapy with star and director Joel Edgerton.


We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th …

NonGay Night Out

February 6th, 2019

17:02

Dan has a big night out with his friends, and it's the most NonGay thing you've ever heard... or is it?


We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at 

Timothée Champagne

February 13th, 2019

11:16

James has done the maths on how many guys he's slept with and so has his mum! Dan has no idea who Timothée Chalamet is and Talia needs to press 15s repeatedly.


We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly …

A Technicality

February 20th, 2019

15:20

Dan and James talk about Manchester Pride's decision to add black and brown to the rainbow flag. And what does "technically single" mean?


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Destroyers

February 27th, 2019

11:04

Dan’s fed up of people asking him questions and James introduces Dan to gay twitter’s most iconic new meme - the Cock Destroyers.


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Exclusively Gay

March 6th, 2019

15:06

How NonGay is Dan? James puts him through a vigorous Kinsey Scale test - plus we remember Queer As Folk and the boys discuss the UK Government’s new …

0121

March 13th, 2019

16:43

What do Dan and James think of couples who call their partner "This One" on social media? We've a huge announcement about our BBC Radio 1 team up …

Kebab Awards

March 19th, 2019

11:39

There's a lot of confusion around room odorisers and Dan has finally convinced James to go to the British Kebab Awards! And a brand new NonGay Eye as Callum asks Dan's advice on how to come out.


For more advice on coming …

Eau d'amour

March 27th, 2019

12:57

Dan's discovered a new perfume that he thinks James might be into... 


Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx


We hope you join …

Burnout

April 3rd, 2019

11:36

Dan and James feel like they're suffering from burnout but for different reasons.



Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx


We …

Dorchester

April 10th, 2019

19:09

We catch up on the horrific change in law against LGBTQ+ people in Brunei and the subsequent protests going on at The Dorchester in London.


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Consent

April 17th, 2019

16:16

Dan's got a pitch for our big live show at Underbelly Festival... get ready for 'Play Your Gays Right'! Plus we talk consent in LGBTQ+ spaces and whether it's okay to 'mug someone off' if you've invited them back for …

A Gay, A NonGay & A Non-Binary

April 24th, 2019

33:36

We talk a lot about being Gay & NonGay, but today Caitlin joins us for another perspective in our special episode A Gay, A NonGay & A Non-Binary. Host of BBC’s NB podcast, Caitlin joins us to help us understand …

Hugs

May 1st, 2019

12:45

Dan didn't make the rules but he's got some thoughts on man on man hugging. Plus who tf is Pete?


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Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks

Gay Relationships Are Hard

May 8th, 2019

21:50

James thinks back to his childhood and the effect that's having on his... boyfriend! Plus our listener Nic is having a meltdown so the boys offer support and there's A LOT of admin. This episode contains themes of sex …

Shawn Mendes

May 15th, 2019

14:51

Should NonGay people have to come out too? Plus there's a huge announcement about our first ever UK Pride Tour! Tickets are on sale now at 

Guacamole

May 22nd, 2019

9:28

James has something to tell you... he’s guacamole. Plus we dive deep on iced coffee and the need to feel special.


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NO SPOILERS

May 29th, 2019

13:30

Dan goes on a ridiculous rant, but NO SPOILERS.


Plus we want to see you next Saturday 8 June in London at our BIG SHOW - buy tickets at

A Gay, A NonGay and A Grandaddy with Armistead Maupin

June 5th, 2019

27:33

Happy Pride month! Iconic author Armistead Maupin joins James & Dan to chat about Tales of the City being turned into a Netflix Original in A Gay, A NonGay & A Grandaddy! The boys chat about our shared LGBTQ+ …

James' Big Weekend

June 13th, 2019

20:19

The curse of James announcing he has a boyfriend on the podcast and then having to retract it a week later continues... 😞


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Phubbing

June 19th, 2019

11:39

Is it okay for James to watch the RuPaul Final during our podcast recording? Are we allowed to be on our phones if we're hanging out with mates? Dan …

Pizza Pride 🍕🏳️‍🌈

June 26th, 2019

13:52

James & Dan are off to #WorldPride in NYC - both want inches, but of a different kind! Happy Pride from A Gay and A NonGay!


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A Gay, A NonGay and a Pizza? 🍕

July 10th, 2019

19:29

James and Dan are back from World Pride in New York. Did James finally submit to the lure of Scott's Pizza Tour? And is Dan a good ally? He doesn't think so.


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Jamie Dornan and Macklemore

July 17th, 2019

9:38

Dan is buzzing after James' DAD mistook him for Jamie Dornan. Will James accept this as proof that they look alike?


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Metro

July 24th, 2019

13:35

Dan writes an article for a newspaper that has James 'double tapping' for days Read it here: https://tinyurl.com/NonGayAlly


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Mae Martin

July 31st, 2019

20:00

Live from our big London show at The Underbelly in June 2019 - hear our chat with the amazing Mae Martin at A Gay & A NonGay Live!


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James 5

August 7th, 2019

8:46

Ever dated anyone with your own name? Dan is fascinated to find out what James does with James, er 5?


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Ikea or Death!

August 14th, 2019

9:43

Dan gets his tongue tied, and not just from kissing James! Plus we revisit a game from Dan's past.


