A Gay and A NonGay

Imagine being gay and having to hang out with your girlfriends straight boyfriend. This is the hilarious tale of two unlikely friends forming new friendships, challenging our preconceptions of each other and crossing …

The very first episode of A Gay & A NonGay.

James & Dan's mutual friend, Dan's girlfriend has gone away for a month and left them both at a …

James questions Dan's hatred of being tagged a lad, and Dan learns what 'On Fleek' means.

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James is affronted when he finds out that he is referred to as 'James 2' in Dan's life.

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James finally puts Dan in his phone but then learns something gross about his hygiene.

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One word... Chickens.

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James gets asked an awkward question and then puts Dan on the spot. Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed

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Dan and James get together for one last time in 2015 to talk weddings, beer and Christmas. It's a Christmas Special y'all! Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed

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AGAANG is back and James and Dan have decided to 'go professional' while discussing their love for Oasis and The Corrs. Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed

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It's Valentines - James is three months clean of tinder and introduces Dan to new the new dating app 'Bro'. Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed

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James forgets Dan’s birthday, we discuss open relationships, sausages and if your mum jokes are funny when you’re an adult. Get bonus content on …

James is upset that Twitter won't verify him, but Dan is more excited about his invite to the British Kebab Awards Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed

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James is mad about not being offered coffee, and we're talking about 'cleaning up' at other people's houses

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Dan & James dive into bush trimming and chat about all the men Dan's been having round Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed

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Dan is 'quite' emotional after a run. James is back from hanging out with star of Ru Paul's Drag Race ALASKA in NYC and there's THRUPPLE problems. …

Dan insists on further douche talk, James goes off on one about wedding lists and we discuss DIVORCE! Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed

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James brings us an emo look back at his and Dan's special friendship so far. A Gay and A NonGay returns soon.

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Dan and James are back and they've become such good friends they've been on holiday together. Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive …

Dan and James talk housemates asking weird questions and deciding who to let in through the front door. Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed

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James and Dan discover they're part of a new friendship trend. #RIPCrabs Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed

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Nongay Dan decides if he's a top or bottom whilst James' intolerably single life goes from bad to worse ... also are dicks nice to look at? Get bonus …

James launches a special investigation into an invasion of his privacy. There's one suspect, you guessed it, Dan. Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed

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Dan and James investigate The 36 Questions That Lead To Love Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed

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Has James had sex with a woman? Has Dan kissed a man? Plus uninsured pizza parties... Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed

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What does James do on a train when nobody's looking? And will he move to Paris? Plus the boys are accidentally going on holiday to New York together, …

What's more of a struggle? The LGBTQ+ movement or liking alternative music? Plus we're nominated for an award, and we've already rehearsed our speech. Yay! Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed

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A comprehensive BREAKDOWN of James' love life - or why giving 6/10 is not okay. Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed

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Dan introduces James to the bizarre concept of 'power sneezing', and James discusses the issues surrounding airport douching. Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed

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James is desperate to know if Dan thinks he's a 'slut' - but what does that actually mean? Plus the boys discuss the concept of 'expiry dating' and if James will be single forever. Get bonus content on Patreon, with our …

Does Dan know what a dark room is? Does James know what a clitoris is? The answer to both these questions is of course no. Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed

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James has a revelation about his approach to dating, and someone steals Dan’s toothbrush. A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com …

It's a No Meltdown special as we explore James' new lovebite as well as review how London Pride made us feel.

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Have you heard? Dan has a garden.

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We're on our holidays but in case you're new to the podcast, here's our best bits from the last year. Thanks for being a friend, we love you!

A Gay …

We're back! And someone has been tampering with James' wikipedia page.

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James breaks up with the most important person in his life while Dan has trouble connecting with his emotions (but in a shock twist, not his bum.)

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Today's lesson - don't ever offer Dan Hudson free food and then not give it him.

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Gross Alert! We had to rename this episode from the original title James gave it. Let's just say Barr discusses lots to do with his online video …

This episode is 'clothing optional'. James is back from L.A with a lot of tea to spill. The boys chat strip clubs, open relationships and why Dan takes so long to reply. Plus, how do you prepare for nongay sex?

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How long do you have to hang around flirting with a guy after you realise he's straight? Plus Dan's giving up his favourite word for October.

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Yay! It’s A Gay & A NonGay LIVE at the London Podcast Festival. We’ve had so many lovely tweets asking for longer episodes so we hope this satisfies your THIRST.

James chats coming out, Dan finally reunites with his …

James reveals all about his relationship with 'Dan 3' and is already thinking about the wedding. Meanwhile the boys discuss unsolicited dick pics, …

James tackles our first complaint while getting a masterclass in the branches of religion from Dan. 

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Plans are afoot for the next live show, but there's just one problem - James can't pronounce 'David Bowie'

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James has a BOYFRIEND... but his BF has a 'thing' for Dan?? Meanwhile Dan wants to invite James to an exciting new cookery class but it's bring your own WHAT?!

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Oh dear. James has a relationship update

Don't call it a 'meltdown'

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James is back obsessing about a certain other James... and don't you dare phone Dan unless it's an emergency.

Plus... AUSTRALIA, we love you and are so happy about marriage equality!!!

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Dan's in a mood and James is on the rebound.

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Turns out when you put things on the internet, people can hear them, as James found out this week from his ex.

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James thought it might be funny to do a 'would you rather' but, finds out from Dan that it's not.

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Dan is insecure. Or is he very secure? Discuss.

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How difficult is it being gay at Christmas? Is it James’ new year resolution to find a boyfriend? Plus we invite Santa into the studio for his first …

We just wanted to say thanks 💕

See you in 2018 for more meltdowns, wokeness, live shows and the return of James 3

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James tests Dan on our sassy new jingles which leads to more BOTTOM ADMIN chat. Plus our listener Jacobi's sent us a special cookery book... New Year New Eww! Soz.