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Live in Edinburgh : Jack Rooke & BBC Radio 1's Unexpected Fluids

August 19th, 2019

37:32

Surprise! We're live from the Edinburgh Fringe festival 2019 and bringing your feed extra GAY and NONGAY-ness every Monday and Wednesday. In our first recording, Dan's baked cakes 😱we invite gay comedian Jack Rooke on …

Live in Edinburgh : Jena Friedman

August 22nd, 2019

42:42

Live from the Edinburgh Fringe Festival 2019 and bringing your feed extra GAY and NONGAY-ness. Today we're joined by American political comedian Jena …

Live in Edinburgh : Richard Gadd & Christina Bianco

August 29th, 2019

28:00

From the Edinburgh Fringe Festival 2019 listen to our live recording with Richard Gadd and Christina Bianco. On today's episode James challenges impressionist diva Christina to make metal more ‘Gay friendly’ and the …

Live in Edinburgh : Sophie Duker & Jen Brister

September 4th, 2019

39:26

From the Edinburgh Fringe Festival 2019 - we've got some big dick energy in the house with our amazing guests - Sophie Duker and Jen Brister.


Plus we're so proud to announce our new three part BBC Radio 1 documentary

Live in Edinburgh : Rosie Jones & No Country for Young Women

September 11th, 2019

43:50

From the Edinburgh Fringe Festival 2019 - we're joined by 'triple threat' comedian Rosie Jones talking about her identity as a gay disabled woman, and how she discovered her sexuality, as well as the stars of BBC Radio …

Live from Edinburgh: Jodie Mitchell & Tom Ballard

September 13th, 2019

45:13

From the Edinburgh Fringe Festival 2019 - we're joined by drag king extraordinaire Jodie Mitchell and Australian comedian and late night TV host Tom Ballard.


We're so proud to announce our new three part BBC Radio 1 …

Live from Edinburgh: Suzi Ruffell

September 18th, 2019

45:20

From the Edinburgh Fringe Festival 2019 - Dan tells us about a rather sexy sounding exercise class he's been going to and we're joined by the incredible comedian Suzi Ruffell.


Come and see us LIVE! We've just announced …

Live from Edinburgh: Rhys Nicholson

September 25th, 2019

42:06

Live from Edinburgh the boys chat to hilarious Australian comedian Rhys Nicholson and ask the all-important question - is it Home and Away or Gay? …

Live from Edinburgh: Larry Dean

October 2nd, 2019

48:57

It's our final show live from Edinburgh & today we're joined by Larry Dean! He tells us if he’s a postman or a postbox, deciphers Scottish slang and talks about his hilarious show Fandan.


Plus if you want to come and …

An Outing

October 9th, 2019

17:46

Dan and James take part in an accidental outing, and Dan has an unexpected incident with a dog.


We're heading on tour in March 2020! We can't wait to meet you in Brighton, London, Birmingham, Manchester & Glasgow!

Live in London: Matthew Todd & ShayShay

October 17th, 2019

40:39

Live from the London Podcast Festival, Dan and James return to the stage joined by Matthew Todd, author of Straight Jacket and Pride, and welcome their first ever drag queen ShayShay.


YAY we're going on tour! We'd love …

James' Feet

October 23rd, 2019

10:20

James can't walk, and the doctor thinks it's chlamydia. What?!


Plus we're ready to bum you! We've just announced a huge 2020 UK tour! Get tickets now babes, tap here!


We're so proud to announce our new three part BBC …

Dan's mate's Dad wrote a Porno

October 30th, 2019

11:47

The boys celebrate marriage equality in Northern Ireland and James goes to a fancy awards do where he unexpectedly learns all about Dan’s ‘weird’ life at university.


We're touring the UK in March 2020! Get tickets now, …

Ellen loves Bush

November 8th, 2019

13:25

Dan still hasn't watched #DragRaceUK and the boys discuss Ellen's friendship with George W. Bush 👀.


Plus if you want to see us live at a show we're touring the UK in March 2020 - click here to buy tickets!


We're so proud …

Leaving the Westboro Baptist Church with Megan Phelps-Roper

November 14th, 2019

32:50

The Westboro Baptist Church, notorious for picketing funerals and spreading homophobia, are one of the most hateful and homophobic Christian …

Live in Manchester: Stephen Bailey

November 22nd, 2019

50:59

Live from the Manchester Podcast Festival. Dan and James have had a falling out 👀. The boys are joined by our voiceover Fiona live, plus we chat to one of our favourite comedians Stephen Bailey.

 

We're so proud of …

#NotAllStraightMen

November 27th, 2019

14:07

James has had enough of NonGay's after Dan moved in... for one night. Plus James has a new boyfriend but refuses to talk about it and we're announcing our 2020 UK tour 'The Podcast Tour' ! Why not 'bum' someone you love …

LGBTQ+ inclusive education with Olly Pike

December 6th, 2019

20:15

We chat LGBTQ+ inclusive education with amazing Children's Author/Illustrator and YouTuber, Olly Pike. This episode contains mild themes of bullying …

No Bumming Please

December 11th, 2019

19:58

The Bumming Tour is now called 'The Podcast Tour' in some places because we can't promote 'Bumming' on Facebook'. Dan met the Cock Destroyers and James is having trouble adjusting to having a boyfriend. Plus there's an …

Santa Strikes Back

December 18th, 2019

13:37

It's the most homophobic time of the year. James has censored 'Fairytale of New York' on his radio show but Dan notices a complication. Plus we welcome LGBTQ+ ally, Santa Claus, for an exclusive chat ahead of Christmas …

Best of 2019

December 25th, 2019

33:52

Catch up on the best of A Gay & A NonGay from 2019! We wish you all a happy holiday period and a fabulous New Year! See you in 2020.


Continue the …

Gavin and Stacey

January 8th, 2020

11:54

Happy New Year! Dan can't stop using his '2020 vision' joke 🙄and James is no longer a 'salon gay'. Dan gets defensive and Fairytale of New York is back... We discuss the fallout from Gavin and Stacey broadcasting the …

Twenty Twen-T

January 15th, 2020

15:25

We’re declaring 2020… TwentyTwenT – the year to actively go out of your way to stand up for our trans friends, especially when people like Sharron Davies are coming after them every day on twitter. 

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Plus Dan’s invaded a …

Friends forever?

January 22nd, 2020

13:07

The boys discuss how hard it is to keep friendships - but is it easier for LGBTQ+ people? Plus James thinks he's worked out how Dan's relationship works.


Continue the conversation in our new Facebook group, a safe and …

The big three

January 29th, 2020

15:07

James has said 'the big three', Dan is appropriating gay culture again and we chat about the BBC's official response to our Gavin & Stacy …

Fleabagging

February 5th, 2020

13:57

James is educating Dan about some 2020 dating trends, the library is back open and we're putting a load on.


We’re coming to see you hunty. Join us on our first ever UK tour, check out our dates below and tap here for …

Phillip Schofield

February 12th, 2020

16:58

The boys discuss the reaction to Phillip Schofield coming out as gay on national television, and the impact of ‘straight-seeming relationships’. If you’re affected by the issues in this episode, visit

The podcast tour is coming

February 14th, 2020

3:49

Happy Galentines Day. We're so happy to announce some of the incredible LGBTQ+ guests joining us on The Podcast tour 🏳️‍🌈🎤🎧! We can't wait to meet you and your friends this March :). Get tickets at

It’s Gonna Be Okay with MUNA

February 19th, 2020

27:11

James and Dan catch up with the ‘greatest band in the world’ for a deep dive into queerness, safe spaces for LGBTQ+ people, self-deprecating lyrics and self-promotion. Plus with everything happening in the world …

Double Standards

February 26th, 2020

16:11

What a dish! Is it ok for James to objectify people even though Dan can't? Plus we've got a very special adult tour announcement!


Join us for The …

Leather Jackets

March 5th, 2020

14:01

Dan and James chat about recent police raids on Gay Village dark room sex in Manchester. Plus our podcast has a brand new sound thanks to queer pop …

Live in Dublin with Colm O’Gormon & Rev. Chris Hudson

March 11th, 2020

35:13

This episode contains a priest swearing, themes of child abuse and gay conversion therapy.


To celebrate St.Patrick’s Day (yes we know it's next week!) we’re sharing highlights from our live show in Dublin. It’s one of …

Five Guys a Week

March 18th, 2020

15:22

Live from the gay and nongay bedrooms, the boys discuss James’ 'new Channel 4 show', and the problems with not hooking up during the Covid-19 outbreak.

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Dr. Ranj

March 25th, 2020

32:10

It's time for some facts from an actual doctor. We're joined by Dr. Ranj to chat Covid-19 and it's effect on the gay community. Are hookups okay? What does it mean for people living with HIV and can we still get pizza …

Lowkey Worker

April 1st, 2020

20:36

Has A Gay and a NonGay's life changed since the UK went on lockdown last week? Dan's a 'key' worker apparently but James has accidentally moved in with someone and things are maybe a little too intimate 😬

Get bonus …

Snatch Game

April 9th, 2020

18:22

Having watched a total of zero episodes of Ru Paul’s Drag Race, Dan gives his opinion on Aiden Zhane’s departure from the show, leading to an …

Camp

April 16th, 2020

20:32

James and Dan chat about an Australian interview with Tiger King's John Finlay, and we discuss the meaning of the word 'Camp' with British comedian Stephen Bailey.


We're also so excited to tell you about our new shop! …

Love Lives Here with Amanda Jetté Knox

April 22nd, 2020

32:33

It's Lesbian Visibility Week and the boys are joined from Ottawa, Canada by LGBTQ/mental health advocate and trans ally Amanda Jetté Knox. Her family’s incredible story is one of the most inspiring queer journeys' we've …

Owain Wyn Evans

April 29th, 2020

19:01

Famous for drumming to the BBC News Theme and throwing shade in his infamous drag queen weather, welsh weather presenter Owain Wyn Evans joins us for a 'cwtch' to chat acceptance, campness and his favourite contestant …

The London Patient: A Cure for HIV? Part 1

May 6th, 2020

20:20

We've heard about 'expendable' populations before, but last time they meant gay people.


32 million people have died of AIDS related illnesses since …

The London Patient: A Cure for HIV? Part 2

May 13th, 2020

21:55

"I remember all the people who died with HIV, they’re always in my heart and I want to be their voice".


This week we welcome Adam Castillejo, The London Patient - the second person in the world to be cured of HIV.


This …

Masc 4 Mask

May 21st, 2020

19:50

The boys are back and after weeks of amazing guests, it's just family this week. James & Dan chat about our latest documentary 'A Cure For HIV?', will Dan be taking an HIV test? Plus, is wearing a Covid Mask …

Circus of Books with Rachel Mason

May 27th, 2020

20:52

Have you ever wondered what it would be like if your parents owned a gay porn empire? 🍆💦. James and Dan chat to artist and film-maker Rachel Mason …

Black Lives Matter

June 3rd, 2020

1:48

A small audio note from us this week & some links


For ways you can support Black Lives Matter visit:

https://blacklivesmatters.carrd.co/..


Plus:


Anti-racism resources for white people: bit.ly/ANTIRACISMRESOURCES


Why …

Smells Like Mean Spirit

June 10th, 2020

21:53

James is upset with JK Rowling’s transphobia, Dan is fed up with Nirvana’s Krist Novoselic after his pro-Trump status and we welcome our listener Orren to discuss Black Lives Matter and the struggles of being both gay …

Love Supreme

June 18th, 2020

13:51

We discuss the long overdue US Supreme Court's landmark decision on LGBTQ+ rights in the workplace. Plus with transphobia and racism rife in the UK, does arguing with people on social media achieve anything?


Join our …

Dating Amber with Lola Petticrew

June 24th, 2020

26:37

A year after we travelled to Belfast for BBC Radio 1 documentary about so-called 'gay conversion therapy', the boys have an update on the state of …

Pride 2020

July 1st, 2020

13:38

Why is Britney a gay icon? Plus Dan's getting a drilling and James tells us his feelings on Pride 2020 after attending the Black Trans Lives march in London.