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James comes face to face with his gym crush.

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Dan wants to ‘smash James’s poppadoms’ with his masculinity and James drags up some of Dan’s old social posts to see if he’s worthy of their …

James & Dan chat safe sex . What is PREP? Can it protect you from HIV and does it make you... erm, fart?

Find out more about HIV and the need for …

Dan thinks he looks like the HOTTEST MAN IN HOLLYWOOD. James does not agree.

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Do nongays have as many orgies as gays? James is back on the dating apps and shows Dan how Grindr works. Plus the results from James' survey are in - …

Happy Valentines Day - a day when James wants to call Dan 'Daddy.' Plus A Gay & A NonGay brings you an unexpected biology lesson about cows. Soz.

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Dan has a novel take on what 'bumble' might be for and James suggests a new approach to dating, inspired by Love, Actually.

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The UK's LGBTQ+ homelessness crisis is top of mind after James hosts Student Pride and Dan's asked our voiceover lady to record some special 'NonGay' …

A Gay and A Non Hat Wearer. ICYMI the boys reveal their sexuality. Why does James feel different after 2 months of taking PrEP? And Natalie Imbruglia has some surprising subliminal messaging in her songs.  

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Dan and James plan their night sharing a bed together, while James is jealous that Dan's more popular on instagram than him.

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James & Dan both break their promises for lent. Yep. It’s sp*** and meltdowns all in one place after James is triggered by the incredible new movie Love Simon. And we're getting ready for next weeks special episode, …

"Transphobia is the forest fire that needs urgent attention “

To celebrate and commemorate International Transgender Day of Visibility we’ve recorded a special episode with amazing author of books like The Gender Games …

We’re chatting bisexuality, James has his first Patreon Boyfriend plus Dan’s explanation of inverted hatred in the metal community is alarmingly familiar

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Dan has prepared a special ROCK game for James to 'enjoy.' James makes a phone call and gets an unexpected answer.

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Say what, we've been nominated for Best Comedy Podcast at The British Podcast Awards. Yay! James is "shook" and Dan has a problem with it. Plus the boys discuss Dan's new toy. Spoiler alert: it's a slow cooker. 

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It's finally time for James to apologise to Dan after he receives some listener feedback. Plus has Dan been deliberately 'cockblocking' James?

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Dan finds himself uncomfortable on a night out, while James stresses about becoming a home owner.

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Everyone gets a bit giddy when a trip to Berlin is mentioned. The least morning commute appropriate episode ever.

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James wants to talk about gay dads leading Dan to somehow accidentally volunteer to become a co-parent with James.

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We just won the Bronze Award for BEST COMEDY at the British Podcast Awards and consider us weeping and screaming all at once! Bottoms, Santa, Avril and Bumming - we thought you might like to hear what makes us award …

James has had 'hot sex with a hot guy' and wants to tell Dan all about it. Meanwhile, Dan has questions regarding a recent Amazon purchase.

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Dan's love of shorts comes back to bite him (IN THE BUM)

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James & Dan go to a festival, but James is too thirsty for all this NonGay chatter.

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We forgot to wish Section 28 a happy birthday, oops! And why is everyone going on about Russia? Ugh.

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James and Dan explore whether to talk about pronouns in daily life, and Dan is inspired by the fab five to dish out some advice.

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Would your family and friends be proud of you being LGBTQ+, even if it put themselves in danger? Should a gay person lie about their sexuality if …

Dan has 'the gist' of Pride, and James needs to remember this weekend is not all about husband hunting. Plus a case of vocabulary when the nongay …

Is James 'hysterical'? Is Dan being bullied? #SaveDan. Plus James is done with f*ckboys and Dan's had a tweet about ice cubes.

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Dan's back from celebrating his first ever Pride in Seattle! The boys discuss the anti-trans protesters at #PrideInLondon, and "what kind of fresh hell, is a lad?". 

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Dan has “finished The Velvet Rage” and is now the expert on gay men.

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Dan wants water, and knows an alarming amount about birds. Say hey to him if you see him at Brighton Pride this weekend, but James won't be there. Plus an announcement about our forthcoming 100th episode!

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Nothing makes James laugh harder than Dan's teenage band, and Dan has finally caught up with Queer Eye.

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We discuss James' recent DJ set at... 10 Downing Street. What should you do when politicians with questionable histories invite you round for tea? …

It’s official. Dan is ‘gay for pay’. Plus the boys are back from sell out shows at the Edinburgh Fringe festival where they discussed NonGay Jack Whitehall getting cast as Disney’s first openly gay character. Featuring …

Dan gets chatted up on the train and won't stop bringing up YMCA while James can't stop laughing at Dan's recent foray into the world of lip-sync.

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It's a short one this week as Dan and James get ready for their celebratory 100th episode!

Rule No. 1: Don't sexualise a banana 🍌

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It's episode 100 of A Gay & A Nongay! Can you believe? It's a long way from 'Hello' and NonHat wearers.

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Happy 101st! It's business as usual as James propositions Dan for some male bonding. 

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It's the end of Pride season in the UK and James has some upsetting thoughts. Plus Dan has a beard - does he need to keep it oiled?

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Dan reviews his queen of rock Avril Lavigne's new single at HIGH VOLUME, and there's a startling realisation about Dan & James similarity to Bert & Ernie.

Plus some important information on the Gender Reform Act …

It's getting cold but Dan is here with 10 fantastic reasons why you should wear shorts all year round, plus memories of the Solihull Library and Arts …

James tells Dan about his first boyfriend and everything takes a turn for a conversation we thought was confined to Gay & NonGay fanfic.

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Trigger warning : this episode contains discussion of depression and suicide.