Shop our merch. Get your very own Pronoun Tee now with 10% to …

Breaking Hate with Christian Picciolini

July 8th, 2020

24:09

JK Rowling. Donald Trump. Central Park Karen. There's a lot of hate attacking our community and friends right now. Should we try to understand it? …

Dan's Beard

July 15th, 2020

11:56

Dan's beard pics are getting all of the likes on instagram, James is annoyed. Do straight men enjoy thirsty attention from The Gays™? Plus has the …

Welcome To Chechnya with David France

July 22nd, 2020

25:13

This is a very difficult, upsetting and triggering episode. Today we’re joined by director David France to talk about his latest film Welcome To …

Dan's Buns

July 29th, 2020

18:24

What do cooking pasta, crossing your legs and going to Paris have in common? Plus Dan’s been chased down the road again, this time it’s not a dog, but a Karen.


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Tomfoolery... and Dan The Poet

August 5th, 2020

12:56

There’s two exclusives this week. After his viral sensation The Great Realisation, the boys welcome incredible poet Tomfoolery onto the podcast to …

YMCA

August 12th, 2020

16:25

Trump follows Boris Johnson by stealing one of Dan’s catchphrases, and why on earth is YMCA his walk-off music? Also this week - do gay bars …

Erasure

August 19th, 2020

13:13

With so much erasure in the world, we felt it was time to catch up with British electronic pop legends Andy Bell and Vince Clarke, aka Erasure. 


They tell us about seeing George Michael on Grindr, being mistaken for …

Debbie Downer

August 26th, 2020

18:43

James is back from his camping trip and he's got a PSA, trim your bush! Plus is Dan a ‘Debbie Downer?’ 


Please support our podcast, your encouragement …

Chaz Bono on A Gay and A NonGay

September 1st, 2020

20:07

On today's show we welcome actor and transgender man Chaz Bono to the show. In his own words he wanted to talk to us about his experience to help combat the many misconceptions about trans people that exist in the UK.


We …

Trolls

September 9th, 2020

13:55

James’ birthday is ruined by trolls. Plus Dan now thinks he looks like Hollywood heartthrob Robert Pattinson (??)


Is Dan delusional? Let us know in …

#IKnewIWasLGBTQ

September 16th, 2020

14:31

When did James know he was gay? When did Dan know he was nongay? And why did Dan say goodbye to his "dream beard / mohawk"?.


Share your stories in our listener group at www.facebook.com/groups/gaynongay/.


Please support …

Live from Manchester’s Alternative Pride Festival with Mark Fletcher & Bright Light Bright Light

September 23rd, 2020

27:41

Dan and James catch up with Bright Light Bright Light and Mark Fletcher, the CEO of Manchester Pride.


Mark opens up about the racism and fetishisation he’s experienced whilst running the festival, and the unexpected …

Overcoming Gay Shame with Will Young

September 30th, 2020

27:12

James and Dan are joined by singer, actor and author Will Young. We talk about how to overcome gay shame plus Will opens up on his struggles with love addiction, disassociation & dealing with homophobic attacks …

World Mental Health Day

October 8th, 2020

11:43

Dan needs to say sorry to Will Young, there's a 'Things Dan Cannot Say - World Mental Health Day special' and James is answering your questions about depression in a 'non-depressing' way.


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If you're struggling with an …

Slayer

October 14th, 2020

14:47

My Metal God Wrote A Porno. Dan has booked a legend onto the show for International Metal Day, but it’s all just porn to James.


Get ready for International Pronouns Day! Visit www.gaynongay.com/shop to support our trans …

Musings

October 21st, 2020

12:02

James wants to talk about his love life but Dan has a lot of musings.


It's international pronouns day! Here's a few simple ways you can make our trans and non-binary family feel safe;


Include your pronouns in your social …

Pope Week

October 28th, 2020

12:35

Pope Francis has endorsed gays! Or has he? 


And we catch up with a listener who allegedly spills the tea on some allegedly gay priests, allegedly.

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You're cheap and you're haggard

November 4th, 2020

11:04

James is celebrating the all new non-homophobic version of Fairytale of New York but Dan has a questions.

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Confessions of a gay Metal God with Rob Halford

November 11th, 2020

27:14

Happy International Metal Day. Today on the podcast we are joined by the rainbow of metal, the Metal God himself, Rob Halford, frontman for Birmingham heavy metal legends Judas Priest. Wahey.


Rob came out as gay live on …

Devil Horns 🤘

November 18th, 2020

17:02

Dan is offended by James' attempts to ‘support’ heavy metal. Would you rate someone you’d slept with? And do nongays have body image issues too?

Get …

Ace and Base

November 26th, 2020

13:06

James is unhappy to discover his dog's sexuality and Dan's collection of asexual teddies are moving out.


Please support our podcast, your …

Leaving TERF Extremism with Beau Dyess

December 2nd, 2020

22:43

We're so over transphobia. Today James and Dan welcome Beau Dyess to understand where it comes from. Beau found himself at the heart of the 'Gender Critical' Movement between 2018 and 2020. Today he joins the boys from …

Boyfriend AGM

December 9th, 2020

14:25

James checks in on Dan after a worrying Instagram photo and updates everyone on the minutes from his relationship AGM.


Do you have meetings with your partner? Let us know, join our listener group at 

Live your best life with Jamie Windust

December 16th, 2020

31:00

James is emotional about Little Mix but Dan's ready to get our guest on.


Today we're joined by the brilliantly funny, feisty, and fierce Jamie Windust to talk about their new book In Their Shoes: Navigating Non-Binary …

Mrs. Claus with Divina de Campo

December 23rd, 2020

28:28

The magic of Queermas is upon us. James welcomes LGBTQ+ ally Santa back down our chimney for a third year but Dan's had enough... introducing Mrs. …

Be Our Guest 2020

December 30th, 2020

44:45

Some of our favourite, most inspirational moments with our favourite people to end an otherwise triggering year. It's going to be okay.


Featuring Amanda Jette Knox, Beau Dyess, Chaz Bono, Dr. Ranj, Muna, Mark Fletcher, …

Twenty-Twinky-One

January 6th, 2021

12:22

James is excited about 'twenty-twinky-one' but Dan is more excited about 01/21 - the month of Birmingham. Who are the 'gays over Covid' and what good news can we take from 2020? ...anyone?


Please support our podcast, …

Reading

January 13th, 2021

19:59

Dan’s got a new radio show and James is a fan, apart from the music. Dan is updated on the latest gay slang and we find out why James is talking about Dan in therapy.


Listen to 'Dan With the Sickness' on Spotify.


Please …

James has been deleted

January 20th, 2021

16:18

Dan refuses to admit that he 'fancies' one of the queens on RuPaul's Drag Race UK. Meanwhile, James is triggered by the deletion of his Wikipedia …

It's A Sin

January 27th, 2021

18:52

After binge-watching Russell T Davies’ iconic Channel 4 drama It’s A Sin, James and Dan reflect on the AIDS crisis and the similarities to Covid-19 for LGBTQ+ people.


The Terrence Higgins Trust hope to end new cases of …

Give HIV the finger

February 3rd, 2021

20:58

James and Dan take an HIV test for National HIV Testing Week in England. Plus there's a RuPaul Things Dan Cannot Say special and is James …

LGBTQ+ History Month with Lisa Power

February 10th, 2021

28:41

It’s LGBTQ+ History Month in the U.K. and we’re joined by historian, sexual health and LGBT rights campaigner Lisa Power - talking medieval gays, the early days of the AIDS crisis and her work on It’s A Sin.


Lisa's given …

Do The Admin

February 17th, 2021

16:02

Dan finds James' new found love of Valentine's Day hilarious, do the admin returns for a bisexual special and only Dan could end up leaving the food …

Becoming Eve with Abby Stein

February 24th, 2021

16:13

'I prayed to God to make me a girl'. James and Dan are joined from New York by Abby Stein - the first woman and the first transgender woman to be ordained as a rabbi by an orthodox institution. She talks about her life …

Blackness is inherently Queer with George M. Johnson

March 3rd, 2021

26:46

James and Dan are joined by award-winning activist and writer George M. Johnson - their memoir 'All Boys Aren't Blue', a story of growing up black and queer in America, is People Magazine's Best Book of the Year and a …

Juno Dawson

March 10th, 2021

28:31

We're celebrating #InternationalWomensDay with esteemed author Juno Dawson.


We ask Juno about the state of trans in the U.K. Are things better or worse for trans people, and how things currently are for trans youth …

Iconic Women

March 17th, 2021

15:00

Women are not safe. James and Dan chat about the toxic behaviour of some straight men towards women and James realises how our shame prevents us from speaking out. Plus Dan wants gays to stop calling everything 'iconic'.

1000 Days

March 26th, 2021

22:03

It's 1000 days since the U.K government promised to ban conversion therapy but still hasn't. James and Dan reflect on their BBC Radio 1 documentary 'Tell It: From Gay to NonGay' and chat to the co-director of CURED, a …

A Gay and a NonGay - with Louise!

March 31st, 2021

21:10

Singer, icon and LGBTQ+ ally Louise Redknapp joins us on A Gay and a NonGay today. We talk about the importance of her LGBTQ+ fans, playing alongside Britney, and how her mum thinks her gay friends are why she’s single. …

Is Metal homophobic?

April 7th, 2021

12:28

It's two weeks since the final of RuPaul's Drag Race and James refuses to credit Dan with correctly predicting the winner (spoiler free)! Plus, is …

Say Yes To The Cross-Dress - with Fat Mike of NOFX

April 14th, 2021

23:12

Dan and James are joined from California by legendary punk rocker Fat Mike of NOFX. This is an explicit episode.


It's quite the ride through BDSM, cross-dressing, sex dungeons, live-in sex slaves and being abandoned by …

Gender Reveal

April 21st, 2021

9:10

James is causing drama in his family WhatsApp group. Dan doesn't want to talk about Fat Mike.


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Sex, Drugs and Richard Coles

April 28th, 2021

30:26

Britain's favourite priest Richard Coles joins us to chat about partying in Ibiza in his 20's, being openly gay in the church and his late husband's …

Be Your Own Ally

May 5th, 2021

12:36

James had had an awakening, and we discuss Fat Mike's lack of showering.


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James' Bum

May 12th, 2021

17:04

James has posted his bum all over the internet, there's a Things Dan Cannot Say and a big gay announcement about our Big Gay Show!!!


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Cheugy

May 19th, 2021

10:49

Dan and James are both fed up with Lewis Capaldi being straight/boring. Plus is James cheugy?


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Daneskin

May 27th, 2021

15:53

James is excited that a rock song won Eurovision.... Dan less so. Plus, James gives his informed opinion on Glastonbury and the annoyance of NonGay events clashing with #Pride.