James is having a difficult time and Dan knows a weird amount of Meat …

James wants you to know he is ok and discusses the stigma surrounding anti-depressants. We also talk ghosting, because it's Halloween and we love a tenuous link. How long can you be 'mugged off' before you've been …

We dive deep on the perils of Instagram and find that Dan doesn't even recognise his own humble brags. #Blessed

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James shares some upsetting but unsurprising news from Stonewall on LGBT mental health in the UK but Dan’s friend seems a bit bored of us discussing James’ depression on the pod. There's also some admin and both A Gay …

How easy is it keeping your friends if you talk about them on your podcast, never mind any new love interest? TLDR - James is no longer dating.

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It's a tale of two nights out involving semi-clothed men when James & Dan have both have a very triggering experience in each other’s worlds. Is …

A special episode for us to talk about how we feel about AIDS and HIV. December 1 marks the 30th anniversary of World AIDS Day. Launched in 1988, the annual observance highlights worldwide efforts to combat HIV/AIDS and …

A special episode for us to talk about how we feel about AIDS and HIV. December 1 marks the 30th anniversary of World AIDS Day. Launched in 1988, the annual observance highlights worldwide efforts to combat HIV/AIDS and …

Back together after the #RedRun, Dan shares his top tips on how to get over someone and is all this 'depression stuff' James talks about just …

You scumbag you maggot you cheap lousy f*****... is Fairytale of New York homophobic? Are radio and TV stations that play it uncensored in twenty-Gay-teen, implicitly homophobic? James & Dan have a new version, and …

Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays from A Gay & A NonGay where we're delighted to welcome Santa back down our chimney to spill the tea on his …

Dan’s had enough of James’ ‘meltdowns’ for one year, so he’s complied a Best Of full of his fave 2018 moments! Expect admin, your mum jokes and some …

#20GAYTEEN is over! Happy 20-bi-teen!

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Dan's world is thrown into confusion when a new moneymaking opportunity presents itself and James is cute to Dan. Swoon.

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James is back from a holiday to Miami with some new vocabulary, a new use for twitter and shocks Dan with an upsetting story.

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Fabulous means Fabulous and James uses the podcast as a sensible (!) way to communicate with someone romantic.

Mug someone off for New Year at our shop

James & Dan have a huge announcement, and with Boy Erased opening in cinemas in the UK soon the boys discuss gay conversion therapy with star and director Joel Edgerton.

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Dan has a big night out with his friends, and it's the most NonGay thing you've ever heard... or is it?

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James has done the maths on how many guys he's slept with and so has his mum! Dan has no idea who Timothée Chalamet is and Talia needs to press 15s repeatedly.

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Dan and James talk about Manchester Pride's decision to add black and brown to the rainbow flag. And what does "technically single" mean?

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Dan’s fed up of people asking him questions and James introduces Dan to gay twitter’s most iconic new meme - the Cock Destroyers.

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How NonGay is Dan? James puts him through a vigorous Kinsey Scale test - plus we remember Queer As Folk and the boys discuss the UK Government’s new …

What do Dan and James think of couples who call their partner "This One" on social media? We've a huge announcement about our BBC Radio 1 team up …

There's a lot of confusion around room odorisers and Dan has finally convinced James to go to the British Kebab Awards! And a brand new NonGay Eye as Callum asks Dan's advice on how to come out.

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Dan's discovered a new perfume that he thinks James might be into... 

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Dan and James feel like they're suffering from burnout but for different reasons.

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We catch up on the horrific change in law against LGBTQ+ people in Brunei and the subsequent protests going on at The Dorchester in London.

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Dan's got a pitch for our big live show at Underbelly Festival... get ready for 'Play Your Gays Right'! Plus we talk consent in LGBTQ+ spaces and whether it's okay to 'mug someone off' if you've invited them back for …

We talk a lot about being Gay & NonGay, but today Caitlin joins us for another perspective in our special episode A Gay, A NonGay & A Non-Binary. Host of BBC’s NB podcast, Caitlin joins us to help us understand …

Dan didn't make the rules but he's got some thoughts on man on man hugging. Plus who tf is Pete?

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James thinks back to his childhood and the effect that's having on his... boyfriend! Plus our listener Nic is having a meltdown so the boys offer support and there's A LOT of admin. This episode contains themes of sex …

Should NonGay people have to come out too? Plus there's a huge announcement about our first ever UK Pride Tour! Tickets are on sale now at …

James has something to tell you... he’s guacamole. Plus we dive deep on iced coffee and the need to feel special.

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Dan goes on a ridiculous rant, but NO SPOILERS.

Plus we want to see you next Saturday 8 June in London at our BIG SHOW - buy tickets at …

Happy Pride month! Iconic author Armistead Maupin joins James & Dan to chat about Tales of the City being turned into a Netflix Original in A Gay, A NonGay & A Grandaddy! The boys chat about our shared LGBTQ+ …

The curse of James announcing he has a boyfriend on the podcast and then having to retract it a week later continues... 😞

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Is it okay for James to watch the RuPaul Final during our podcast recording? Are we allowed to be on our phones if we're hanging out with mates? Dan …

James & Dan are off to #WorldPride in NYC - both want inches, but of a different kind! Happy Pride from A Gay and A NonGay!

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James and Dan are back from World Pride in New York. Did James finally submit to the lure of Scott's Pizza Tour? And is Dan a good ally? He doesn't think so.

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Dan is buzzing after James' DAD mistook him for Jamie Dornan. Will James accept this as proof that they look alike?

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Dan writes an article for a newspaper that has James 'double tapping' for days Read it here: https://tinyurl.com/NonGayAlly

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Live from our big London show at The Underbelly in June 2019 - hear our chat with the amazing Mae Martin at A Gay & A NonGay Live!

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Ever dated anyone with your own name? Dan is fascinated to find out what James does with James, er 5?

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Dan gets his tongue tied, and not just from kissing James! Plus we revisit a game from Dan's past.

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Surprise! We're live from the Edinburgh Fringe festival 2019 and bringing your feed extra GAY and NONGAY-ness every Monday and Wednesday. In our first recording, Dan's baked cakes 😱we invite gay comedian Jack Rooke on …

Live from the Edinburgh Fringe Festival 2019 and bringing your feed extra GAY and NONGAY-ness. Today we're joined by American political comedian Jena …

From the Edinburgh Fringe Festival 2019 listen to our live recording with Richard Gadd and Christina Bianco. On today's episode James challenges impressionist diva Christina to make metal more ‘Gay friendly’ and the …

From the Edinburgh Fringe Festival 2019 - we've got some big dick energy in the house with our amazing guests - Sophie Duker and Jen Brister.

Plus we're so proud to announce our new three part BBC Radio 1 documentary …

From the Edinburgh Fringe Festival 2019 - we're joined by 'triple threat' comedian Rosie Jones talking about her identity as a gay disabled woman, and how she discovered her sexuality, as well as the stars of BBC Radio …

From the Edinburgh Fringe Festival 2019 - we're joined by drag king extraordinaire Jodie Mitchell and Australian comedian and late night TV host Tom Ballard.

We're so proud to announce our new three part BBC Radio 1 …

From the Edinburgh Fringe Festival 2019 - Dan tells us about a rather sexy sounding exercise class he's been going to and we're joined by the incredible comedian Suzi Ruffell.

Come and see us LIVE! We've just announced …

Live from Edinburgh the boys chat to hilarious Australian comedian Rhys Nicholson and ask the all-important question - is it Home and Away or Gay? …

It's our final show live from Edinburgh & today we're joined by Larry Dean! He tells us if he’s a postman or a postbox, deciphers Scottish slang and talks about his hilarious show Fandan.

Plus if you want to come and …

Dan and James take part in an accidental outing, and Dan has an unexpected incident with a dog.

We're heading on tour in March 2020! We can't wait to meet you in Brighton, London, Birmingham, Manchester & Glasgow! …

Live from the London Podcast Festival, Dan and James return to the stage joined by Matthew Todd, author of Straight Jacket and Pride, and welcome their first ever drag queen ShayShay.

YAY we're going on tour! We'd love …

James can't walk, and the doctor thinks it's chlamydia. What?!

Plus we're ready to bum you! We've just announced a huge 2020 UK tour! Get tickets now babes, tap here!

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The boys celebrate marriage equality in Northern Ireland and James goes to a fancy awards do where he unexpectedly learns all about Dan’s ‘weird’ life at university.

We're touring the UK in March 2020! Get tickets now, …

Dan still hasn't watched #DragRaceUK and the boys discuss Ellen's friendship with George W. Bush 👀.

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We're so proud …

The Westboro Baptist Church, notorious for picketing funerals and spreading homophobia, are one of the most hateful and homophobic Christian …

Live from the Manchester Podcast Festival. Dan and James have had a falling out 👀. The boys are joined by our voiceover Fiona live, plus we chat to one of our favourite comedians Stephen Bailey.

We're so proud of …

James has had enough of NonGay's after Dan moved in... for one night. Plus James has a new boyfriend but refuses to talk about it and we're announcing our 2020 UK tour 'The Podcast Tour' ! Why not 'bum' someone you love …

We chat LGBTQ+ inclusive education with amazing Children's Author/Illustrator and YouTuber, Olly Pike. This episode contains mild themes of bullying …

The Bumming Tour is now called 'The Podcast Tour' in some places because we can't promote 'Bumming' on Facebook'. Dan met the Cock Destroyers and James is having trouble adjusting to having a boyfriend. Plus there's an …

It's the most homophobic time of the year. James has censored 'Fairytale of New York' on his radio show but Dan notices a complication. Plus we welcome LGBTQ+ ally, Santa Claus, for an exclusive chat ahead of Christmas …

Catch up on the best of A Gay & A NonGay from 2019! We wish you all a happy holiday period and a fabulous New Year! See you in 2020.

Continue the …

Happy New Year! Dan can't stop using his '2020 vision' joke 🙄and James is no longer a 'salon gay'. Dan gets defensive and Fairytale of New York is back... We discuss the fallout from Gavin and Stacey broadcasting the …

We’re declaring 2020… TwentyTwenT – the year to actively go out of your way to stand up for our trans friends, especially when people like Sharron Davies are coming after them every day on twitter. 

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Plus Dan’s invaded a …

The boys discuss how hard it is to keep friendships - but is it easier for LGBTQ+ people? Plus James thinks he's worked out how Dan's relationship works.

Continue the conversation in our new Facebook group, a safe and …

James has said 'the big three', Dan is appropriating gay culture again and we chat about the BBC's official response to our Gavin & Stacy …

James is educating Dan about some 2020 dating trends, the library is back open and we're putting a load on.

We’re coming to see you hunty. Join us on our first ever UK tour, check out our dates below and tap here for …

The boys discuss the reaction to Phillip Schofield coming out as gay on national television, and the impact of ‘straight-seeming relationships’. If you’re affected by the issues in this episode, visit …

Happy Galentines Day. We're so happy to announce some of the incredible LGBTQ+ guests joining us on The Podcast tour 🏳️‍🌈🎤🎧! We can't wait to meet you and your friends this March :). Get tickets at …

James and Dan catch up with the ‘greatest band in the world’ for a deep dive into queerness, safe spaces for LGBTQ+ people, self-deprecating lyrics and self-promotion. Plus with everything happening in the world …

What a dish! Is it ok for James to objectify people even though Dan can't? Plus we've got a very special adult tour announcement!

Join us for The …

Dan and James chat about recent police raids on Gay Village dark room sex in Manchester. Plus our podcast has a brand new sound thanks to queer pop …

This episode contains a priest swearing, themes of child abuse and gay conversion therapy.