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Pride Month with Franco Stevens

June 2nd, 2021

19:44

We're starting Pride Month with power lesbian realness. Franco Stevens is one of the most important and influential figures in lesbian visibility. Today we chat about Franco's amazing story forming Curve Magazine, the …

Pride Month with Willam & Latrice Royale

June 9th, 2021

22:46

Today we're joined by RuPaul's Drag Race royalty and stars of the West End's hilarious new show Death Drop, Willam and Latrice Royale! James is …

Pride Month with Adele Roberts & Kate Holderness

June 16th, 2021

24:44

We hardly ever hear queer love stories so to celebrate Pride Month we welcome our first ever couple, BBC Radio 1 presenter Adele Roberts and her …

Pride Month with Dustin Lance Black

June 23rd, 2021

32:01

It's episode 250 of A Gay and A NonGay!!! Dan finally agrees with James on a long standing issue... Plus we're joined by screenwriter, fierce …

Pride Month with Tom Allen

June 30th, 2021

23:44

Dan and James are so excited to be joined by the hilarious Tom Allen. On the agenda - Why Tom is no longer waiting for the weather with Tomas Schafernaker, Dan sellotaping headphones to his ears, regifting, sourdough …

Gay Spellings

July 14th, 2021

16:54

James thinks this was the 'straightest' Pride Month yet? Meanwhile Dan has a revelation about his favourite Ace of Base song - and do gays deliberately mis-spell? Plus we chat mental health and botox!


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Bottoming

July 21st, 2021

19:11

Dan thinks he knows a thing or two about 'bottoming' 😂, and we welcome the return of an old friend, The Velvet Rage.


Our Big Gay Live Show is coming …

Don't Tell Nikki's Mother

July 29th, 2021

22:49

James and Dan are joined from Los Angeles by film executive, TV host & creator of the hilarious podcast Don't Tell My Mother, Nikki Levy. We hear the story Nikki doesn't want her mother to hear, plus there's …

Glory holes and Sourdough

August 4th, 2021

13:15

Ringlight my Fire. James keeps sending ring lights to Dan. Meanwhile Dan's been busy telling everyone he’s not an LGBTQ+ ally?! Plus we discover that sourdough is 'too long, wide and thick' for a conventional toaster.


Michael Gunning

August 11th, 2021

16:01

Today we're joined by British-Jamaican swimmer Michael Gunning. We chat about his journey as an openly gay member of Team Jamaica, Team LGBTQ+'s success at The Olympics 2020. plus Tom Daley's speech and what it means …

Bonus Episode: Bloodstock

August 19th, 2021

8:58

Dan's taken James to Bloodstock Open Air, the UK's biggest Heavy Metal Festival. We’ve been working on a top-secret project and we can’t wait for you to see it!!! More soon 😘.


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Vanessa Feltz

August 25th, 2021

25:03

Salutations... Today we welcome the icon, the myth, Lady Vanessa Feltz.


See us live babes. We're playing Underbelly Festival London on Friday 10th September! Visit www.gaynongay.com/live for tickets. We can't wait to see …

Straight Tax

September 1st, 2021

14:51

Dan is parading around as a Madonna expert and James is worried about getting trench foot. Plus, should straight people pay a tax to attend LGBTQ+ …

First Comes Love with Tom Rasmussen

September 15th, 2021

29:22

Does getting married make LGBTQ+ people ‘normal?’ Is getting married selling out to the patriarchy and heteronormativity or it is an act of activism? We are joined by singer, drag queen, writer Tom Rasmussen. Tom's new …

Sober

September 23rd, 2021

12:01

James is navigating life without alcohol right now and the boys discuss Lil Nas X's masterpiece, Montero.


If you'd like to chat non-drinking with us, …

Bonus Episode: Sashay NonGay with Anubis Finch

September 28th, 2021

12:47

Welcome to a bonus episode of A Gay and A NonGay and the first EVER Sashay NonGay Podcast!


Alongside your favourite straight man’s hilarious Ru-Cap videos on Instagram, we’re also putting out special bonus episodes with …

Big Gay Show with Felicity Ward, Sophie Anderson & Vanessa Feltz

September 30th, 2021

40:03

This live recording of our podcast features extremely adult content.


Finally! Felicity Ward, Sophie Anderson and as James puts it, 'the original Cock …

Bonus Episode: Sashay NonGay with Elektra Fence

October 5th, 2021

10:04

Welcome to another bonus episode of A Gay and A NonGay, The Sashay NonGay Podcast!


This is your official SPOILER ALERT. Today we welcome Elektra Fence! We play 'Snatch Game', discuss Jane McDonald's status as a gay icon …

Sashay NonGay with Veronica Green & Victoria Scone

October 12th, 2021

14:17

Spoiler Alert. Today we welcome RuPaul's Drag Race Royalty, Veronica Green and the show's first ever AFAB Queen Victoria Scone.


Veronica reveals that …

Billy Porter

October 20th, 2021

30:48

Theydies and Gentletheys, the icon, the moment, Billy Porter!


Billy Porter joins us to chat about his new song Children, Unprotected: A Memoir and his forthcoming Ryan Murphy film documenting his coming out as HIV …

The Male Gaze

October 27th, 2021

11:59

We discuss the straight male gaze and James thinks Dan might be a pot calling the kettle black after his comments at our Big Gay Show.


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Sashay NonGay with Charity Kase

October 28th, 2021

14:55

It's another bonus episode of A Gay and A NonGay, featuring alternative drag royalty, Charity Kase!


Charity talks about her shock sashay from the show, reveals the impact of the show on her mental health and her …

Sashay NonGay with Choriza May & River Medway

November 2nd, 2021

11:58

SPOILERS!


Sashay NonGay is back sweeties. River Medway officially launches Christmas for us, Choriza May discusses RuPaul's 'disrespectful' decision …

Sashay NonGay with Scarlett Harlett

November 6th, 2021

11:25

Every town has one, Scarlett Harlett! It's another bonus episode of Sashay NonGay, our mini series featuring the fallen queens of Drag Race UK Season 3! Spoilers ahead. Today Scarlett describes watching her untucked …

It's Raining Them with Mila Jam

November 10th, 2021

15:39

November is Transgender Awareness Month. Dan and James catch up with singer, songwriter, dancer, actress and LGBTQ+ activist Mila Jam.