To celebrate St.Patrick’s Day (yes we know it's next week!) we’re sharing highlights from our live show in Dublin. It’s one of …

Live from the gay and nongay bedrooms, the boys discuss James’ 'new Channel 4 show', and the problems with not hooking up during the Covid-19 outbreak.

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It's time for some facts from an actual doctor. We're joined by Dr. Ranj to chat Covid-19 and it's effect on the gay community. Are hookups okay? What does it mean for people living with HIV and can we still get pizza …

Has A Gay and a NonGay's life changed since the UK went on lockdown last week? Dan's a 'key' worker apparently but James has accidentally moved in with someone and things are maybe a little too intimate 😬

Having watched a total of zero episodes of Ru Paul’s Drag Race, Dan gives his opinion on Aiden Zhane’s departure from the show, leading to an …

James and Dan chat about an Australian interview with Tiger King's John Finlay, and we discuss the meaning of the word 'Camp' with British comedian Stephen Bailey.

We're also so excited to tell you about our new shop! …

It's Lesbian Visibility Week and the boys are joined from Ottawa, Canada by LGBTQ/mental health advocate and trans ally Amanda Jetté Knox. Her family’s incredible story is one of the most inspiring queer journeys' we've …

Famous for drumming to the BBC News Theme and throwing shade in his infamous drag queen weather, welsh weather presenter Owain Wyn Evans joins us for a 'cwtch' to chat acceptance, campness and his favourite contestant …

We've heard about 'expendable' populations before, but last time they meant gay people.

32 million people have died of AIDS related illnesses since …

"I remember all the people who died with HIV, they’re always in my heart and I want to be their voice".

This week we welcome Adam Castillejo, The London Patient - the second person in the world to be cured of HIV.

This …

The boys are back and after weeks of amazing guests, it's just family this week. James & Dan chat about our latest documentary 'A Cure For HIV?', will Dan be taking an HIV test? Plus, is wearing a Covid Mask …

Have you ever wondered what it would be like if your parents owned a gay porn empire? 🍆💦. James and Dan chat to artist and film-maker Rachel Mason …

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James is upset with JK Rowling’s transphobia, Dan is fed up with Nirvana’s Krist Novoselic after his pro-Trump status and we welcome our listener Orren to discuss Black Lives Matter and the struggles of being both gay …

We discuss the long overdue US Supreme Court's landmark decision on LGBTQ+ rights in the workplace. Plus with transphobia and racism rife in the UK, does arguing with people on social media achieve anything?

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A year after we travelled to Belfast for BBC Radio 1 documentary about so-called 'gay conversion therapy', the boys have an update on the state of …

Why is Britney a gay icon? Plus Dan's getting a drilling and James tells us his feelings on Pride 2020 after attending the Black Trans Lives march in London.

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JK Rowling. Donald Trump. Central Park Karen. There's a lot of hate attacking our community and friends right now. Should we try to understand it? …

Dan's beard pics are getting all of the likes on instagram, James is annoyed. Do straight men enjoy thirsty attention from The Gays™? Plus has the …

This is a very difficult, upsetting and triggering episode. Today we’re joined by director David France to talk about his latest film Welcome To …

What do cooking pasta, crossing your legs and going to Paris have in common? Plus Dan’s been chased down the road again, this time it’s not a dog, but a Karen.

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There’s two exclusives this week. After his viral sensation The Great Realisation, the boys welcome incredible poet Tomfoolery onto the podcast to …

Trump follows Boris Johnson by stealing one of Dan’s catchphrases, and why on earth is YMCA his walk-off music? Also this week - do gay bars …

With so much erasure in the world, we felt it was time to catch up with British electronic pop legends Andy Bell and Vince Clarke, aka Erasure. 

They tell us about seeing George Michael on Grindr, being mistaken for …

James is back from his camping trip and he's got a PSA, trim your bush! Plus is Dan a ‘Debbie Downer?’ 

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On today's show we welcome actor and transgender man Chaz Bono to the show. In his own words he wanted to talk to us about his experience to help combat the many misconceptions about trans people that exist in the UK.

We …

James’ birthday is ruined by trolls. Plus Dan now thinks he looks like Hollywood heartthrob Robert Pattinson (??)

Is Dan delusional? Let us know in …

When did James know he was gay? When did Dan know he was nongay? And why did Dan say goodbye to his "dream beard / mohawk"?.

Share your stories in our listener group at www.facebook.com/groups/gaynongay/.

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Dan and James catch up with Bright Light Bright Light and Mark Fletcher, the CEO of Manchester Pride.

Mark opens up about the racism and fetishisation he’s experienced whilst running the festival, and the unexpected …

James and Dan are joined by singer, actor and author Will Young. We talk about how to overcome gay shame plus Will opens up on his struggles with love addiction, disassociation & dealing with homophobic attacks …

Dan needs to say sorry to Will Young, there's a 'Things Dan Cannot Say - World Mental Health Day special' and James is answering your questions about depression in a 'non-depressing' way.

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If you're struggling with an …

My Metal God Wrote A Porno. Dan has booked a legend onto the show for International Metal Day, but it’s all just porn to James.

Get ready for International Pronouns Day! Visit www.gaynongay.com/shop to support our trans …

James wants to talk about his love life but Dan has a lot of musings.

It's international pronouns day! Here's a few simple ways you can make our trans and non-binary family feel safe;

Include your pronouns in your social …

Pope Francis has endorsed gays! Or has he? 

And we catch up with a listener who allegedly spills the tea on some allegedly gay priests, allegedly.

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James is celebrating the all new non-homophobic version of Fairytale of New York but Dan has a questions.

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Happy International Metal Day. Today on the podcast we are joined by the rainbow of metal, the Metal God himself, Rob Halford, frontman for Birmingham heavy metal legends Judas Priest. Wahey.

Rob came out as gay live on …

Dan is offended by James' attempts to ‘support’ heavy metal. Would you rate someone you’d slept with? And do nongays have body image issues too?

James is unhappy to discover his dog's sexuality and Dan's collection of asexual teddies are moving out.

Please support our podcast, your …

We're so over transphobia. Today James and Dan welcome Beau Dyess to understand where it comes from. Beau found himself at the heart of the 'Gender Critical' Movement between 2018 and 2020. Today he joins the boys from …

James checks in on Dan after a worrying Instagram photo and updates everyone on the minutes from his relationship AGM.

Do you have meetings with your partner? Let us know, join our listener group at …

James is emotional about Little Mix but Dan's ready to get our guest on.

Today we're joined by the brilliantly funny, feisty, and fierce Jamie Windust to talk about their new book In Their Shoes: Navigating Non-Binary …

The magic of Queermas is upon us. James welcomes LGBTQ+ ally Santa back down our chimney for a third year but Dan's had enough... introducing Mrs. …

Some of our favourite, most inspirational moments with our favourite people to end an otherwise triggering year. It's going to be okay.

Featuring Amanda Jette Knox, Beau Dyess, Chaz Bono, Dr. Ranj, Muna, Mark Fletcher, …

James is excited about 'twenty-twinky-one' but Dan is more excited about 01/21 - the month of Birmingham. Who are the 'gays over Covid' and what good news can we take from 2020? ...anyone?

Please support our podcast, …

Dan’s got a new radio show and James is a fan, apart from the music. Dan is updated on the latest gay slang and we find out why James is talking about Dan in therapy.

Listen to 'Dan With the Sickness' on Spotify.

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Dan refuses to admit that he 'fancies' one of the queens on RuPaul's Drag Race UK. Meanwhile, James is triggered by the deletion of his Wikipedia …

After binge-watching Russell T Davies’ iconic Channel 4 drama It’s A Sin, James and Dan reflect on the AIDS crisis and the similarities to Covid-19 for LGBTQ+ people.

The Terrence Higgins Trust hope to end new cases of …

James and Dan take an HIV test for National HIV Testing Week in England. Plus there's a RuPaul Things Dan Cannot Say special and is James …

It’s LGBTQ+ History Month in the U.K. and we’re joined by historian, sexual health and LGBT rights campaigner Lisa Power - talking medieval gays, the early days of the AIDS crisis and her work on It’s A Sin.

Lisa's given …

Dan finds James' new found love of Valentine's Day hilarious, do the admin returns for a bisexual special and only Dan could end up leaving the food …

'I prayed to God to make me a girl'. James and Dan are joined from New York by Abby Stein - the first woman and the first transgender woman to be ordained as a rabbi by an orthodox institution. She talks about her life …

James and Dan are joined by award-winning activist and writer George M. Johnson - their memoir 'All Boys Aren't Blue', a story of growing up black and queer in America, is People Magazine's Best Book of the Year and a …

We're celebrating #InternationalWomensDay with esteemed author Juno Dawson.

We ask Juno about the state of trans in the U.K. Are things better or worse for trans people, and how things currently are for trans youth …

Women are not safe. James and Dan chat about the toxic behaviour of some straight men towards women and James realises how our shame prevents us from speaking out. Plus Dan wants gays to stop calling everything 'iconic'.

It's 1000 days since the U.K government promised to ban conversion therapy but still hasn't. James and Dan reflect on their BBC Radio 1 documentary 'Tell It: From Gay to NonGay' and chat to the co-director of CURED, a …

Singer, icon and LGBTQ+ ally Louise Redknapp joins us on A Gay and a NonGay today. We talk about the importance of her LGBTQ+ fans, playing alongside Britney, and how her mum thinks her gay friends are why she’s single. …

It's two weeks since the final of RuPaul's Drag Race and James refuses to credit Dan with correctly predicting the winner (spoiler free)! Plus, is …

Dan and James are joined from California by legendary punk rocker Fat Mike of NOFX. This is an explicit episode.

It's quite the ride through BDSM, cross-dressing, sex dungeons, live-in sex slaves and being abandoned by …

James is causing drama in his family WhatsApp group. Dan doesn't want to talk about Fat Mike.

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Britain's favourite priest Richard Coles joins us to chat about partying in Ibiza in his 20's, being openly gay in the church and his late husband's …

James had had an awakening, and we discuss Fat Mike's lack of showering.

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James has posted his bum all over the internet, there's a Things Dan Cannot Say and a big gay announcement about our Big Gay Show!!!

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Dan and James are both fed up with Lewis Capaldi being straight/boring. Plus is James cheugy?

Get tickets to our Big Gay Show, visit www.gaynongay.com!

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James is excited that a rock song won Eurovision.... Dan less so. Plus, James gives his informed opinion on Glastonbury and the annoyance of NonGay events clashing with #Pride.

We're starting Pride Month with power lesbian realness. Franco Stevens is one of the most important and influential figures in lesbian visibility. Today we chat about Franco's amazing story forming Curve Magazine, the …

Today we're joined by RuPaul's Drag Race royalty and stars of the West End's hilarious new show Death Drop, Willam and Latrice Royale! James is …

We hardly ever hear queer love stories so to celebrate Pride Month we welcome our first ever couple, BBC Radio 1 presenter Adele Roberts and her …

It's episode 250 of A Gay and A NonGay!!! Dan finally agrees with James on a long standing issue... Plus we're joined by screenwriter, fierce …

Dan and James are so excited to be joined by the hilarious Tom Allen. On the agenda - Why Tom is no longer waiting for the weather with Tomas Schafernaker, Dan sellotaping headphones to his ears, regifting, sourdough …

James thinks this was the 'straightest' Pride Month yet? Meanwhile Dan has a revelation about his favourite Ace of Base song - and do gays deliberately mis-spell? Plus we chat mental health and botox!