Today we find out why it's ok to call straight men ‘girl', we chat pronouns and …

Josh Cavallo

November 17th, 2021

16:50

Dan doesn't do flowers or dead cats. James is celebrating Australian Footballer Josh Cavallo coming out and we find out what makes a gay wedding, gay... according to NonGay's.


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Bonus Episode: Sashay NonGay with Vanity Milan

November 23rd, 2021

10:29

It's another bonus episode featuring RuPaul's Drag Race UK's Vanity Milan.


We find out why Vanity near quit the show, what the producers of RPDR UK …

Brandan Robertson the Tik-Tok Preacher

November 25th, 2021

21:42

Today we're joined by the Reverend Brandon Robertson, writer, activist and preacher, who rose to fame during the pandemic as the TikTok Preacher. We’ll hear about the gays in the Bible, how the word homosexual wasn’t …

From Grindr to Grindcore

December 9th, 2021

12:53

Dan and James reflect on the release of their new BBC documentary ‘Sashay To Hell’ set at Bloodstock, the UK’s premier extreme metal festival. Spoiler alert, James still doesn’t like the screaming.


If you’re in the UK, …

A Gay Muslim's Journey to Acceptance with Mohsin Zaidi

December 16th, 2021

20:16

James and Dan are joined by iconic barrister, speaker and author Mohsin Zaidi about his must read memoir A Dutiful Boy, A Memoir of A Gay Muslim’s …

Christmas with Krystal Versace

December 22nd, 2021

10:14

We're serving Krystal for Christmas! James & Dan welcome the winner of RuPaul's Drag Race UK Season 3, Krystal Versace! We find out how she …

Be Our Guest 2021

January 5th, 2022

41:17

We're starting the New Year with major inspiration for 2022. Join us as we celebrate some of the most iconic voices from our podcast in the last 12 months, featuring Billy Porter, Juno Dawson, Vanessa Feltz, Dustin …

NonGay Resolutions

January 13th, 2022

16:57

It's our first studio episode of 2022! Will Dan stop saying 'whatnot' this year?! Can James stop sending Dan e-mails saying 'let me know?'. We're …

Pardon My Gay

January 19th, 2022

10:54

We discuss the UK government's pardon for historic same-sex convictions and talk about Priti Patel’s Anti-Refugee Bill. Plus James didn't think he needed to explain cruise bars to Dan, but he does.


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The Importance Of Pronouns

January 26th, 2022

16:35

James responds to an article in The Mail On Sunday, which suggested a piece he wrote about pronouns was 'misleading'.


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Four Lives

February 3rd, 2022

13:04

It's been a rough week for James as he discovers he’s been playing the wrong Wordle. We chat Grindr hook ups, the importance of our queer history and the new BBC drama Four Lives.


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LGBT History Month with Peter Tatchell

February 10th, 2022

32:26

In a very special extended episode for LGBT History Month, James and Dan are delighted and honoured to welcome the legendary British human rights campaigner, Peter Tatchell.


Originally from Australia, Peter has been …

Fake Jamie Dornan

February 16th, 2022

10:19

Dan takes his delusion to a new low as he starts a career as a Jamie Dornan look-alike. Need a (supposed) Jamie Dornan lookalike for anything? Enquire within.


FABULOUS NEWS! We're nominated as Online Influencer at the …

Kitty Scott-Claus

March 3rd, 2022

16:18

To celebrate 'Birmingham Day' (which may or may not be happening this year...) we welcome RuPaul's Drag Race UK superstar icon and ultimate hun Kitty …

'Heteronormative Hell'

March 10th, 2022

18:05

We've been nominated for a British LGBT Award! Vote now at www.gaynongay.com 🥇💗! Thank you so much, we love you!


How do you balance your queerness in a vaguely 'heteronormative relationship'? Plus today we find out if …

Chloe Moriondo has 'Straight Panic'

March 23rd, 2022

21:42

James and Dan welcome internet sensation Chloe Moriondo to our podcast 🐈. Chloe tells us about growing up queer on the internet, outing their friends, coming out backwards and the 'straight panic' it's caused now that …

Gay Happy

April 6th, 2022

13:05

James wants to know if you can be gay and happy? Plus is it okay for LGBTQ+ people to work with organisations with a problematic past?


Please vote 'James Barr and Dan Hudson' in the British LGBT Awards 2022! We're …

Sex Tape

April 20th, 2022

11:42

Dan gives James his Christmas present... in April! James discovers the true meaning of Banoffee Pie, and the boys discuss Pam And Tommy.


Dan is running a marathon this weekend and has raised over £4000 for Marie Curie. …

Dark Rooms in Deutschland

May 5th, 2022

12:48

James and Dan are joined by multi-award winning film director Sebastian Meise to talk about his new film The Great Freedom. We learn all about the …

Diversity and Inclusion for Straight White Men

May 12th, 2022

20:46

Dan and James are joined by Suki Sandhu OBE. He's a CEO and author of the book,  A Judgement-Free Guide to Diversity and Inclusion for Straight White Men


On the agenda - How can you tell when a business is just …

A Stand-Up Guy

May 20th, 2022

17:01

Do all straight white men live in Kent? James thinks so 😝. Dan's learning stand up comedy and we reflect on his enormous success at the Shakespeare …

Straight Jokes

June 2nd, 2022

13:29
Burn the bridge Becky. People keep telling James he's "too gay". In this episode we hear about James' new stand up hour 'Straight Jokes' and his experience working as an openly gay man in the media.


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Happily Ever Trans with Jake and Hannah Graf

June 11th, 2022

27:32

It's Pride Month and James and Dan are back with a whole host of fabulous guests.