See us live in …

Dan thinks he knows a thing or two about 'bottoming' 😂, and we welcome the return of an old friend, The Velvet Rage.

Our Big Gay Live Show is coming …

James and Dan are joined from Los Angeles by film executive, TV host & creator of the hilarious podcast Don't Tell My Mother, Nikki Levy. We hear the story Nikki doesn't want her mother to hear, plus there's …

Ringlight my Fire. James keeps sending ring lights to Dan. Meanwhile Dan's been busy telling everyone he’s not an LGBTQ+ ally?! Plus we discover that sourdough is 'too long, wide and thick' for a conventional toaster.

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Today we're joined by British-Jamaican swimmer Michael Gunning. We chat about his journey as an openly gay member of Team Jamaica, Team LGBTQ+'s success at The Olympics 2020. plus Tom Daley's speech and what it means …

Dan's taken James to Bloodstock Open Air, the UK's biggest Heavy Metal Festival. We’ve been working on a top-secret project and we can’t wait for you to see it!!! More soon 😘.

Our Big Gay Show is coming, visit …

Salutations... Today we welcome the icon, the myth, Lady Vanessa Feltz.

See us live babes. We're playing Underbelly Festival London on Friday 10th September! Visit www.gaynongay.com/live for tickets. We can't wait to see …

Dan is parading around as a Madonna expert and James is worried about getting trench foot. Plus, should straight people pay a tax to attend LGBTQ+ …

Does getting married make LGBTQ+ people ‘normal?’ Is getting married selling out to the patriarchy and heteronormativity or it is an act of activism? We are joined by singer, drag queen, writer Tom Rasmussen. Tom's new …

James is navigating life without alcohol right now and the boys discuss Lil Nas X's masterpiece, Montero.

If you'd like to chat non-drinking with us, …

Welcome to a bonus episode of A Gay and A NonGay and the first EVER Sashay NonGay Podcast!

Alongside your favourite straight man’s hilarious Ru-Cap videos on Instagram, we’re also putting out special bonus episodes with …

This live recording of our podcast features extremely adult content.

Finally! Felicity Ward, Sophie Anderson and as James puts it, 'the original Cock …

Welcome to another bonus episode of A Gay and A NonGay, The Sashay NonGay Podcast!

This is your official SPOILER ALERT. Today we welcome Elektra Fence! We play 'Snatch Game', discuss Jane McDonald's status as a gay icon …

Spoiler Alert. Today we welcome RuPaul's Drag Race Royalty, Veronica Green and the show's first ever AFAB Queen Victoria Scone.

Veronica reveals that …

Theydies and Gentletheys, the icon, the moment, Billy Porter!

Billy Porter joins us to chat about his new song Children, Unprotected: A Memoir and his forthcoming Ryan Murphy film documenting his coming out as HIV …

We discuss the straight male gaze and James thinks Dan might be a pot calling the kettle black after his comments at our Big Gay Show.

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It's another bonus episode of A Gay and A NonGay, featuring alternative drag royalty, Charity Kase!

Charity talks about her shock sashay from the show, reveals the impact of the show on her mental health and her …

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Sashay NonGay is back sweeties. River Medway officially launches Christmas for us, Choriza May discusses RuPaul's 'disrespectful' decision …

Every town has one, Scarlett Harlett! It's another bonus episode of Sashay NonGay, our mini series featuring the fallen queens of Drag Race UK Season 3! Spoilers ahead. Today Scarlett describes watching her untucked …

November is Transgender Awareness Month. Dan and James catch up with singer, songwriter, dancer, actress and LGBTQ+ activist Mila Jam.

Today we find out why it's ok to call straight men ‘girl', we chat pronouns and …

Dan doesn't do flowers or dead cats. James is celebrating Australian Footballer Josh Cavallo coming out and we find out what makes a gay wedding, gay... according to NonGay's.

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It's another bonus episode featuring RuPaul's Drag Race UK's Vanity Milan.

We find out why Vanity near quit the show, what the producers of RPDR UK …

Today we're joined by the Reverend Brandon Robertson, writer, activist and preacher, who rose to fame during the pandemic as the TikTok Preacher. We’ll hear about the gays in the Bible, how the word homosexual wasn’t …

Dan and James reflect on the release of their new BBC documentary ‘Sashay To Hell’ set at Bloodstock, the UK’s premier extreme metal festival. Spoiler alert, James still doesn’t like the screaming.

If you’re in the UK, …

James and Dan are joined by iconic barrister, speaker and author Mohsin Zaidi about his must read memoir A Dutiful Boy, A Memoir of A Gay Muslim’s …

We're serving Krystal for Christmas! James & Dan welcome the winner of RuPaul's Drag Race UK Season 3, Krystal Versace! We find out how she …

We're starting the New Year with major inspiration for 2022. Join us as we celebrate some of the most iconic voices from our podcast in the last 12 months, featuring Billy Porter, Juno Dawson, Vanessa Feltz, Dustin …

It's our first studio episode of 2022! Will Dan stop saying 'whatnot' this year?! Can James stop sending Dan e-mails saying 'let me know?'. We're …

We discuss the UK government's pardon for historic same-sex convictions and talk about Priti Patel’s Anti-Refugee Bill. Plus James didn't think he needed to explain cruise bars to Dan, but he does.

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James responds to an article in The Mail On Sunday, which suggested a piece he wrote about pronouns was 'misleading'.

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It's been a rough week for James as he discovers he’s been playing the wrong Wordle. We chat Grindr hook ups, the importance of our queer history and the new BBC drama Four Lives.

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In a very special extended episode for LGBT History Month, James and Dan are delighted and honoured to welcome the legendary British human rights campaigner, Peter Tatchell.

Originally from Australia, Peter has been …

Dan takes his delusion to a new low as he starts a career as a Jamie Dornan look-alike. Need a (supposed) Jamie Dornan lookalike for anything? Enquire within.

FABULOUS NEWS! We're nominated as Online Influencer at the …

To celebrate 'Birmingham Day' (which may or may not be happening this year...) we welcome RuPaul's Drag Race UK superstar icon and ultimate hun Kitty …

We've been nominated for a British LGBT Award! Vote now at www.gaynongay.com 🥇💗! Thank you so much, we love you!

How do you balance your queerness in a vaguely 'heteronormative relationship'? Plus today we find out if …

James and Dan welcome internet sensation Chloe Moriondo to our podcast 🐈. Chloe tells us about growing up queer on the internet, outing their friends, coming out backwards and the 'straight panic' it's caused now that …

James wants to know if you can be gay and happy? Plus is it okay for LGBTQ+ people to work with organisations with a problematic past?

Please vote 'James Barr and Dan Hudson' in the British LGBT Awards 2022! We're …

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Dan gives James his Christmas present... in April! James discovers the true meaning of Banoffee Pie, and the boys discuss Pam And Tommy.

Dan is running a marathon this weekend and has raised over £4000 for Marie Curie. …

James and Dan are joined by multi-award winning film director Sebastian Meise to talk about his new film The Great Freedom. We learn all about the …

Dan and James are joined by Suki Sandhu OBE. He's a CEO and author of the book,  A Judgement-Free Guide to Diversity and Inclusion for Straight White Men

On the agenda - How can you tell when a business is just …

Do all straight white men live in Kent? James thinks so 😝. Dan's learning stand up comedy and we reflect on his enormous success at the Shakespeare …

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It's Pride Month and James and Dan are back with a whole host of fabulous guests.

First up, Jake and Hannah Graf the UK’s first transgender parents.

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James and Dan are joined by West End icon and RuPaul’s Drag Race UK finalist Ella Vaday! Nick shares his coming out story, we talk life after Drag …

As Pride Month continues, James and Dan battle logistical difficulties to welcome Love Island’s Sharon Gaffka, who came out as bisexual on the show …

For Pride Month, the boys are joined by Elias Jashan, ‘Priti Patel’s worst nightmare’ and editor of the new Anthology This Arab Is Queer, the first …

Pride is a protest! LGBTQIA+ people face challenges and obstacles that heterosexual people don’t and today we proudly join podcasts all over the world by marching in Acast's Audio Pride Parade.

James chats about growing …

We've extended Pride Month for a special chat with The FA's first ever openly gay referee Ryan Atkin ⚽️🏳️‍🌈. We discuss Jake Daniels coming out as the UK's first openly gay footballer, homophobia in sport, the …

A Gay And A NonGay is 300 episodes old... or thereabouts 😘. To celebrate, James, Dan and Drag Race royalty Scarlett Harlett help our listener Matt …

It’s official! Soon you’ll be able to book Dan as a Jamie Dornan lookalike. Plus find out why James won't be winning an award for Best Poster at the Edinburgh Fringe 2022.

A Gay And A NonGay is taking a break in August, …

🎉 James and Dan are back at the Edinburgh Fringe Festival 2022. Dan has trouble finding the clitoris 👀 and we're joined by comedians Joseph Parsons and life of the party (and Dan's stand-up teacher) Sikisa... Just …

"They locked me in a room and called me from the other side, they didn't know what to do. Every time I asked someone 'What is gonna happen now?' They said, 'I don't know'. I think that's the scariest bit".

Today we …

We're live in Edinburgh with LA Comedian Jeena Bloom and 'radical feminist, queer, football lad' Chloe Petts. Plus, 'Things Dan Cannot Say' returns with a question about gay bin men?

Our final and funniest show of the Edinburgh Fringe Festival 2022 😂. We've reached Peak Trans as we're joined by the hilarious Jen Ives... and nobody is safe from Famous Celebrity and Very Huge Star, Myra Dubois.

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Are nipples the clitoris of the boob? We're joined by TikTok icons Ki And Dee (Chiara Hunter and Diana Vickers) to find out.

Plus James and Dan finally meet Adam, 'The London Patient' in real life. Adam is the second …

In a ride of an episode, James is shocked to hear that Dan thinks he could have easily been radicalised as an incel. Plus, is there a ‘gay code’ that …

Is monogamy worth it or should we all just be open? If you're in an open relationship, does sleeping with other people make it more likely you’ll …

The boys finally rock up in the home of metal and canals for a live show in front of a home crowd (for Dan) They are joined on stage by Eva Echo, Director of Innovation at Birmingham Pride and trans activist - and Dan …

How did a shopping mall Santa murder eight people before he was stopped? And what can the LGBTQ+ community learn from this case about how we treat each other? Dan and James are joined by journalist Mobeen Azhar to …

James and Dan reflect on the horrific attack on our community in Colorado Springs and discuss the England team's decision not to wear the 'One Love' …

On November 19th, an armed gunman opened fire on Club Q, an LGBTQ+ venue in Colorado Springs during a drag show, killing 5 people and leaving over 25 …

In 2022 we had the privilege of speaking to some amazing people on the podcast. Hear from the second person to be cured of HIV Adam The London Patient, Club Q Survivor Barrett Hudson, legendary human rights activist …

Happy New Year! It's been a while but we're here again... James is newly single and in need of hole pics. Once he's got over bumping into his ex at …

Why is our community so divided? Why is there such disparity between gay men and lesbians? What can gay men do to be better allies to lesbians? Do we have anything in common at all? Today James and Dan welcome author, …

We reveal the most officially non-gay part of the UK. It's the non-gayest of them all (N.O.T.A). Plus is saying the word 'triggering' triggering? 

Come and join us live at Just For Laughs Festival London this March! …