First up, Jake and Hannah Graf the UK’s first transgender parents.


Ella Vaday

June 16th, 2022

13:21

James and Dan are joined by West End icon and RuPaul’s Drag Race UK finalist Ella Vaday! Nick shares his coming out story, we talk life after Drag …

Why is Love Island So Straight? With Sharon Gaffka

June 24th, 2022

19:54

As Pride Month continues, James and Dan battle logistical difficulties to welcome Love Island’s Sharon Gaffka, who came out as bisexual on the show …

This Arab Is Queer with Elias Jashan

July 1st, 2022

13:05

For Pride Month, the boys are joined by Elias Jashan, ‘Priti Patel’s worst nightmare’ and editor of the new Anthology This Arab Is Queer, the first …

Happy Pride! Acast's Audio Pride Parade

July 4th, 2022

6:58

Pride is a protest! LGBTQIA+ people face challenges and obstacles that heterosexual people don’t and today we proudly join podcasts all over the world by marching in Acast's Audio Pride Parade.


James chats about growing …

LGBTQ+ Football with Ryan Atkin

July 14th, 2022

23:23

We've extended Pride Month for a special chat with The FA's first ever openly gay referee Ryan Atkin ⚽️🏳️‍🌈. We discuss Jake Daniels coming out as the UK's first openly gay footballer, homophobia in sport, the …

Coming Out Out - A Gay and A NonGay's 300th Episode

July 25th, 2022

13:58

A Gay And A NonGay is 300 episodes old... or thereabouts 😘. To celebrate, James, Dan and Drag Race royalty Scarlett Harlett help our listener Matt …

Dan For Hire

August 8th, 2022

8:24

It’s official! Soon you’ll be able to book Dan as a Jamie Dornan lookalike. Plus find out why James won't be winning an award for Best Poster at the Edinburgh Fringe 2022.


A Gay And A NonGay is taking a break in August, …

Live in Edinburgh with Sikisa and Joseph Parsons

September 16th, 2022

36:05

🎉 James and Dan are back at the Edinburgh Fringe Festival 2022. Dan has trouble finding the clitoris 👀 and we're joined by comedians Joseph Parsons and life of the party (and Dan's stand-up teacher) Sikisa... Just …

The Monkeypox Outbreak with Martin Joseph

September 27th, 2022

23:32

"They locked me in a room and called me from the other side, they didn't know what to do. Every time I asked someone 'What is gonna happen now?' They said, 'I don't know'. I think that's the scariest bit".


Today we …

Live in Edinburgh with Jeena Bloom and Chloe Petts

October 7th, 2022

31:10

We're live in Edinburgh with LA Comedian Jeena Bloom and 'radical feminist, queer, football lad' Chloe Petts. Plus, 'Things Dan Cannot Say' returns with a question about gay bin men?

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Live in Edinburgh with Myra Dubois and Jen Ives

October 14th, 2022

42:52

Our final and funniest show of the Edinburgh Fringe Festival 2022 😂. We've reached Peak Trans as we're joined by the hilarious Jen Ives... and nobody is safe from Famous Celebrity and Very Huge Star, Myra Dubois.


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London Podcast Festival with Ki And Dee and Adam, The London Patient

October 21st, 2022

43:55

Are nipples the clitoris of the boob? We're joined by TikTok icons Ki And Dee (Chiara Hunter and Diana Vickers) to find out.


Plus James and Dan finally meet Adam, 'The London Patient' in real life. Adam is the second …

Can anyone become an incel?

October 28th, 2022

22:10

In a ride of an episode, James is shocked to hear that Dan thinks he could have easily been radicalised as an incel. Plus, is there a ‘gay code’ that …

Open

November 2nd, 2022

11:27

Is monogamy worth it or should we all just be open? If you're in an open relationship, does sleeping with other people make it more likely you’ll …

Live in Birmingham with Eva Echo and Dan Tiernan

November 18th, 2022

45:06

The boys finally rock up in the home of metal and canals for a live show in front of a home crowd (for Dan) They are joined on stage by Eva Echo, Director of Innovation at Birmingham Pride and trans activist - and Dan …

Santa Claus, The Serial Killer? with Mobeen Azhar

November 25th, 2022

21:51

How did a shopping mall Santa murder eight people before he was stopped? And what can the LGBTQ+ community learn from this case about how we treat each other? Dan and James are joined by journalist Mobeen Azhar to …

A Bad Week To Be Gay

December 7th, 2022

20:13

James and Dan reflect on the horrific attack on our community in Colorado Springs and discuss the England team's decision not to wear the 'One Love' …

Club Q Survivor Barrett Hudson

December 14th, 2022

12:16

On November 19th, an armed gunman opened fire on Club Q, an LGBTQ+ venue in Colorado Springs during a drag show, killing 5 people and leaving over 25 …

Best Of 2022

January 1st, 2023

34:55

In 2022 we had the privilege of speaking to some amazing people on the podcast. Hear from the second person to be cured of HIV Adam The London Patient, Club Q Survivor Barrett Hudson, legendary human rights activist …

Ex-ual Health

January 25th, 2023

19:39

Happy New Year! It's been a while but we're here again... James is newly single and in need of hole pics. Once he's got over bumping into his ex at …

Why Don't Gays and Lesbians Get Along Better? with Helen Scott

February 1st, 2023

22:33

Why is our community so divided? Why is there such disparity between gay men and lesbians? What can gay men do to be better allies to lesbians? Do we have anything in common at all? Today James and Dan welcome author, …

Where is the non-gayest town in the UK?

February 8th, 2023

13:25

We reveal the most officially non-gay part of the UK. It's the non-gayest of them all (N.O.T.A). Plus is saying the word 'triggering' triggering? 


Come and join us live at Just For Laughs Festival London this March! …

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